AnicsiRoscoe

Rewatching it for the 4th time. I watch it once a year. It's a beautiful depiction of life, beautifully interwoven stories of youth, old age, marriage and new love. In the beginning it seems somewhat like mindless comedy and annoying characters, but if you stick around, you'll be touched by each individual story. It has a more European vibe than most K-dramas, but it's refreshing in the same-old cliché that dramas have become. So so so recommended, I hope everyone gives this a chance! One of my absolute favorite dramas.

I nearly dropped it after episode 1 because I thought it was boring and sort of weird, not funny at all. I'm glad I stuck with it, though, because episode 2 is already so much better and I am now at ep 4 and hooked! The ending of ep 4 is amazing I didn't expect that twist. Cannot wait to continue this and hoping for a happy ending!

Yes, absolutely. There's many dramas like this, where a guy is basically stalking the FL (not that he's stalking here, but he's definitely too involved for my taste), but it's supposed to be romantic or something. I would rather choose someone who makes me feel things I've never felt before, someone I may fight and bicker with, but who gets me and supports me, over someone who worships the ground upon which I walk but who'll tie me down and not see and know the 'real' me.

Well, yes, I am still wondering myself why he didn't tell her it was not true. Maybe he wanted to save Seol Ah's dignity. After all, she's still a good friend. Maybe, he didn't think at that point it was important enough. Maybe, he knew that it was clear he was not involved with Seol Ah, and Na Bi was going to realize it eventually. He's a character of little words, at least in the beginning. I can see them talking about it in the future maybe, when they are more comfortable and honest with each other. I can see how it's frustrating to someone who's forthcoming and honest, though, so I understand your disappointment. However, I think the disappointment should be aimed at the characters, not the writing. I've seen some BTS where the director tells the cast why they act a certain why in some scenes, so I am sure there's a reason somewhere.

You may have forgotten, but he did try to reach her, but her phone was turned off. He was worried about her but didn't know where she went. So when he met her again in her hometown, he saw her laughing with and getting bike rides from another guy. He'd feel jealous. He would want to know her real feelings. He's also a bit annoyed because she told Seol Ah about their sex life. Why, out of spite? He doesn't know. He wants to get to know her better, and to know if she still wants him. But when they're playing games in a group and he shows interest in her, she doesn't fall for it. Instead she keeps laughing with that other guy. Why? Is it because she thinks he's taken? Is she just not interested anymore? You see, those kind of questions in our heads make us go crazy. The what ifs and whys and he's never had to deal with those kind of things, because he always kept a comfortable distance with girls, and he never fell for any of them. It's the first time and he doesn't know how to act. So he does what he feels most comfortable with, he chases her, seduces her, but refuses to show vulnerability. Their relationship is not toxic, it's immature, he's human, she's human, and they're not brave enough to face their feelings honestly. I am 31. I have seen plenty of their relationships with couples close to me, and have my fair share of heartbreak due to lack of communication and wanting different things. I don't want to get too personal here, all I am saying is, this story isn't fluffy and it's not meant to be. It's not meant to be about beautiful youthful love. It's about realizing when you meet someone so special that you're willing to change for them, even though it may take time and little steps, and possibly inflicting yet another wound while growing together. I think had I watched it in my early 20s, or even before that, I may have not seen the depth in this drama. I respect your opinion of not liking it, I just wanted to set straight the 'cheating' thing, because that's not what happened. And I nearly watched missing the show because of that.

It had too many plotholes, f.e. they never mentioned the photoshoot and modeling again, or why on earth he'd have a photo studio at home when it's obvious they wouldn't film there in the first place. It seems to be a pretty big company as they have their own cafeteria and a lot of employees, why on earth would the CEO bring underwear home and display it there? How he recognized his sunglasses from 10 feet away, 7 years later with no clue whatsoever, and also his FRIEND sees it right away too (if they're so special and expensive, would he really randomly give them away to a stranger? Does he come from a rich family then? Why didn't he ever date so far despite looking hot af?) I'm just a bit disappointed because I liked the premise but there were too many empty spaces in the world building...

The first two episodes are sorta 'meh', the middle part is the best. The final episode made no sense to me, it went against everything we knew about the ex and her friend. Cringe. It's cute and fluffy, but the development has a weird pacing and in my opinion it's weird she'd give Tarot readings when Tarot is what gave her the biggest scar of her life. All in all little substance but ok if you just want cuteness (they're giggling over nothing way too often Imo). I don't regret watching it because it's short, but I wouldn't watch it again 6.5/10

Yeah, I totally see what you mean. I watched some BTS where the director is explaining scenes and meanings to the actors, and it underlines the depth that is clearly present but isn't seen by many in the audience. It's sad. I am glad I didn't listen to the negative reviews and gave it a chance. At 30, it's just the right drama for me. :)

Again, I think maybe you should rewatch those couple of episodes, because you may have missed some hints. When he comes back and they go back to being friends, and he says 'I have changed', it is obvious he is still interested in her and tries to change for her. But SHE takes it the wrong way because she sees him with Seol Ah. She thinks he is dating Seol Ah, and that he changed because of that girl. It makes her jealous. Seol Ah supposedly managed something she couldn't: to make him be serious. Her pride is hurt and it's why she tells Seol Ah she shouldn't cut her hair. Naturally the writers are creating friction, what would a drama be without plot? But what I meant to say was that those lies happen because the characters themselves are weak. Seol Ah and Na Bi are both acting out of spite, because of hurt pride. It makes sense, it's human. Many other dramas don't go that far, which is why I find the writing of this drama superior.

