watch the 2nd lead's cameo in its okay to not be okay.. he is amazing in it..
I like to think that, it is the role he was meant to play, if the director didn't like it, it won't pass. I believe he got the character just right. Honestly
I loved the female lead. BUT I found the ML a bit troublesome. He had a very paternalistic "I know best" attitude…
he was always suspicious or rather cautious, but he wasn't always passive aggressive till she 2fl said she was shaken and that's quite normal. I know how he feels,i been through something like that, you know you are confident and awesome but you also know, feelings and humans are the most fickle things the heavens ever created. there is uncertainty, you don't know if to hold on tight and be amazon fighting uncertainty, or to just let go. sometimes the other party decides for you like in his case, other times like in my case, you wake up one morning and feel like "I don't want to die like this" and just let them both go.
I loved the female lead. BUT I found the ML a bit troublesome. He had a very paternalistic "I know best" attitude…
you look at the situation unilaterally, if i were really in both situations, id do the same thing. id say the same words. honestly. i mean, if i had a crush on my best friend's boyfriend, and i see the boyfriend trying to pull such a stunt, based on a stupid thought that id actually be with him if he left my best friend, id say the same thing. its not being paternalistic, its knowing shit is gonna get real messed if something isn't done right.
Sensitive real world subjects like these inflame our passions and I think that can actually be beneficial. They…
Yeah I get you, but we all know how we are in the end, we love to blur lines, we love to validate and devaluate. Most people don't know the difference between an opinion and vigilantism from what I have seen so far.
About the case, my country doesn't really understand harassment and verbal abuse because they don't leave physical bruises.
Anyways I'm just saying, that case made me understand the stamen "we would rather let a criminal go when there is no evidence than lock up an innocent man" it is flawed but I understand.
i do not wish to sound rude and i don’t condone racist comments or comments saying to kill him whatsoever, but…
true, i get that its choices, what i meant to say is, how easily once believes allegation and rumors levied against some thay dont know and are very quck to bring them down, without reasoning would usually have commited similar crimes in the same situation or similar. it is somethingi ahev noticed myself, i dont expect you to understand as you have your own beliefs as well.
i was thought from a very young age, that all sins are the same, all sinners will burn in the same hell, regardless of how "big" or "little" the sins are. its okay if you dont believe in the concept of heaven or hellbut it is what i was thought and understood.
Sensitive real world subjects like these inflame our passions and I think that can actually be beneficial. They…
or the fact that the herd mentality will kill us all, sooner or later. there was a case here in my county, a girl released a me too video against her boyfriend, we were all up for it, some even went as far as calling his mother asking why she didnt abort him when she had the chance, tion he lost everything and eventually commited suicide, guess what, the girl came out to say that he didnt actually do it, she was angry that he broke up with her, she didnt think it would go this far, guess what again, she still roams free.
yes we should punish bad guys, but who are we to do that? yes for law and order, we must have judiciary system that works, but humans are so complicated, instances, situations and timing can get you out or lock you in with irreversible damage. but we must work based on fact, the authenticity of the fact, cross examine the facts from the roots. even then must be careful before we speak and do anything because we could really be ruining someone.
Honestly, this whole case is a pot of burnt beans. He should pay for his crimes If he has committed any. The victims have our condolences, no one has to go through unwarranted pain they do not understand. My problem tho is the fact that, everyone seems to have a self righteous opinion, either it be for jisoo or against him. Suddenly everyone is well versed in the law and ways of the cunning. "the victims timed this properly", "he should be hanged for his crimes". Like what the hell is that? Can't we all just work properly based on facts without going extreme or trying to sound like wisdom filled keyboard warriors. Honestly it's just sickening.
P. S : I just realised that I might actually sound like a spirit filled keyboard warrior. Lol
i do not wish to sound rude and i don’t condone racist comments or comments saying to kill him whatsoever, but…
In my understanding, if you cannot ask the victims to forgive then you have no right to demand justice too but we always ignore that, don't we? We are all self righteous, we all have our sins, but we rationalise it, "mine is not as bad as his" "It only happened one time when I was angry". "I only "took"from mum, not embezzled from my country" I often say that "how easily one believes things like this, means they are very capable of the same crimes, they have just not had the chance or privilege"
About the case, my country doesn't really understand harassment and verbal abuse because they don't leave physical bruises.
Anyways I'm just saying, that case made me understand the stamen "we would rather let a criminal go when there is no evidence than lock up an innocent man" it is flawed but I understand.
i was thought from a very young age, that all sins are the same, all sinners will burn in the same hell, regardless of how "big" or "little" the sins are. its okay if you dont believe in the concept of heaven or hellbut it is what i was thought and understood.
yes we should punish bad guys, but who are we to do that? yes for law and order, we must have judiciary system that works, but humans are so complicated, instances, situations and timing can get you out or lock you in with irreversible damage. but we must work based on fact, the authenticity of the fact, cross examine the facts from the roots. even then must be careful before we speak and do anything because we could really be ruining someone.
thats all im saying.
P. S : I just realised that I might actually sound like a spirit filled keyboard warrior. Lol