Excellent analysis - I love it! As they say, it really adds to my viewing pleasure. Meanwhile, and I hope this…
I agree. I am a woman that loves men, but I can be very decise in bed and take the initiative or dictate timing or other things. It is a possibility. I have a strong temperament, in spite of being a woman often I was in charge of the family decisions. That reflects in other parts of the life. If there is a mutual acceptance the life can be great.
I'm gonna have to agree with you. I was sitting there like "why are you acting like all he did was confess his…
I agree with you and @Dramadream.
The situation of XJ is really complicate, since childhood. His mother talks about the relatives and tell something about problem in the past. He knew mom "love" but apart from that... he is love(sweet)-impaired.
XJ himself said he didn't know what love is, but he only know how Xing Si made he feel.
XJ admit... he don''t know HOW sweet talk.
Xing Si really understand him. He has read his brother diarirs, See himself in those lines. I think they belong together. XJ is right about this. They can learn and improve together.
This episode.....Where do I start. our visit by the MODC couple was lovely & nostalgic as hell. Sun Bo Xiang has…
I'm so glad that someone (you) pointed out the issue of XJ. He has a lot of psicologycal problems but he is willing to improve himself. He must not be easy to admit "I don't know how (sweet talk)". He is sweet-impaired. Often he says he doesn't know love, but he only knew HOW Xiang Si make him feel. I really like the complexity and the evolution of this CP.
Yeah, it's true. They grow up together... so? They are not blood related and Yong Jje was not an adopted child of Xing Si father. I think is better to undestand his background. After his dad died he was sent with same relatives, and that didn't go well. Have you have ever heard of trauma? yeah. It's a think, you know? I personally know one person (nov over 70 years old) that cannot stand people with loud voices because she was verbally abused all her childhood. All the teraphy had improved but never solved the issue. Please pay attention, Yong Jie cannot be sweet, he doesn't know HOW, but he is willing to improve himself. Has he done something wrong? I am still not sure if he really raped hes brother/lover. You know my opinion: - Xing Si started it (drunk sex) - Yong Jie planned the thing (yeah it is true) - They have had a complete intercourse? not sure. Kiss. Touch. Yes. More then that... must to be proved.
I loved the reaction of Yong Jie. I love that he didn't run after dad, trying to keep hes promise to Xing Si. I loved the kiss with sweet talk.
Li Cheng - Mu Ren
The actor have a lot of chemistry, imho. The question "why do you like me" is great.. and Li Cheng gasping for the right answer very funny to see. I am the only one that see some Li Chen sweet act? he likes Mu Ren act manly. Could be the first not-defined top/bottom CP? It could be. I stay of my opinon, Mu Ren saying (not drugged, on the roof) "I can be bottom" has a truth inside. I am starting to think that Li Chen could do anything for Mu Ren, also switch role/position etc. Yeah, between the two he is the more mascouline to watch, but he is also the sweetest in my opinion. Just look in the previous episode how affermative Mu Ren was, in spite of his doubts about sex.
Really guys, I cannot be more bothered. If you can't stand the 2nd CP don't watch the drama, Is as easy as this. Every week the same complaint. Please... stop it. It's so annoying.
I didn't like "Y-Destiny" I stopped. Simply, isn't it?
So... it is now quite obvious that Xing Si likes (loves?) Yong Jie. All the card castles fall.
Not only that. Yong Jie has a lot of issue, but still he loves Xing Si, he is a good person and his fear is to loose Xing Si, so it can try to accept him only is brother. I love the complexity of this CP too.
This is 100 times better than what the duck series, don't compare rock with gold. I admit this may not be the…
And about this I am not so sure.
[Last 2 eps spoiler -who didn't want to know could stop here.] ==== XJ had clearly said he can willingly accept any type of reletionship with Xing Si, brotherhood too. I think Yong Jie is young and a little immature - about love reletionship - but still he is relly in love with XS. Eventually we'll know all about his motive and the knowing of mom about everything. By now, this is only my opinion and thoughts. What the writers have planned is too hard to guess. I simply add a thing about the diaries. Mu Reng said the right thing, XJ wrote all the important thing of Xing Si. But this is not possession, this is a way to understand him and find how help him, support him, and be with him in the long term.
I still don't think he is raped his brother. IF something happend (not so sure) was consensual, Xing Si started, drunk ok, but he started. ====
Awkwardness if the relation didn't work? Well, I think all the situation was awkard before. Dad knowing but don't speak about. XS out of home and don't even (quite) visiting family. Mom knowing about XJ ecc ecc....
This is 100 times better than what the duck series, don't compare rock with gold. I admit this may not be the…
When adopted you are totally right. I still remark YJ could not be adopted... since he has a different family name. He himself in one episode, he has other plan about change the family name and it is quite obvious he think to marry XS and became YE after that
Second eps even better. She is in a very emotional break-down my dear. Everything for her go on "I cannot hold back this time" :-) She need to see adult normal male (as the manager). He is lovely, yes, but say and done all the wrong things when hot-head take the advantage of him. Especially with her.
