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OP said "personally." They shared their personal preference

Nam Joo-hyuk's romcom roles were snoozefests compared to his spicy vigilante gig. He shook things up and proved he's more than a pretty face in a romcom

5. Hope not. If it were me, I'd be loyal to the uncle and lay down the "life" that he saved for him to show my gratitude and respect. Laying down WITH him would be inappropriate

7. The uncle has earned the right to stick around. I don't want him gone. The Grim Reaper would take a look at him and be like, "I'm out. This guy is too good to be true!"

Be patient, buddy. Stick it out and give it time, and you will be rewarded with the release date you've been waiting for

The uncle is my favorite character. He's the kind of character that could make the Grinch's heart grow three sizes too big. Sure, he made mistakes in the past, but he's blamed/slapped himself, taken responsibility for them and stepped up as a parent figure to his niece. He's got a heart of gold

He's a flawed hero, and I'm willing to overlook his flaws. I'll rewatch this thriller for him and the happy ending/reunion

One problem I have with "sexual content" is the infamous Netflix algorithm always assuming we are hormone-driven teenagers who can't handle anything more complex than a gratuitous side-boob or suggestive scene that adds absolutely nothing to the story. Joke's on you, Netflix! My libido is so low, it's practically non-existent

What you're saying is, I can blink and I'll miss the "sexual content?" That's a relief. I'll practice my rapid-blink technique and hope I don't miss an important plot point while I'm at it

The uncle emerging victorious from his battle with the nefarious Bale/Babylon (my theory) and limping towards his niece was the narrative equivalent of a warm, gooey chocolate chip cookie fresh out of the oven. It was pure, unadulterated happiness and satisfaction

Kudos to the uncle for being a sly, crafty fox, and kudos to his niece for having faith in him

"Sexual Content"

Between which characters? What's the time stamp? I'll get my finger ready on the fast-forward button

Agreed. It's important for media to represent "safe" sex in a realistic and non-preachy way. You've incorporated these elements in your fanfic, and I respect that

Thank you, Wren, for sharing your thoughts. I wish you all the best in your future BL reviews and discussions

My intention was not to misrepresent your position (strawman) or make a false causal link (slippery slope). It was to illustrate the potential absurd consequences of prioritizing "safety" above all else

Everyone has their comfort level. Not everyone wears a seat belt always, and not everyone has "safe" sex always. The reason I raised this issue is that "safe" sex messaging is expected more from gay media than from "straight" media. It doesn't feel like a genuine health concern

You are right that BLs rarely include "safe" sex messaging. Romance is the central focus of BLs. The actors stick to kissing (if even that! That's an issue we will tackle down the road), and "safe" sex messaging wouldn't fit organically into the narrative

The chainmail analogy was a hyperbolic example. It doesn't literally prevent an allergic reaction, and isn't meant to be taken literally. I apologize for the misunderstanding

"Have you watched the series Bed Friend?"

I'm watching it currently. Finished episode 4 last night

I hope my comment didn't offend you? I checked your profile, and your dedication to the BL genre is impressive. Keep up the great work ❤️

"... promoted safe sex"

Society/media has a curious fascination with transforming gay storylines into a public service announcement about "safe" practices. It reminds gay couples to "wrap it before they tap it," and neglects to mention a word to "straight" identifying people. In most "straight" NSFW stories, condoms are the mythical unicorn and nowhere to be found

This one-sided "sex education" doesn't recognize the intelligence and agency of gay couples to make their informed decisions. It's well-intentioned, but doesn't make for a sexy plot twist

Take the "safety" messaging to its ultimate conclusion, and we'd be donning hard hats to cross the street, wearing chainmail to eat e.g. a bag of peanuts for fear of having an allergic reaction, and refusing to leave the house. "Life" is a risk. I'd try to find a balance between caution and fear. I wouldn't shame a monogamous gay couple that face their fears of STDs, take calculated risks and have condomless sex. That's their decision

Condoms fail due to improper usage or manufacturing defects. Some STDs (herpes, HPV, etc) are transmitted through skin-to-skin contact, and even with condom use, there's a risk of transmission. Limiting sexual partners, maintaining open communication about sexual health, getting regular testing, and considering PrEP are as effective

Don't be hard on me, it's not like I'm judging every single person's every single action ... okay, maybe I am

"Too much stuff going on in the world" is why we shouldn't add more humans to the mix

Everyone judges everyone. Whether it's judging outfits or life choices. An adult wouldn't pretend that we are floating around in a judgment-free zone. It's okay to judge. You're judging me for judging the celebrities

A celebrity who can't handle judgment isn't cut out for celebrity life

I have plenty of life or happiness. It just doesn't involve marriage and kids

I'm not jealous of celebrities popping out kids. I don't support the idea that marriage and kids are the paths to happiness

My definition of happiness is a comfy bed, a glass of tap water, and a good fanfiction to lose myself in

The shitty world has lost enough great minds. I'm not adding myself to the list (yet)

If I'm going to off myself, I'm taking everyone else with me

I'm not enjoying it at all

If I were Korean, I wouldn't "get busy." Kids are not pawns in a financial game. Governments should make sure existing kids are getting the support they need, instead of bribing their citizens and playing the baby bonus game

Officer Unofficial MDL Police reporting for duty! Back off, civilians. We are watching you

Every drama is a BL if you ship the male leads hard enough