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Yes i mostly agree with you. I never knew they weren’t real teachers. I will watch it then!!

I didnt say he flew to the philippines. I said he unites with them

id rather be dumb than defending a pedo

Lmao, of course he came back uniting with the Philippines first. Korean celebrities always go to the Philippines after they do somethig scandalous. It was soooo obvious

I know what you mean!! That’s why i also love to watch bullying revenge dramas. Because I feel understood and seeing the bullies hurt is satisfying to me. I have so much anger towards bullies and I’m angry everytime when in real life or in dramas the bullied person got revenge and then people defend the bullies by saying: ,,being bullied is not an excuse to do that and that to your bullies’’. The bullied person’s life was a hell and suddenly when they stand up for themselves they are the problem.

And omg!! As i mentioned i really wanted to watch this drama but I think I’m blind because I had no idea they weren’t real teachers and I assumed the teacher hit the student and I became uncomfortable. This changes so much!!!! Now I will definitely watch this drama!

Of course i didnt switch up on being on Koreans side but if someone finds the drama awesome and interesting then try to understand at least a little bit why Koreans are angry. Because people make them evil while doing the same.

I appreciate that you find it heartbreaking. Even if people have different opinions you still feel empathy towards them. It’s very kind of you.

Of course there are different type of people who were bullied. Some will agree with me and some with agree with you. So that’s why I said ,,I’m feeling uncomfortable’’. Because I’m not saying what a person should do or not to do. I only share my feelings since this is a comment section. And nooo, I don’t defend bullies!! I said they should be called out! I do wish my bullies hurt but… by me. Probably a coping mechanism of mine because if i hurt them back I would feel strong so they won’t think that I’m a forever this weak quiet kid they used to bully. I’m during my therapy and it’s a long way for me because I still think that if my defender (i’m not sure if that word exists 😅) would beat up my bully for me I would feel sorry for my bully. And I really don’t like this. And especially because of the teacher-student dynamic. At this moment, if someone would hit my bully for me I would feel bad for my bully but it doesn’t mean I wouldn’t be grateful for them for standing up to me. I would cry out of happiness and always thanked them. People rarely react when someone is bullied so I would be grateful for simply saying: ,,leave her alone’’. It wouldn’t work on the bully but at least i would know i was not alone. I still need to mature more.

WAIT! NA HWAJIN ISN’T A TEACHER?!?!?! That changes the whole situation now 😲

Yes I wish. I had people that I considered best friends that time but no one ever defended me. When I was 18 one of them embarassed me in front of high school students. She was my best friend for 11 years and then after she saw everything I’ve been through (because beside being best friends we were always classmates in kindergarten, elementary school and high school) she said she had never seen me being bullied. So no one ever defended me. I never defended myself, even which i regret now because those rats love quiet and unproblematic kids. Teachers say: ,,don’t react so they stop’’. But the more you keep silent the more they bully you. So I do know how it feels. But at the same time my nervous system isn’t that brave to see a teacher potentially hitting my bullies. Sorry if I sound like I’m trauma dumping you but I’m just very open mided to speak up about me being bullied before. I think its important to not treat this as a secret or taboo topic because it’s kind of defending your bullies. And bullies should be called out. Not everyone’s case is the same so I understand that!! One time when I was about 13 my bully fought with a girl in our clasroom. Literally fought with fists. When she hit him and he made her nose bleed it was too much for me. My mom had to pick me up from school because I had panic attack. And thats why i think i would react the same if a teacher would be violent towards any student, even if he was my bully. For some reason i would rather to hit him myself so it’s not like i think that physical fight is always wrong. If you want to beat up a monster in the body of a human then i cheer for you. But i feel very uncomfortable with the student-teacher dynamic.

Also, don’t misunderstand me. I’m not saying about this kdrama like unrealistic revenge 😅

I’m not saying you can discipline them only by words. If you really want something abusive to teach them a lesson then I think revenge is better than that.

I replied above. No, i wasn’t a teacher and I wouldn’t want to be one because I was a witness of what teachers had to go through. But I was bullied for my whole childhood and teenage years. Then i adapted ocd, cptsd, social phobia, depression, suicide attempts and more. I still hate that I must hurt and go through the therapy but they live happily and they don’t even remember my existence anymore. I was also phisically abused so I’m against violence even more. If he wanted to beat him up, he could do that masking his identity or wait until they are expelled from school. There are many ways to not beat the student among the whole school.

And in the school among other teachers and students… I was bullied for my whole childhood and teenage life. But I would have panic attack if I saw my teacher hitting boys who bullied me. I have now cptsd, ocd, i went through depression and social phobia because of bullying. But I still wouldn’t want to see it…

,,Discipline themselves’’ i know what you mean by that but it’s still the same thinking as those abusive parents think: ,,i don’t beat them. i just discipline them’’. Is abusing the only way to discipline someone? Those students monsters won’t change anyway. So it’s better to think how to make them not hurt the others anymore

I don’t know what to think. I really want to watch this drama but I felt uncomfortable seeing a teacher hitting the student. No matter what he did, he was still a teacher not a random man who could hit him. Also, I’m totally on Koreans’ side. Westerners as always critize Koreans not knowing anything about their culture or situations. Koreans put their all to cancel the webtoon. The webtoon was so misogynistic, racist and problematic that the whole Naver was canceled. This webtoon was literally a huge wave. Everyone knew it. You all say Koreans are misogynistic and racist and then its them who cancel the webtoon while you worship its live adaptation. Westerners are such hypocrites.

oh i take my words back. he’s friends with a cheater Jung Woosung

Did he rejected casting in Teach You a Lesson by himself? If that’s so, that was very feminist of him and impressing. Actors and actresses who played in this drama followed only the need of money but he followed his values.

Didn’t he show up his grooming tendencies towards Danielle from NewJeans?

Do you mean you don’t know what I’m saying? 😅 Of course as I said before, you might be less of a bad person than the people who actually did something bad but if you are still friends with them or hang out with them it means you accept that. People constantly bring up men having problematic friends and that they can’t support them because of that and no one call them men hater but when I once did that with a woman suddenly I’m a misogynist. As if my account wasn’t mostly about critizing problematic men and complimenting talented and sweet women on this app. It’s rare for me to critise woman but because of people like her I was always afraid that i’m a fake women supporter if I critise a woman. Because you can say something slightly negative about a woman and chronically online gen z people will call you a misogynist. It has nothing to do with a gender and i on purpose listed all the problematic men she supports not to blame her for it but to notice how many problematic people she supports at once and all of them are men. I do the same with men. For example Hong Kyung, Jung Haein, Lee Donghwi and more. All of those actors are friends with cheaters and racists. So I call them out too. With Jiyeon im especially disappointed because I wanted to support her due to her great acting and lovely filmography.

Yes! After my comments on men profiles someone could assume i hate all men (well… kind of because why most of them are always men?!) but there are indeed talented and unproblematic male actors people could talk about. But they always choose problematic ones with no acting skills. Then what is is that they support about him and other men like him if they have nothing to offer? No personality, no acting skills, problematic actions… they don’t even watch their productions for art. They only watch them because they act in them and then they hate on their female leads.

Man can’t act, is mysogynystic, hates his own wife, trapped her with children, controls her while doing worse things himself, is manipulative, toxic and who knows what else. I wouldn’t be surprised if he blackamailed her over something so that’s why she’s staying with him. It’s not rare to see in popular super rich couple’s relationships. There were even some dramas based on this. My favorite artists who played with him in productions aren’t friends with him so at least I know that even people who know him personally see his disgusting personality.