Pleeeeeeeeeeeease.... so boring.He was a jerk, she is not demanding an apology. She ask WHY on the Earth he is…
It is all a consequence of the first guy... she need ONE apology at this point. She didn't want from him just now, she demand a man to apologize, but she think about 1st guy and than the ML use yhe same word. She had a bad couple of days and she are mixing all inside her.
hate it when a character (usually the fl) demands an apology (usually from the ml) it makes me cringe lol like…
Pleeeeeeeeeeeease.... so boring. He was a jerk, she is not demanding an apology. She ask WHY on the Earth he is so insensible and jerk to have such behaviour. THAT is the meaning of that "request".
I'll translate for you martian... here venusian ;-D
FL "Are you really so ? why you are not the kind of man that knew when say sorry?"
M "why cannot you holding back to the end" ML (a bit later same line)
https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x810zz9
The situation of XJ is really complicate, since childhood. His mother talks about the relatives and tell something about problem in the past.
He knew mom "love" but apart from that... he is love(sweet)-impaired.
XJ himself said he didn't know what love is, but he only know how Xing Si made he feel.
XJ admit... he don''t know HOW sweet talk.
Xing Si really understand him. He has read his brother diarirs, See himself in those lines. I think they belong together. XJ is right about this.
They can learn and improve together.
He has a lot of psicologycal problems but he is willing to improve himself.
He must not be easy to admit "I don't know how (sweet talk)". He is sweet-impaired. Often he says he doesn't know love, but he only knew HOW Xiang Si make him feel.
I really like the complexity and the evolution of this CP.
Xing Si - Yong Jie
Yeah, it's true. They grow up together... so? They are not blood related and Yong Jje was not an adopted child of Xing Si father.
I think is better to undestand his background.
After his dad died he was sent with same relatives, and that didn't go well. Have you have ever heard of trauma? yeah. It's a think, you know? I personally know one person (nov over 70 years old) that cannot stand people with loud voices because she was verbally abused all her childhood.
All the teraphy had improved but never solved the issue.
Please pay attention, Yong Jie cannot be sweet, he doesn't know HOW, but he is willing to improve himself.
Has he done something wrong? I am still not sure if he really raped hes brother/lover. You know my opinion:
- Xing Si started it (drunk sex)
- Yong Jie planned the thing (yeah it is true)
- They have had a complete intercourse? not sure. Kiss. Touch. Yes. More then that... must to be proved.
I loved the reaction of Yong Jie. I love that he didn't run after dad, trying to keep hes promise to Xing Si. I loved the kiss with sweet talk.
Li Cheng - Mu Ren
The actor have a lot of chemistry, imho.
The question "why do you like me" is great.. and Li Cheng gasping for the right answer very funny to see.
I am the only one that see some Li Chen sweet act? he likes Mu Ren act manly. Could be the first not-defined top/bottom CP? It could be.
I stay of my opinon, Mu Ren saying (not drugged, on the roof) "I can be bottom" has a truth inside. I am starting to think that Li Chen could do anything for Mu Ren, also switch role/position etc.
Yeah, between the two he is the more mascouline to watch, but he is also the sweetest in my opinion.
Just look in the previous episode how affermative Mu Ren was, in spite of his doubts about sex.
If you can't stand the 2nd CP don't watch the drama, Is as easy as this. Every week the same complaint.
Please... stop it.
It's so annoying.
I didn't like "Y-Destiny" I stopped. Simply, isn't it?
https://youtu.be/uC-r0XOIZkY
Not only that. Yong Jie has a lot of issue, but still he loves Xing Si, he is a good person and his fear is to loose Xing Si, so it can try to accept him only is brother.
I love the complexity of this CP too.
More comment after re-watch.
So cute.... I love Kai!!!! great little kid!
[Last 2 eps spoiler -who didn't want to know could stop here.]
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XJ had clearly said he can willingly accept any type of reletionship with Xing Si, brotherhood too.
I think Yong Jie is young and a little immature - about love reletionship - but still he is relly in love with XS.
Eventually we'll know all about his motive and the knowing of mom about everything.
By now, this is only my opinion and thoughts. What the writers have planned is too hard to guess.
I simply add a thing about the diaries. Mu Reng said the right thing, XJ wrote all the important thing of Xing Si. But this is not possession, this is a way to understand him and find how help him, support him, and be with him in the long term.
I still don't think he is raped his brother. IF something happend (not so sure) was consensual, Xing Si started, drunk ok, but he started.
====
Awkwardness if the relation didn't work?
Well, I think all the situation was awkard before. Dad knowing but don't speak about. XS out of home and don't even (quite) visiting family. Mom knowing about XJ ecc ecc....
She is in a very emotional break-down my dear. Everything for her go on "I cannot hold back this time" :-) She need to see adult normal male (as the manager).
He is lovely, yes, but say and done all the wrong things when hot-head take the advantage of him.
Especially with her.
Perfect couple LOL
He was a jerk, she is not demanding an apology. She ask WHY on the Earth he is so insensible and jerk to have such behaviour.
THAT is the meaning of that "request".
I'll translate for you martian... here venusian ;-D
FL "Are you really so ? why you are not the kind of man that knew when say sorry?"
M "why cannot you holding back to the end"
ML (a bit later same line)
Male are so easy to read... LOL