Dani

I wouldn’t call him a red flag but he was kind immature and he definitely has a communication problem. He was feeling and thinking all sorts of things but didn’t communicate with Dai. Dai was the one who went after him and asked what was going on. And then after saying his thoughts and choosing to be friends with Dai, he gets salty at Dai for being friendly and interested in someone else. He’s human so his feelings are valid, especially because in reality he likes Dai, but it was kind of immature because he was the one who put him in a friendzone base. He being sure that Dai would still choose him regardless was a little weird too because of course he could still choose him but why would he if you dumped him?

Poor Gensei. Ryota saying he understand Shun’s feelings about Dai and Ikuo and Gensei going through basically for the same thing with Ryota and Kazuto

Dai is more like a person who thinks about the present and enjoy the feeling, Shun is more like a person who thinks ahead so he’s probably using his head more than his heart and thinking about the future.

I kind understand him. He’s probably thinking that he and Dai won’t work because they’re different but he do feel attracted to him so he’s conflicted. He’s thinking about future already so I think he’s having doubts about the relationship, which is super valid. The thing I didn’t like about his attitude is that he was feeling all that and didn’t communicate with Dai. Dai was the one who went after him. Also, he chose to be friends with Dai, he was the one who pushed Dai away but then he got angry at Dai for being friendly and interested in someone else. It was kind of immature but I do think he’s confused and I hope he realizes his true feelings soon. He needs to look inside deeply and see what will really be his choice.

Kazuto is cute, I understand everyone choosing him. But I think it’s kind funny that people who have more similar personalitys (as Kazuto, Shun & Ryota, or Dai & Alan) aren’t interested in each other, instead they seem more like friends who give each other strength. Gensei and Ryota are so comfortable with each other, I like watching them and I’m kind rooting for them to be together. Alan and Kazuto were kind nice too but I feel they’re like Dai and Shun, a bit different from each other.

Shun was so contradictory in these episodes. He felt that he and Dai are different and they should stay friends, which is super valid and he’s kind right, both are really different. I also understand his feelings about feeling a little drowned by Dai’s energy. But when Dai is being happy and friendly with someone else he became angry? lol He also said he doesn’t like clingy people but then he talked with Ryota and Gensei saying he’s not worried about Ikou because he know Dai will choose him and not Ikou like what? 😂 You said you want to be friends, you said you don’t like clingy people, Dai understands and gives you personal space and see you as a friend as YOU wished but you still want/think Dai should choose you? I don’t get it. It seems like he wants Dai to be chasing after him regardless but if Dai did that he would feel annoyed by Dai’s clinginess. Even the commentators were confused by Shun.

Dai was the opposite of red flag in these episodes and I hope people will stop calling him that. He was once again caring with Shun. He noticed that something was wrong, went after Shun to talk and then gave him what he wanted. Shun pushed him in a friendzone base so he’s not wrong about thinking to move on. And I must say, Dai and Ikuo were kind cute together, they macthed. The thing is: Shun clearly doesn’t want to be only friends with Dai so he really need to be more true to himself and to Dai. He need to be more true to his own feelings.

I was sad about Usak leaving :( The drawing he did was sooo cute!! I’m really liking this cast, all guys are great and likeable and it’s such a rare thing for me to like everyone in a reality show. I hope everyone find their happiness!

People are practically find everything about them and it’s looking like they’re still together so I think they’re trying to hide.

Both of them unfollowed everyone. I wouldn’t take this too seriously, I think they probably want to avoid spoilers or they just don't want people snooping through their friends' accounts.

It’s normal to have people liking them together because both of them had a lot of screentime together and they’re the only formed couple in the show. We also know they will have a lot of intimate scenes. Based on previews the next one will be Alan and Kazuto so people will probably began to care more for them as well and the others participants as well.

