I want to understand the mother but it gets to a point. First, you ruin your first daughter's life by ignoring her whole life then u ruin ur second daughter's life by being too strict. I still try to see where she is coming from, I know she is trying to protect Qingyu but is she helping at all? Qingyu is literally 17 years old and some gangstars are harassing her. And after you get call from school, you come and tell her she is embarrassing? She is THE victim here, for God's sake. Scolding kids is so normal for asian parents, even without reasons. But not when your kids are already suffering. And it’s almost clear that she knows everything about Beiyu's death and she still thinks it was Beiyu who wronged her own life. Not to mention, when she was throwing qingyi's clothes and giving her a black dress to wear bcz apparently if a man harrases a woman, that woman's dress is the reason. She is a bad mother. Even if she is protecting qingyi from her perspective, she is still bad.
Comparing your life to others's is soul destroying. Don't do it, and don't let anyone else do it for you. I don't…
Thank you for kind words. I did set boundaries. I didn’t talk with them for almost two years, kept my distance. Because i know how they are, and how these things effect me. But when she suddenly met me, I didnt know how to react and she kept going on. Couldn’t defend myself, couldn’t even talk to her properly. I could also insult her, but thats not who I am. Next time, if we meet again, I hope I can atleast protect myself. And yes you are right, social medias are trap. I also dont use fb and use only spam account on insta to protect my peace. Again, thank u for ur words, they help me a lot🤍
insecure people are those that find flaws and call out others to make themselves feel better...don't let any one…
You went through a lot..I am so much proud of u. Thank you for not giving up and I will not, too. We all will have our own time right? i believe we will❤️
Episode 4 did really hit me like a train. I am at this point of my life where i feel like i am nowhere while my friends, classmates are somewhere, having a better life than me. Some years ago, we were together, had same destination.. but now it feels like i got behind and cant even move forward. Even yesterday i suddenly met one of my old classmates, and she judged me...I couldn’t sleep well last night, wondered what i did to deserve to live like this... and today when i watched episode 4, i cant express how i was feeling. Every scene touched me. When that reunion scene came, i paused and thought how much i needed it. Our so called friends only can judge our life as much as they can.. but we are the one who know how we lived,how much struggle we have to go through to pass oneday. And even if u are perfect, will they stop talking? Definitely not. This is what they are, what they will be.
One thing about life is no matter however is your life going, it can never be perfect. You will be wrong, do mistakes, regret your decisions and hate your life at some point. It wont depend on how u lived ur life. Miji, mirae and even, hosu lived very different lives and it doesnt seem like anyone had it all. They are yet to figure out how to do it right. Idk why but it heals something in me.
Watched the first ep and I got the “weirdo kdrama female lead" vibes after a long time. Loved the nostalgia…
@hellonyan @idkhuman I actually didn’t think of any drama. You know, just the vibe of 2016-17-18 kdrama female leads. The weird, mysterious, crackhead type of characters.
I just finished the last ep of season 1. The ending of the season didnt feel like ending at all.. it was more like an episode ending. And i watched the first ep of season 2 for some mins...and it exactly started where s1 ended ... so i am wondering did they do it intentionally to hint s2.. or they just couldn’t film it fully as the drama was released during corona. If someone knows, i would like to be informed.
instead of "had been with other men" it should be "had a shitty ex who cheated on her", that's a pretty common…
When do anyone have ever said ML has to be a virgin? Most of kdramas show that MLs fell in love at first sight for FL at a very young age ...so in that case, isnt it pretty normal to stay single until they get FL? And if FL doesnt even know ML or loves him why she will stay single? If u want to watch a drama with the opposite trope, u can search and find plenty of them. Or if u dont find any,, then maybe watch American or european shows. Why need to criticize a drama that hasnt even aired? And on top of that its not mentioned ML is virgin anywhere.
instead of "had been with other men" it should be "had a shitty ex who cheated on her", that's a pretty common…
No. Whats misogyny is making a standard where FL should also be a virgin if ML is. I have watched ton of dramas where ml and fl both had ex or where only one had. And where it shows that ML is virgin his whole life while FL had past relationships, only a sick brain of urs will slutshame the FL. Anyway I am sorry that the dramas YOU CHOOSE TO WATCH dont stand with your standard. Go cry to ur mommy about it.
I hope we get season 3 too ❤️