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same same! 😂 i cannot handle this unless it's already over then i'll skim over some scenes and then continue!

well i actually didn't start the amnesia arc because i hate them but i had hope it won't be dragged so waiting for the next week like you! since it got to the point of marriage i hope it means it gets resolved next week quickly! also thankkk you for the updates while the ep was airing!!!!

HE ALREADY DID OR IS PLANNING STILL? tf is going on! why is the writer moving so fast like this? man just believed her and fell in love lmao

1) still don't know if I like anna going around talking to YG at the beginning about how he should look for someone right for him at his situation. like that judgment there was obviously from the point of view of being her mother, not looking after YG so I don't know if she has a right to do that. makes me wonder how would she react if she found out and if this would cause her truth to come out?
2) YG is a good human being. really good. and also DD, that's why I like their characters and actually their relationship is written in the way that makes me feel those two people really understand and appreciate their feelings. they work together so well.
3) that scene where YG was dragging his step mom and the whole SR wedding arc was heartbreaking and I have no words to describe that woman. and also I hope SR and YG have more scenes this way.
4) now the amnesia it was kinda hilarious how he went to seek blessings from his wife then that was his answer. but on the other hand, the last time the wind blew that handkerchief was to get YG to accept DD despite his hesitation. so what does the hand of fate want YG to reach this time? interesting.
5) just hoping this amnesia arc won't take long because there's still lot of plot to unback and that would take time. so the amnesia must be there for something important or else 😒!

oh oh ohhhhhhh seems like we'll be still getting some light fun out of heavy situations so i'm hopeful. and yeah no grand car crash, hospital thing. this writer is doing lots of things right.

I actually see the previews before the ep so let me go check and *crossing fingers with you*. good thing we getting it before the half mark of the show. interesting.

I'm really hoping it's not as the description makes it to be. Looking directly at how sa ra got fired and how it was mentioned and it's a play of words so different in execution than in a simple written line. So waiting for something like this where it'll be all about how he falls for dan dan again or something.

good idea. maybe so some people know the truth for later on when it's needed.

oh that's actually too interesting. the only thing i want is a short amnesia arc and a believable way he gets to remember by. other than that the writer is doing a great job so far so i choose to trust her execution.

alsooo getting back to today's ep, do you think people mistaking dan dan as YG daughter or niece would affect them on the short run? or just as in the writer putting a real life element in the story?

true. like what's there for romanticism. you are doing a job and getting paid, who in their right mind thinks it's not so good of a job so she is doing it because she loves me? 😂

jae ni is definitely the one that's mostly going to have an intense reaction. i mean her talks with her dad on one hand. how she attacked him after he removed her mother's photos. I'm interested in seeing how she will take on dandan as someone her father loves not a close teacher she loves. but sa ra on the other hand is just unbearable in their view and if they do discover this and while their father doesn't remember them? it's gonna be so hard.
one thing that just occured to me, 😳 would the memories lost from YG coincide with the time of the memory we saw from sa ra? when he met his wife? so maybe he'll remember sa ra too from memory?

same like i think the moment she would only have a troubling relationship with them is later when they find out about her and their dad. earlier it'd be too much on their plate at once.
also do you think sa ra and YG secret relationship news will reach the kids?

oh we really have similar ideas. i would love for him to remember and play along for sometime but then again thinking about dandan it breaks my heart. no idea what will happen to her. maybe the whole america thing and anna knowing the truth is to offer an alternative to her when it gets too much? but i don't know if she'll travel and we get a time skip or no. because that would totally change the drama setting. and the kids need her.

like it's not even giving him up for adoption. woman went and chose a family for him and it's her once friend and her husband that she liked. i understand her situation and how she wanted better for her son that she can't offer at the moment but that is twisted in a way. because there's lots of lines here. also the way she said she worked for the "five years" for YG? since his wife was alive? you eyed the man that's why you put your son there to follow him? the more i think about it the more twisted it gets.
I don't want her son to actually know his late mother isn't his biological one actually. he is so pure and surrounded by love and her happy memories and when he grow up if he got to think about this whole thing? no that's too much. he deserves better.