I agree with everything you said. I know this is a reality show and it’s normal to having opinions but people are already saying he’s a red flag when he’s doing nothing serious or too wrong to Shun, imagine if Shun do feel hurt by him later? I can already see the hate comments on his IG.

The only thing I do think about Dai is that it looks like he’s rushing a little. Of course I don’t know the exactly pacing and the exactly time the situations happened because everything is edited but I don’t think rushing is necessary because they will be in the house for 1 month.

What do you mean by easily swayed? I wouldn’t say he’s easily swayed by looks because until know he’s only after Shun. If he was that easily swayed, he would be more confused by others in the house. I was even surprised because he found Usak hot but didn’t really try anything with him. He was still interested in Shun.

It seems so. It’s all theories now but Dai is using Shun’s jacket in one photo, another one it seems like he’s taking selfies with Shun’s phone because the back shell of the phone he used is broken just like Shun’s phone. The phone is also in a different color (He took with a white color phone which is the same color as Shun’s phone too and Dai’s phone is a black one). In another photo, Shun is holding a picture of a guy in his phone and it looks similar as Shun.

We don’t know if they still together tho because they filmed last year but let’s see. For now it’s only strong theories.

Wow some people are saying that Shun and Dai ended up together because of their IG photos and I’m speechless because if it’s true they didn’t even try to hide lol

Totally agree! I think it’s ok to have opinions as this is a dating reality show but I hope people won’t that harsh because both Dai and Shun will for sure have their flaws as they’re humans, not perfect being. And for sure they will hurt each other. I’m feeling Shun will expect a lot from Dai and I think Dai might feel confused by Shun’s feelings.

Totally agree! I think it’s ok to have opinions as this is a dating reality show but I hope people won’t be that harsh because both Dai and Shun will for sure have their flaws as they’re humans, not perfect being. And for sure they will hurt each other. I’m feeling Shun will expect a lot from Dai like “he really likes me or not? and I think Dai might feel the same. He might be confused by Shun’s actions and we still have more one guy to come…

There’s nothing wrong with thinking people are hot, wanting to have sex with a person you’re interested (if it’s mutual) or having a few naked pictures. Dai can do all of these things and still look for a serious relationship so I think it’s a little too soon to judge him and it’s looking like people are only thinking about Shun’s perspective, not Dai’s.


To me (until now) neither Dai nor Shun are red flags, they’re only different people with different mindsets and environment.

I loved!!!! The cast is great and even the commentators are nice! I enjoyed that they got a diverse cast with people in similar ages and we also have 2 people who are bissexual, yesss more representation! Talking more about the guys:

- Dai: I liked him! He’s nice, communicative, looks confident in himself and he’s very straightforward. He looks like he enjoys partys a lot and a free kind of lifestyle. I think he’s really nice with Shun, always looking after him, but they seems so different from each other that I’m curious if it’s going to work out.
- Shun: He’s beautiful and looks like a puppy omg. He seems to not have a stable mentality and he looks like someone who went trough a lot. I think he’s very sensitive and it’s hard for him to open easily. It’s like he’s doubting everyone constantly and also himself. With someone like Dai I think he might feel a little uncomfortable as they’re very different people and they act and show emotions differently. Dai can do things that it might hurt him and he also can do things that it might hurt Dai. But I confess that I’m kind invested in them.
- Taeheon: He’s so sweet!!!! I just loved that he asked if anyone in the house identified themselves differently tham he/him, he’s very mindful. He’s also a cutie and handsome. I want more scenes of him!
- Ryota & Gensei: I was surprised that Ryota matched well with the cast because I thought he would be kind of isolated as his personality seems different from others. He and Gensei were pretty cute together and I kind wanted them together. Also Gensei is really nice!
- Kazuto & Usak: also liked both! Wish Kazuto would apper more tho.
- Alan: My brazilian representative!! I knew I would like him and he didn’t disappoint. He’s seems so nice and as he said, the ways he acts is just like a brazilian, I love how he hugged everyone when he came to the house , it was really a brazilian thing haha He looks really enthusiastic and outgoing person. I’m excited for more of him!

