What's brave about stubbornly chasing after a women who doesn't really like you. It gives stalker
I can sense so much hate in your comment.Do you know the entire story for you to be able to say these.As if you have met them and talk to them in person. Please refer to the definition below. "Stalking is a pattern of repeated and unwanted attention, harassment, contact, or any other course of conduct directed at a specific person that would cause a reasonable person to feel fear,” And also on the statements they released the guy clarified that they only met again for the filming of the show.So these kind of stubbornly chasing someone never happened or even on the show.Because if the girl did feel uncomfortable during the show she would have set her boundaries already.You are just assuming things.
The program team owes the responsibility because they listened to the demand of the public instead of protecting their guests.Have they ever spoken up about the attacks these guests have when the show was airing.None. They only released a statement at the end of the show.They know everything going on behind the scenes anyone would be so dumb to believe thay they know nothing when they own the show.Their priority is profit and not thw guest.It happened so many times already even in the past.Another wake up call for everybody.They could have prevented these from happening if not for the overhype and promotion.
Any rational person who watched their offline videos will never say they are an endgame.Nope Gao mentioned that the status of their relationship from past to present were just friends.Her posts doesn't necessarily mean they are together.Like I said it was the delulu fans who assumed everything.How sure are you that she keeps hanging on him when it could be that the guy really did stop pursuing her and that is why it was already too late.No one really knows what happens offline not even you, me or anyone else.It is a private matter.Have you talked to them or met them?How easy it is to call someone lame and stupid as if they have ever met them in person.
Crazy how other names are being dragged when Oscar is already in a relationship.I wonder if these people ever live their lives to be able to say these kind of insults.They dragged names and are trying to strain relationships my goodness.As if we own their lives and we have no right to control their actions.
Let this matter be put to rest and respect begets respect.
I really hope these cyberbullying would stop.Almost anyone on the show did the announcement kind of thing on October 29 not just them.The annoucement was meant for HE online and It was never mentioned that they are an endgame.These is where the confusion comes from because no statements were made after Those were just assumptions from fans and it was the fault of the production team for not clarifying the matters the day after for they have the full authority over the show.The guests here are used as scapegoats.The personal attacks were too much that is why I understand that the moment they finally announced their real status is a way of expressing their bottled up feelings and emotions because for such a long time they couldn't speak up for themselves and it is liberating to finally speak the truth because I know for some reason it is stressful for the any of them.The emotional damage it has caused them as if they are not humans.For so many months you are under the scrutiny of the public and honesty is the best the thing you can give.Everything is arranged by the program team.It serves an eye opener and a lesson for all of them.That is these popularity poll kind of thing should be removed
The confession doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be together it is a way of expressing your innermost feelings.That is why rejection only happens if you are not ready but in their case it is understandable they are at least willing to try and to get to know each other well and to know whether they are suited to be friends or lovers.
I never condoned the marketing tactic that these team is pulling everytime.The program couldn't even protect their guests.
It is good to keep this kind of mentality instead of bashing people who don't even know us in person.I also enjoyed their journey.Life is too long to dwell on the ending.Only time can tell.
To be honest the moment they posted the real update gives a sense of relief not just to them but for everyone.Imagine being tormented for months.They are very cautious because their every move is being monitored by so many people.We are all viewers here and we don't own their lives.
At the start of the show,crazy how these people post rumors or unverified stories they found on weibo and other platforms which just ruins the show and everyone who participated on it.
Hats off for Peng Gao he was really sincere and brave and that picture it has two meanings and talks about timing.He even talked about losing himself in the process and that part made me understand that in the process of pursuing her they were way too different.Qingya at some point realized it was too late.But it wasn't right to judge her because we were never in her shoes.I know for sure the sympathy falls for the guy. Gao wrote that not to blame anyone so it is better to stop these speculations or accusations due to limited information.Also the confession night even if you would tell me that she should reject him.I think you were wrong based on that conversation they both agreed to know each other in real life because the life in the cabin was too short.It is more painful to see someone being rejected on tv because it is a scene that will be replayed so many times.Rather it is more polite to talk to someone in private.
