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LBY is worldly and CSS in quite naive. The contrast between these two. He is gaining her trust slowly. The one character flaw is they both go after revenge. LBY does it on the world stage and CSS does it in a childish way. They are feeding off each other. If those two ever pooled resources (maybe they will at some point) Look out world you're in for a big surprise. ♥

That's good you recognize that in yourself. Because you are aware you can control the outcome. ♥

Totally agree. Niao Niao understands revenge. She is quick in and out revenge. LBY is long held slow revenge. You can see the difference in their characters choices and the way they handle their choices. So fascinating this story line and the way it's written and acted out.

Yes this drama can be very triggering with some of the complex characters and psychology. That's what I love about it. Makes you think. If you are triggered look at what it's triggering in you and why. ♥

Yes he is a man hanging on to himself and his revenge. You get that tight look when you are hanging on to yourself. At least he has opened up with Niao Niao but will she be enough to change him? Can he let go? Will revenge help him move on? Lesson here you can't change a man, only he can change himself.♥

Excellent. ♥Love the song. I wanted to cry. You caught all her emotions. Good job.♥

I think he's doing a good job in this series. He's not supposed to be a happy, jolly bouncy puppy. He is a military man and part of the Royal family. I love his smiles on the sly. I like his bearing when he rides a horse so proudly. How he orders his attendants around. (Go get 10 lashes) What's not to like. ♥

There's only 13 episodes left. Build up in the next 6 possibly to the point of the separation. The next 6 includes the separation and the coming back. Last episode is the finally. 3

Well said. A roller coaster ride ahead for us I'm afraid. All gonna come to a head. Can't wait.♥

They are too advertising not the nice kind. Click on anything up comes an ad. I skip them too. I can wait. I have patience. ♥

They are too advertising not the nice kind. Click on anything up comes an ad. I skip them too. I can wait. I have patience. ♥

This role does not suit Dilraba. It's perfect for Zhao Lu Si. I think the director made the right choice. ZLS is more , I want to say down to earth in her acting. Her comedy timing is right on point. Also she is great with tense scenes and emotion. Not putting Dilraba down at all as I admire her as well.♥

That's because you spoiled it for yourself and found out the outcome before. If you didn't know the outcome it would not be an issue.

It would still happen even if you are not there to witness it. Karma can take many forms. You may not witness it. That's not the point. Evil attracts evil. Live by the sword, die by the sword. ♥

Of course he knows. His childhood was taken from him the day Gu City fell. His aunt swapped his clothes for her dead son's clothes and hid him for 2 yrs. He knows.

They went missing for a year so the father/uncle just thought he had grown. LBY is related to his Mother/Aunt so there are characteristic of her family. LBY knows who he is and is in on the deception.♥

Her son died and she switched her sons clothes to LBY. Yes she knows who's son he is. They also went missing for a year in which time the father took into account that his son could have changed by growing. This is her secret to tell. ♥

I'm a believer in karma. I have seen karma in action in my own life. << this helps knowing what goes around comes around. The only people you don't forgive to soon are your enemies. I'm sad to hear about your family member. To hold a grudge and hating takes a lot of energy and can be very draining. It's okay to be angry but at some point for your own health it's needs to be let go. You can forgive. The person doesn't have to be present to do this. Let it go other wise your health and well being is affected. Hanging on to stuff over which you had no control is pointless. Not only that it happened in the past. How are you going to move forward? Be at peace and carry on.♥

Totally agree. He can't let go yet so he can move forward. Life lesson here for him and all who are watching. Let it go. Be at peace. Forgive.♥

I felt that too but then it all tied together to move the story forward. It's building up for the dreaded revenge scene.♥