So yeah I really liked and i’m excited for the new episodes. I only wish the episodes were a bit longer because come one, less than 1 hour? 😭

I just finished the last episode and gosh, what a ride! The story is sooo good and I just couldn’t stop watching. As usual, Yang Zi was amazing here! She nailed all her scenes, especially the emotional scenes. I don’t recall watching anything with Zhang Wan Yi and Tan Jian Ci before (at least with main lead characters) but wow, their performances really impacted me here. Their acting was so natural and we could feel their emotions only looking at their eyes. I’m really excited for S2 and scared of course for what it might happen…I know it won’t end good as the title is Lost You Forever.

I gotta say that all 3 male leads annoyed me in different situations and I feel like no one is good enough for Xiao Yao (although I do have my favorite one). Xuan is so interesting as a character and I get that everything he did was for Xiao Yao and he wants to protect her but his jealousy and overprotective behavior annoyed in some scenes. Xiang Liu was mean to Xiao Yao in the beginning and sometimes I just wished he was more transparent with her because it was sad (and annoying at the same time) seeing that he wanted her so bad but restricted himself.

And Jing…well, I tried to understand his ethics and his ways to do things but his “good personality” persona annoyed me sooooo much. I usually like characters that gives “green flag” vibes but here it was just meh. I wanted to see more of the character but he ended up being a character with no strength or charisma whatsoever. I know he went trough a lot but I wish he was more fierce towards things. In the last episode he said Xiao Yao was going to marry Feng Long for his good habilities and for status, and she wouldn't choose him for that reason. I was speechless because it seems like he doesn't know the person he fell in love with. Even Xiang Liu was annoyed by his self-deprecation speech. Jing and Xiao Yao’s scenes were cute but they didn't captivate me as a couple.

In the end, even Xiang Liu being a red flag towards Xiao Yao in the beginning and his actions annoying me a little, I’m still a YaoLiu shipper 😭 Usually I prefer characters like a “green flag”but I just couldn’t escape Xiang Liu’s character. He’s complex, beautiful and interesting. His chemistry with Xiao Yao was insane too and most of his scenes with her were interesting and beautiful.

Ah, I also found Xuan’s scene with her really good! They had a lot of chemistry together and most of their scenes were really beautiful. But yeah I’m really excited to see how the story will proceed in S2 and what awaits the characters in the end.

Oh I will absolutely come back here later to give my final opinions! And yes, the OST is really good!! I love the opening credits song, it gives me sooo much feelings!

I started this drama days ago because everyone talked about it last year (I’m at episode 24 now) and I gotta say, it’s really good! Good story, characters, beautiful cinematography, great OST and good performances by the actors (I already knew Yang Zi is good at acting but the others did a great job too). Last year I saw a lot of people discussing about who FML should end up in the end and well, I understand everyone now.

Thinking about Xiao Yao, I think Jing is the best option for what she looks for and in a way, it makes sense. Also I do think they have cute scenes. But, as a viewer, altough their scenes are cute sometimes, it’s hard to make a bond with them because she has so much more chemistry with Xiao Liu and Xuan :/ also, both characters are more interesting for me than Jing. I know that I didn’t finish the drama yet but but personally, although I do think Xiao Liu is a bit toxic, the character and chemistry is insanely good and it’s so hard to ignore them together. I know they won’t be together tho 💔 But well I can only wish Jing grows up more in me later.

Well unfortunately this season couldn’t get me hyped as last season and after Junghyun’s last live I don’t know how to feel watching a show and possible rooting for someone that was literally chasing a minor…I won’t say names because we don’t know for sure who is but I’m having my thoughts and as it might be one of my favorites in the house I prefer to stay away from the show. I will probably look at the spoilers later to see the couples that ended up together just out of curiosity. Still wish the best for the boys :)