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yeah they aren’t judged, that’s what i mean, it’s almost as if it’s expected from them

yeah i don’t think so, tv shows that want good feedback will of course depict the downfall of the male cheaters but in real life men always tend to cheat more and get away with it

yeah you can have an issue with that and i don’t think it’s justified but i saw it more as women getting away with something men have never been questioned for

no you misunderstood, i was questioning your “of course it was written by a woman” comment

what does that mean?

Well that’s the kind of thing slice of life is. There’s no real overarching plot except for maybe their romance. And if you like plot heavy then yeah don’t watch this. I don’t understand how you find it crazy that a cozy, chill, and healing drama can be so well loved.

I pretty sure because it’s rated TV-14.

You’re acting like I agree with her actions I never said I did but what I have an issue with is the way you’re comparing women’s abuse to this. They are not the same. That is not an opinion. And we’re honestly running around in circles. I keep reiterating that these two situations are no where near similar because of the different contexts. And you keep blowing everything out of proportion. Don’t bother replying. Good day.

Lmaooo I honestly cannot believe how you can blatantly compare the two. Yeah abusers constantly talk about feeling remorse and how they would never do it again, but she clearly isn’t a bad person. My mother has gone through it so I know what it’s like and I can assure you, it wasn’t that. She never meant to make him bleed and you know that. Holy shit this is actually so disrespectful to survivors of abusive relationships. If you have any respect in you for them pls stop dragging this cause it was never that deep. I can see how it made you uncomfortable and as a 30 something year old, she should’ve done something more rational. We’re just gonna have to agree to disagree.

I watched those scenes to give myself some context and you can clearly see that it was all a ploy. She didn’t even intentionally mean to make him bleed. You cannot compare the abuse women have faced from men and even more, from their own partners to this. Women can’t get out of abusive relationships and can’t even get help from law enforce out of fear. These two situations are not comparable, not even in the slightest. Yeah if it was reversed, it wouldn’t work. But you see this all time in very emotional scenes where two couples are upset and the woman is hitting the man. Do you get upset about that? She shouldn’t have hit him, but that’s thing about writing characters. You sometimes make them do irrational things, even if they’re adults, so they can learn from it.

I’m sorry but this is such an awful take. There really can’t be literal equality between men and women because we’re so different. Yes you shouldn’t be hitting anyone but, if you’re a man being hit by a women than you need to be the bigger person and not engage because you’re obviously stronger than her. I haven’t personally seen the scene you’re talking about but I’m sure it wasn’t that serious.

if the roles were inverted lmao

I agree, I don't get this notion of she's acting like a child.

Well if this is a calling out in general then why did you reply to my comment. You could’ve made your own comment lol. It just seems like you were saying I said this. I didn’t said that specifically but if it came out that way in one of my comments then I’m sorry, it was never my intention. I don’t judge people for liking him cause he’s a fictional character and he’s not even a completely awful person, I just recognize some toxic traits.

Are trying to say I was judging people orrrr

I don’t ship Dam and Woo Yeo actually but I do think that since this is fiction there’s some leeway for this to be justified.

Okay I can definitely see that, to be quite frank, I also felt a little displeased when they started dating. You said earlier that you don't like it how she still calls him Sir and absolutely agree. However, I do think things are a bit too early and also how he had to stop touching her immediately after. So I don't think its entirely her fault. I think it also has to do with the fact that she new to the dating world and is a little apprehensive.

Okay I understand that completely, it doesn't make sense why he's still her professor. However the reason why I find insignificant is because its not like he takes advantage of that power imbalance.

If you're saying I'm attacking, you got it wrong, I'm really just striking a conversation. I never said there wasn't power imbalance, I was addressing the part where you said she isn't strong minded. I truly don't see a difference of the personality of Dam pre-dating and dating. She's still very strong and independent and knows what she wants from my perspective.

Yeah I get that honestly, but it doesn't seem to bother Dam so I find it insignificant.