How is Daon the problem? He keeps rejecting and ignoring Suhyun every time and he has been manipulated by Jaemin…
I really understand where you are coming from but at some point the victim has to make a choice to no longer be a victim. That is why I state that I know this is not easy. I dont look at this likely. The victim has to get fed up with the situation. I know one case where the victim had someone like DaOn who helped them garner up the courage to break free. I know of another who remained a victim for over 30 years. That person finally stopped being a victim and fled but still misses the Jaemin who dangled financial security to keep the stranglehold on the person. The third person I know of personally chose to ignore the pleas of others. The result was death at the hands of the tormenter. That is what I meant by Dahoe being the problem. Just saying the words no or leave me alone is not enough. The break has to be non negotiable.
The more I watch this the more I feel the real problem is Da On. Yes, we see him as a victim and we feel sorry for him but how long are you going to be the victim? Has he become so attached to this cat and mouse game that he somehow has become complicit? Jae Min and Su Kim are both asses. They obviously have their own personal demons that are a major cause of their crazy psychosis. They are who they are and I dont see them changing. It is Da On who has to make the change. It looks like an easy choice but I know from experience that it is not. I have watched people get entangled in a toxic relationship to the point where they have become so emotionally invested in the situation that they just accepted it. I hope this does not have a tragic ending for Hyeon or Da On because people like Jaemin and Su Kim seem unable to accept defeat. Da On has got to make a choice but at what price? Wow I am so loving this because there is still the missing piece in this game of chess. The good news is we wont have too wait much longer. Only three more episodes.
I admit I am a chicken. From the comments and short clips it feels like I would need a box of tissues with each episode. I love the main actors . I think I will just wait and see how it ends. It sounds alot like my parents life story . They met in high school and fell in love. My mom also had a hard time with her inlaws. My dad was a saint. He was a common laborer but you would never notice it from the smile on his face and how he never gave up. My mom was the perpetual cheerleader. She did whatever it took to keep us together. They faced so many hardships together. They were an inspiration to me and so many others. She remained his one true love until his death. She never remarried. I always told her she would never find a man who doted on her and loved her like my dad did. I found the same kind of love. We met in the sixth grade and shared fifty years together before he passed away. Our last conversation was filled with joy and laughter. Neither of us knew that less than two hours later he would be gone. I will continue reading your comments. I am sure that in the midst of their struggles there were moments of joy and happiness. Please feel free to share. At some point I may gather the strength to watch. Thank you.
As a gay dude myself, I can understand Heng. He has been in the closet his entire life, especially with his mother,…
Thank you for your response. It may not seem like it from my response but I do understand. I have one cousin who came out as a teenager. Believe me it was not easy. It was also during a time before we had sex equality so he faced alot of social backlash. But he came out and our family accepted him. He lived in another state but one of my proudest moments was when we had a family celebration at our house for our grandfather’s birthday. He and his mom attended. He was in his twenties then. I still have the pictures. We went shopping. He did not have to pretend to be what he wasnt. Now that was on my dad’s side of the family. It was completely the opposite when years later a young cousin came out. This was on my mom’s side of the family. I think if she had still been alive it would have been handled much differently. His father and his mother disowned him. He was shunned by his siblings. He ran away. We have no idea where he is. I do respect him for having the courage to tell his truth even though he knew what the response would be. I guess that is why I am upset with Heng. I empathize with him but I want him to be more assertive. Even when dealing with his boss and his friend girl he acts so cowardly. I have a strong personality too but I was really glad when at different points in time my children stood up to me. They were not disrespectful but firm in letting me know they had made a life choice that they knew I did not agree with….and you know what…I got over it because it forced me to make a choice between my child or my beliefs at that time. I am glad I chose to support my child. I started watching bls during the pandemic. I am still learning. Again, I do appreciate and thank you for your response. I will try to be more open minded.
I am really upset with Heng. I hate a weak ass indecisive wimp of a man. Momo needed to leave his butt. How much rejection can any one person take. Enough is enough! Time to man up or just stay a mommy’s boy! Those tears did not move me at all. Ughhhhh! I am really not looking forward to next week! I see from the previews where this going and it is not funny to me!
I started watching and then decided to wait and binge watch. After reading the comments I am glad I waited. I love Boss and Noelle. Waiting week after week would have been too stressful for me. Lol
I am watching ep 12 and I am really upset with the professor. You dont let anyone talk negatively about your brother and insult your family. These brothers are just too soft. I cant wait until sister in law steps in and lets this devious sil have a piece of her mind. She needs to get on a plane and fly her greedy ass back to the states.
I started watching ep 11 and both the mother and daughter were getting on my last nerve. Who acts like that? I thought it must be a cultural thing but then it suddenly came to me. Who acts like that…..my late mother….lol…I kid you not. I left for school one morning and when I returned home my mother had rearranged the entire house. She had moved my room from upstairs to the downstairs dining room. She must have gotten busy the moment I walked out the door. She had everything all arranged neatly….my bed, dresser, even my desk and bookcase. She met me at the door with a big smile on her face as she announced my cousin, her husband and their two children would be moving in with us. I couldnt even stay mad with her. Her heart was always in the right place.,So I have decided to hang in here.,I still cannot bear the storyline with the dancer and the crazy stalker so I just fast forward on their scenes. I also hope the professor does not lose his child. I cannot envision his ex wife changing diapers or potty changing. I wonder what her real motive is.
This really exceeded my expectations. I am really glad I waited until it was done and binge watched. No cringey toxic parts. Serious issues handled with respect and sensitivity. Loved the mls and the second couple. This goes on my rewatch list.
i also loved how they used “older” LYKN song in there 🥰
Thank you again. I went to Youtube to listen to it and watch them. Their choreography is so smooth. They remind me of the Temptations from the 70s who were known for their amazing choreography and soothing voices. Of course I had to download to my playlist.
i also loved how they used “older” LYKN song in there 🥰
What song was that? I was not familiar withLYKN until this series. Now I cant get enough of them. I admire and respect anyone who sees an opportunity and makes the most of it.
Episode 13 was so awesome I have already rewatched it twice. It didnt feel like the usual series. I actually felt like I was in real time watching a live concert and feeling the excitement as MARS live their truth. Kudos to the entire cast and the production team. It does not feel like an ending. It feels like a new and fresh beginning. I want more! I read where they even exceeded the expectations of GMMTV. They are going to fly higher!
Wow! This has been such a great ride! I have watched at least a hundred bls and this has got to be one of the best, if not the best finales I have watched. I miss William and Est already. And LYKN stepped up to the plate and hit a homerun. This definitely goes on my rewatch list. All I can say is it has been fun!
obviously have their own
personal demons that are a major cause of their crazy psychosis. They are who they are and I dont see them changing. It is Da On who has to make the change. It looks like an easy choice but I know from experience that it is not. I have watched people get entangled in a toxic
relationship to the point where they have become so emotionally invested in the situation that they just accepted it. I hope this does not have a tragic ending for Hyeon or Da On
because people like Jaemin and Su Kim seem unable to accept defeat. Da On has got to make a choice but at what price? Wow I am so loving this because there is still the missing piece in this game of chess. The good news is we wont have too wait much longer. Only three more episodes.
learning. Again, I do appreciate and thank you for your response. I will try to be more open minded.
expectations. I am really glad I waited until it was done and binge watched. No cringey toxic parts. Serious issues handled with respect and sensitivity. Loved the mls and the second couple. This goes on my rewatch list.
beginning. I want more! I read where they even exceeded the expectations of GMMTV. They are going to fly higher!