I rememebered that in one of the clips released recently Peng Gao talks something about friendship and love.It doesn't matter whether it will be friendship or love in the future as long as they can be their most comfortable self. This kind of issues and problems happens in real life.It was magnified and sensationalized since they participated on the show. If they weren't part of the show no one would dug out or scold them in public.It is a problem that involves the two of them and not for us viewers to get involve with who only see a part of what the program wants us to see.
Also what fuels this kind of issue are all the rumors circulating around when the show was airing.Sad to say that most people weren't very open minded and create their own narratives without worrying these people are also vulnerable.
I don't think they broke up in the sense they were never together. Can't wait to see who's the better ACTOR in…
This was too much.I think no one knows the whole truth.Even if they are not together it is best not to speculate on anything.Imagine before the joining the show these people are private people and at the end of the day you are on the hotsearch everytime.Everyone's mental health is at stake.People can easily judge them based on what was shown.Finally they posted already and it gives everyone a sigh of relief imagine keeping all these thoughts in your head while being constantly judged by other people.It is so distressing and tormenting experience.No one deserves this kind of hate.
In the span of 21 days do you think all people are too quick to fall in love.If you rewatch their confession scene it was more like of an open ending.The problem lies offline.
The production team will be blamed for this because they created this popularity poll whatever and misleading the fans for some reason.They have full authority on whatever is released and I bet how are they gonna create a buzz next season when they are pulling on the same trick again and again.
Despite of what happened offline GaoYa Cp will always be beautiful memory.Hats off goes to Peng Gao for his bravery and sincerity.Their journey reminded me that love is so pure.It is not right to blame each other.Yes it is painful to hear such news.Only time can tell. The production team will lose its credibility at some point.Anyone who joins the show will be more hesistant because the amount of backlash is just unimaginable.That is why it is better to find the love of your life in reality than on a dating show.
IMO, no restriction and they're allowed to get to know other people. They locked in on the first person they like…
You made a point.Yes this is dating show everyone has the right to know other people and it was the fans who are making their own narrative as if the people on the show are already a couple in the first few eps. when the confession is just miles away.But now it is coming real and it is about to end.The only season I seriously follow.
I find it funny how these people just posted rumors they find on weibo or in whatever platforms they can find about the show when some of them are less credible and unreliable.Just because some guests are not their cup of tea they started to make sarcastic comments as if they know everything.This show is heavily edited.
Just watched ep 8.3.Yufan made me cry this season.She never blamed anyone yet accepted everything with a brave heart.Muchen was feeling guilty though they were all happy in 702 before but ever since that date they became distant.He is free to make his choices and he needs to be firm so as not to hurt others in the process.Why do I feel like he can easily clarify things with Yufan but couldn't answer Mimi well.Because I always feel like Mimi and Muchen weren't very open about their feelings in the first few eps.It gave Dinghao and Yufan hope.These fanwars are just making it worse.I don't really condone these type of actions.The backlash that these people are getting isn't right because you are made to participate on the show to enjoy and have fun and not to be ridiculed.
The scene at the beach when Yufan and Muchen were talking seems like two people who are in relationship and are sorting out their feelings.A scene from a kdrama. Her first date with Muchen is def one of the best this season.I feel sorry for Yufan but she is very sensible and brave.🫰This reminded me of HS4.
Nini and Midie washing the dishes together.I can already imagine what their married life would be.Both are very calm so there is no pressure on both sides.Their scenes are so comfortable to watch.😍
Gaoya,nidie are definitely seems to BE lol Only tomo qiqi, haomi, yuyan went to hunan today
I am actually enoying the GaoYa CP with less expectations no matter what the outcome is.All the best for them and seeing that everyone looks so happy during promotions that's enough.
If there is someone in the house that I really hoped and wished to get married that would be Midie and Nini.I feel like they will have a healthy relationship judging by their conversations there is no pressure at all.I am just enjoying their moments with less expectations.But whatever the ending is I just wish to see them happy.
Never saw such pure guy than Pengao in a dating show, the way he expresses his joy was the cutest and heartwarming…
True I feel like Leyan and Xiaomi have strong personalities and maybe because of their job or career that not a lot of guys can handle but can be admirable for some guys as well.But tbh they need guys who have less domineering personalities.However of all the female guests Qiqi and Yufan are probably my faves.Qiqi is one of the coolest catfish out there her personality is very calm and can get along well with other people.That is why Tomo can open up to her.She's such a cool girl,very simple yet beautiful. Yufan is such a ball of sunshine.She's very sensible and observant to those around her and very brave in expressing her feelings.You mentioned Peng Gao yep he is such a sincere guy.His very simple yet romantic kind of guy.His feelings are very transparent and I wish his efforts will soon pay off because he is one of the best man out there.
