I think all those forgiveness scenes were not for the people but for Dusik himself. Even though we can clearly…
We get that. What we're talking about is how he was not even given a proper apology. Back then he was wrongfully blamed until he considered killing himself. Years later, they realized he actually did nothing wrong but didn't even apologize. Du Shik is on his way to healing but the Do Ha and Seon Ah are intentionally omitting apologizing to him & that's what's making us mad.
Lemme sing it's praises again: it perfectly sits in between mellow slice of life and rom-com. It's a rom-com and typical plot for the second couple but a totally refreshing healing for the first couple. Male lead is high likely autism coded: not your typical male lead and that makes my everything for a neurodivergent. Female lead perfectly takes her time to adjust herself to male lead and that's a wonderful thing. A lot of neurotypical wouldn't go as far especially if they live in a stereotypical closed minded society (yes Korean society still is, seeing how neurodivergents & queers are barely being represented now) it's also got queer representation which is absolutely wonderful. I'm also glad that Dan Ah apologized for faking being queer, I'm glad there was character development for her.
I guess people on MDL are understanding, I actually saw people saying he was somewhat at fault on other websites,…
Exactly! I don't know for others but for me, receiving apologies from someone who's unjustifiably hurt me is part of my trauma healing. Idk for others but neither do I get what the writers were thinking. It really doesn't sit right with me.
ON A LIGHTER NOTE, I'm glad Ijoonie was able to let out what he needed to let out. A nine years old should never have to grow up quickly to not be hurt about his parents not being together, a nine years old shouldn't have to hurt for wanting his parents to be together. I really only cried because of him in this episode. Him being mature was sign that as of six, he thought of growing up quickly to be understanding of them, not to be hurt about it because that's not what they'd want. Kids are sensitive like this. They're not born adults. But they feel forced to grow because their sensitivity is never considered.
The tragic trauma, albeit being tragic was not traumatic at all. ML was not at all at fault even remotely close.…
No one gets to say what's to be traumatic for someone and what's not to be. Du shik blamed himself and was driven to blame himself over people losing their lives. LOSING THEIR LIVES & WANTING TO. especially someone with a kind heart like him thinking that people are dying because of him, it's understandable.
I'm glad I took to mdl, I'm not the only one who thinks he was unfairly blamed. I mean, he's got so blamed that he considered suicide that night, that's no small thing! It was about two person's life, in the same night. And he's blamed for it when his intentions were no where near hurting people! It feels like they assumed he's effortlessly evil just because they were suffering and fucking none of them dared apologizing. Even the woman dared saying she won't. What in fuck?! She would have been glad that Du Shik eventually killed himself, wouldn't she? This is really triggering for someone suicidal.
Even the dumb people can tell it wasn't his fault. But he took it on him..And such person only exist in novel…
I'm glad I came here๐ญ people in the comments of kissasian really diminished the fact that the undeserved blame he got making him suicidal in that moment to "they were suffering & needed a scapegoat" what kind of human are you to blame someone who's not in the least evil for someone's death and someone else's suicidal attempt?! It's someone's life & we're blaming it on someone who did nothing wrong? Wow, okay.
Ok what was today's episode? I honestly found it very badly written, it was just overly dramatic without sense?…
Finally! People in the comments of where i watched it kept going "they needed someone to blame", to blame the death of someone & the suicide attempt of someone else?! And what, they needed someone to blame?! Do they realize how much of an impact it would have on someone who's not in the least evil nor even at fault in the first place? But people in those comments agree that it was okay for him to suffer for their sake?! For their peace of mind? I'm more than mad myself, for a trauma survivor myself.