On Record of Youth • Jun 4, 2022
Title Record of Youth
I just finished episode 8 and I am in love with this drama. I know there'll probably be heartbreak at the end of this, but it doesn't change the fact that the first 8 hours of this gave me a sense of purpose. The title 'Record of Youth' is befitting of this show, that gives us a glimpse into the lives of people at the steps of adulthood. I am just past 30 now, but this drama made me remember so clearly what I felt when I was chasing my dream in my twenties, balancing between recklessness and the fear of failure, hoping for a stable future, yet wanting to be free and not tied down. I can relate to every single of the thematics here, I can feel each character's struggle to make the right choices, to be responsible yet not to give up on our hopes. I understand why this drama is not for everyone, though. It's way too 'real' for some, especially the scenes that involve family who are nearly smothering by way of 'protection'. And then there's the romance, which to me, feels very natural, but some might argue they're lacking chemistry because it's not the typical romcom romance. They support each other without being overbearing, at times they're overly cheesy and sweet (because as Jeong Ha put it, she has 'had to face reality too early on in life'), while sometimes they hide their pain from each other or are out of touch because work and other responsibilities get in the way. Typical romcoms paint our partners as heroes who drop everything at once and answer all our calls and come to rescue whenever we need them, all the while sparks fly around until you can see nothing but them. But that's not reality. No matter how amazing someone makes you feel, there might be times when our significant other cannot be there for us when we most need them. It's okay for us to want them to be there, but it's important to understand that one day they might not be, and to stand on our own two feet and not forget who we are. This is such a lengthy comment, but I truly think this is a gem and I hope the ending won't disappoint, even if it turns out to be sad. So far, it's a 9/10 for me.
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