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Great! Good to know 😊

Yes she was under the influence and that memory was blocked so she didn't remember it so that would be sexual assault. And even if I think my spouse cheated on me, if I really love my spouse I wouldn't just straight up cheat on her as revenge without clarifying. Any person with a well functioning braincell will try to find the truth first. And people equating hiding mental health issues and trauma to cheating and other shit he supposedly did is just weird. This reminds me of all the hate FL got in Strong girl Namsoon because "oh the handsome villian guy trusted her why did she break his trust" and bruh, he murdered people and was a whole ass villian. But just because he was "handsome" he was excused by the some people. Always will have people with internalised misogyny and a think toxic love tropes. 😅😅

Wife didn't even know she was SA'ed. According to the episodes, he just revenge cheated on her because he THOUGHT she cheated smh...

Her best friend is jealous and obsessed with her. Probably jealous of how everyone celebrates JW and not her. And yes, this kdrama lead is different. I saw some people think there will be romance and love but this is not that kind of Kdrama. This gives a very V.I.P vibe where the male lead also cheated. So far it has been shown that the ML did cheat on his wife as revenge but whether he really did or not will be exposed later I suppose.

Ah well of course you don't. :)

And I did not say she did the right thing by hiding but we cannot compare and excuse that to someone cheating and gaslighting their spouse. The spouse didn't cheat on her because she hid her mental health issues, he cheated on her because he thought she cheated on him and wanted "revenge" without clarifying anything. In case, you haven't read my comment, I said she should've been upfront about her mental health issues but that's is not a reason to say FL deserves all the cheating and gaslighting from the two people whom she trusted the most. Not you calling me pseudo feminist with your whole chest and excusing cheating with reason like "he thought" "he was tricked", as if that excuses his not clearing it up with his wife first or confronting her but take worst action ever. If you are being selectively blind then that's not my problem.

No, I have been reading it right 😊

I saw that review and was speechless but then realised this is MDL. And some people will always take their favourite actor's or "oppa"'s character's side no matter what because they can't differentiate between an actor and a character they play.

I obviously only meant people who have been trashing the FL and acting as of the ML lead was provoked into cheating. Clearly not everyone thinks the same.

You can't make the decision for others what comment they want to see or not. The comment board is for everyone. People support comments they like or ignore or block comments they don't like. I don't need to stop commenting because of that. Everyone makes their own decision and surely don't get swayed by seeing one comment in a board full of comments if they don't agree with it.

And you are not blocked because you are not arguing with me or calling me names or left a comment that I would think is worth blocking you for yet 😊

There are definitely people here insinuating that the problem is the FL and not the ML and making excuses that because she hid her mental health issues, that is main cause why her husband cheated on her 🤣 Their english has been excellent so far so not sure why anyone would think their english was not good is the reason why they have been hating on the FL. like the comments are right there. People can see all comments and make a judgement for themselves anyway. Not like they are basing their opinion based on just my comment. So if you don't agree then just block me 😊 I don't mind, I block people too when I don't want to see their comments 👍

And you are fixated on defending a cheater and a gaslighter who didn't even bother clarifying things with his wife first and straight up betrayed her using her best friend just so he can hurt her intentionally and think not opening up about problems can even be compared to cheating. So yea let's disagree and end this here because we won't see each other's point.

Neither are you but that's why I said we have different opinion and interpretation of what's going on. So let's just agree to disagree

Can't believe people saying FL deserved to be cheated on and betrayed for hiding her mental health and trauma before marriage. I guess I am on THAT side of MDL again 💀💀

Yes she should have been open about troubles with her husband. But I still think that doesn't mean he can go and cheat on her with her best friend and act like she is suspecting him for nothing and like it was his supposedly dead twin. If he was angry with her and confronted her I would have been still okay with him but the path he chose was not okay at all and is not appropriate to her not being open with him. Even his friend acted as if being with JW is great because she has money and he won't find another money maker like her as if her only worth was her money and the husband didn't say a thing against it.

And since you brought up the present, his cheating started before the present time, so saying she doesn't open up to him at present too is not a good argument imo because his cheating started way earlier.

Lol you just said it's her fault that her husband cheated on her, gaslighted her because she was too busy and was not giving him time. You began with comparing cheating with someone not revealing their mental trauma. But sure I am the liar 🤣

I have not lied one bit here. Everything is in the episodes. I just don't want to argue to cheating enablers who blame women for men cheating and making them think they are crazy for even thinking they are cheating. What you think of me not arguing with you is irrelevant and unimportant. Because that comment told me everything I needed to know. Have a nice day 🙂

I am not even going to argue with you but that is just wrong on so many levels. It's the patriarchy, misogyny and ableism rolled into one in your comment. But again, you are welcome to have your own opinion but that doesn't change the fact that I think her not revealing her traumatic past or being a careerwoman meant she should get cheated on by her husband, and then him twisting it to seem like it was bot her husband or keeping s*x videos of him and his mistress. Lol

It's clear we have different ideas for cheating and gaslighting. My spouse not opening up to me about their traumatic past doesn't mean I can cheat and gaslight them and blame them for for it. And expect them to tell me about being SA'ed which they don't even remember.

She wouldn't tell him because she doesn't know it herself. Which is why I said hire a detective or something to find out what happened and not revenge cheat on my wife with bestie and make videos of it us sleeping together. That is not a rational response. And when she was attacked, her husband has already been cheating on her so bringing that up to justify his cheating is a bit...cheating and gaslighting is not the answer for my wife not opening up to me. Maybe it is for some others but I think it's really a dumb way to clarify things.