I don't know how old you are, and in how many relationships you've been either, but I find it very entertaining that you think you could know about my dating life simply because I am defending the writing of this drama. Also, I really don't care. You're obviously too close-minded to consider any opinions other than your own, unable to look behind facades and pay attention to detail. Not all feelings are so obvious, and a lot gets lost in translation and/or communication. A relationship is an exchange of feelings, you share good times and bad times, and yes, there will be times you'll feel hurt, even if you date a 'good' person. If you do believe you're open minded, I hope you'll read the analysis in the forum section above 'The things I saw in this drama'. I found it very thorough and close to what I saw in this drama as well. That's all I have to say, have a good day :)

I am watching Navillera right now, and he's really leaving an impression here. His role is much more versatile and it's commendable how much of ballet he learned in only 6 months. Of course they used a double for the really difficult parts, but there are several shots of him training and performing where we clearly see his face, and he's got the posture and expression down to a T. Haven't done ballet myself, but I work in theatre and spent years observing the state ballet practice, so I can say he really has talent. I think he's a great and serious actor and I am looking forward to seeing more of him. Btw, watch some BTS of Nevertheless by Swoon, their interactions are adorable. He smiles and goofs around a lot :)

Your view on relationships and dating is very romanticized. I am not saying it's wrong, but it's simply the reality that there are many people who want something casual like Jae On and Bit Na. This drama isn't wrong or fucked up, it's realistic and it's about character growth. I can understand Nabi completely, she fell for Jae On, and had hopes that maybe he would change for her. In fact, we never saw Jae On have sex or kiss another girl after starting something with Nabi. Even though he didn't want to say he'd commit, and he tried to keep a comfortable distance for him, he was still faithful to her, because he really liked her. Anyway, I think it's commendable that there's a lot of characters here that learned from their mistakes and eventually grew up to be more mature and centered.

Totally agree. I loved the maturity of this drama, the relationships and how there really is character growth here. The sad things and lack of communication happen because everyone is human here, and they're too afraid of commitment and honesty and too proud. I think it's a great drama.

Your comment almost made me not watch that drama, but I am glad I still watched it, because it's not really they way you describe it. Could you please mark your comment as a spoiler? I think you're misunderstanding some things here. ML never cheated on FL, because they were not in a relationship. They agreed to be friends with benefits (aka casual sex), and even though it is obvious that they both have feelings for each other, they don't go 'exclusive', because it is something that Jae Eon doesn't do. We never really know why he doesn't date, but we can guess that it's because he grew up without his parents, who've probably separated. Either way, FL breaks it off because she cannot bear the uncertainty. At that point, their fling is over, and they go back to being friends. So when Seol Ah lies to Na Bi that she's dating Jae Eon, she's sad, but not because she thinks he was cheating. She's also ashamed because she provokes Seol Ah, rubbing it into her face that she's slept with Jae Eon.
It is true that when he tries to get her back, she says: 'But you have a girlfriend.' and he says: 'this is not the issue/point.', but it's taken out of context. He says he wants to know how SHE really FEELS about him, regardless of him having a gf or not. Like, I am not saying this show is without flaws, but it is very real. People make mistakes. All of the drama that happens here, is not because of weird misunderstandings that writers often use to spice up the show, it's because of 'character flaws'. It's because the characters are too proud, too selfish, too hurt, and they lie and don't show their honesty. That's something very human, and it's why I loved this drama, even though it's sad at times.

Why's there so much hate for Song Kang? I've only seen him in Nevertheless, but he was great there. Sure, he was a cool, aloof character, but he had some challenging scenes without any lines where he'd have to express everything in his gaze and he nailed it. A scene in the final episode where he chooses not to say what he came to say, but we can basically see the words play on behind his eyes, in his expression is still in my mind. Darn, that scene was heartbreaking. Subtle nuances are so much better than overacting. So chill guys, and give him a chance.

Ah I see, thank you!

Try Yong Pal. The female lead seems weak at first because of her circumstances, but she literally rises from the ashes and is ruthless to take revenge against those who wronged her. One of the strongest female leads for sure!

I hope you get around to watching it cause Dr. Romantic is great! Would you say Hospital Playlist is realistic in terms of med field/hospital world?

Hometown Cha Cha Cha was one of my fav drama last year, hope this one will have a similar style but different plot. Sounds interesting!

It's been a while since I saw it but I do remember loving the beginning so much, it was hilarious and fun and really refreshing. But it dwindled in the middle and lost its spark for me, somehow. I rate it a solid 7.5/10. Cute and fun but not a wild ride imo.