"Stalking is a pattern of repeated and unwanted attention, harassment, contact, or any other course of conduct directed at a specific person that would cause a reasonable person to feel fear,”
And also on the statements they released the guy clarified that they only met again for the filming of the show.So these kind of stubbornly chasing someone never happened or even on the show.Because if the girl did feel uncomfortable during the show she would have set her boundaries already.You are just assuming things.
Any rational person who watched their offline videos will never say they are an endgame.Nope Gao mentioned that the status of their relationship from past to present were just friends.Her posts doesn't necessarily mean they are together.Like I said it was the delulu fans who assumed everything.How sure are you that she keeps hanging on him when it could be that the guy really did stop pursuing her and that is why it was already too late.No one really knows what happens offline not even you, me or anyone else.It is a private matter.Have you talked to them or met them?How easy it is to call someone lame and stupid as if they have ever met them in person.
Crazy how other names are being dragged when Oscar is already in a relationship.I wonder if these people ever live their lives to be able to say these kind of insults.They dragged names and are trying to strain relationships my goodness.As if we own their lives and we have no right to control their actions.
Let this matter be put to rest and respect begets respect.
Those were just assumptions from fans and it was the fault of the production team for not clarifying the matters the day after for they have the full authority over the show.The guests here are used as scapegoats.The personal attacks were too much that is why I understand that the moment they finally announced their real status is a way of expressing their bottled up feelings and emotions because for such a long time they couldn't speak up for themselves and it is liberating to finally speak the truth because I know for some reason it is stressful for the any of them.The emotional damage it has caused them as if they are not humans.For so many months you are under the scrutiny of the public and honesty is the best the thing you can give.Everything is arranged by the program team.It serves an eye opener and a lesson for all of them.That is these popularity poll kind of thing should be removed
The confession doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be together it is a way of expressing your innermost feelings.That is why rejection only happens if you are not ready but in their case it is understandable they are at least willing to try and to get to know each other well and to know whether they are suited to be friends or lovers.
I never condoned the marketing tactic that these team is pulling everytime.The program couldn't even protect their guests.
At the start of the show,crazy how these people post rumors or unverified stories they found on weibo and other platforms which just ruins the show and everyone who participated on it.
Hats off for Peng Gao he was really sincere and brave and that picture it has two meanings and talks about timing.He even talked about losing himself in the process and that part made me understand that in the process of pursuing her they were way too different.Qingya at some point realized it was too late.But it wasn't right to judge her because we were never in her shoes.I know for sure the sympathy falls for the guy. Gao wrote that not to blame anyone so it is better to stop these speculations or accusations due to limited information.Also the confession night even if you would tell me that she should reject him.I think you were wrong based on that conversation they both agreed to know each other in real life because the life in the cabin was too short.It is more painful to see someone being rejected on tv because it is a scene that will be replayed so many times.Rather it is more polite to talk to someone in private.
I rememebered that in one of the clips released recently Peng Gao talks something about friendship and love.It doesn't matter whether it will be friendship or love in the future as long as they can be their most comfortable self.
This kind of issues and problems happens in real life.It was magnified and sensationalized since they participated on the show.
If they weren't part of the show no one would dug out or scold them in public.It is a problem that involves the two of them and not for us viewers to get involve with who only see a part of what the program wants us to see.
Also what fuels this kind of issue are all the rumors circulating around when the show was airing.Sad to say that most people weren't very open minded and create their own narratives without worrying these people are also vulnerable.
In the span of 21 days do you think all people are too quick to fall in love.If you rewatch their confession scene it was more like of an open ending.The problem lies offline.
The production team will be blamed for this because they created this popularity poll whatever and misleading the fans for some reason.They have full authority on whatever is released and I bet how are they gonna create a buzz next season when they are pulling on the same trick again and again.
The production team will lose its credibility at some point.Anyone who joins the show will be more hesistant because the amount of backlash is just unimaginable.That is why it is better to find the love of your life in reality than on a dating show.