oh god same 😃 i thought of her going the illegitimate son route and i'm really after all waiting for how it'll back fire on her. but the only reason i don't want it is because i don't want SJ be put in the middle and how YG will be bound by the fact she is his mother?
like pls i don't want noble idiocy. let it backfire on her when he regains his memories *fasssst* and then maybe SJ card can be for later on to redeem her or something if it's what the writer want.

the flashback part with sa ra really got on my nerves. like am i supposed to feel sorry for the kind of person she is? like ok you liked him as the same time as your friend but he fell for her and married her. it's sad. but to insert yourself and just go and put your son at their door step? to "spend years trying to be his perfect wife"? like what gives you any right? and she got the nerves to judge people while she is a terrible person herself. It's terrible to the point i can't shake the fact she is using her own sun from the begining to get to the man not that poor excuse of loving her son so she wants to be around him. too many blurred lines there. like what's your true motive?

spoiler for the upcoming plot as per the charachters description so don't read unless you know about it :)


I think the scene where the woman working in the house saw sa ra hugging YG from the back and misread the whole situation is the thing that will drive the whole amnesia plot with sa ra saying they were a couple. I kept thinking how would anyone believe that but the way it's all getting set up is obvious now. I don't know if dandan would believe it or just go along and let her have her way because she can't tell the truth, but boy it's going to be hard for her since she doesn't know why sa ra got fired and with the witness and all. ugh just please can this whole arc be short 😩.

i think our differences in a strong opinion about her is your last line. she didn't book the ml bus willingly from the begining. that drunk incident first wasn't throwing herself at a man to waste time with him or because she liked him, she spent the night talking about her boyfriend and how she is sorry for herself. (her attitude in dealing after is actually a flaw in writing her because literally doesn't make any sense but again she was like someone who sensed she might like that guy if he kept approaching her so acted like he wronged her). and the emotional cheating is not flowers and roses and acting like she is in love. it's in how she knows she is falling for another guy yet keep trying to say he is bad and i have a 10 year old relationship that i want. it's her dishonesty with herself even before her fiance. and after the hug she knew it was over lying to herself so she went to break up. she didn't make the ml wait from my point of view, he is there on his own, by his own wrong choice to interfere ofcourse. but she didn't lead to him waiting and then choosing. him waiting showed her flaws in her relationship then she broke up and yet to see what her ex now is going to do.
she isn't a good person (and i don't want her to be) neither the other two are good. I just don't see her doing more wrong that's it. it's a cumulative effect in all ways.

for me it's not about digging dirts, it's that I saw nothing in his characterization or scenes or the way he speaks of her that made me think any opposite. so situational wise the man does nothing right about his relationship with the fl that makes me believe he care about her. just like how the ml liking her was so fast no idea why it's the same for him, he just doesn't like her. and about the cheating I think they will still of course make us see more from him either way because we haven't explored his relationships yet.
as for the honesty thing he wouldn't also say it's a just one time forgive me unless he got caught so her not announcing what happened with her is the same, he also kinda knows on his own and sees it as two equal mistakes. so that gets us to the point they "both" have a choice and yes she is emotionally cheating but she didn't tell him let's get married i love you so much. he knows the man is around her and just uses money to lure her, his assistant suggested sweat talking her but he said he has no time.
the whole situation is so open with both men around and waiting for her to choose one of them because they're so confident but the ml is just doing the one thing sml isn't doing. getting her emotionally attached to him.
so whatever labels cheating or not per every viewer they are all aware of what's happening and choosing willingly from that moment. and the sml willing choices aren't really showing a good heart or a person.

the SML is a trash charachter too and he isn't superior to the other two or deserves better than them. what makes you believe it's just a one time drunk photo? he literally had a conversation with her telling her i made mistakes too thanking she went on "slept with the other man" and it's ok for him. like that his an eye for an eye so let's settle this. I mean he doesn't even care 😂. he doesn't want a human being but a title, knows about an affair ,"possible one", and yet still just wants the woman he "shaped" to be his wife for 10 years for no other reason but so. and is and will continue to try and force her after all of this. like call the cheating all you want but yeah that man isn't any better in the slightest. cheater like her but with no self respect or respect for others after it's been in the open how they shouldn't continue this relationship. without getting to the point of how even without him cheating he still isn't a good man. but yeah you are right he should just go look for a housewife.