Diva70

I enjoyed reading your comments. You tend to be long winded like myself. I stand by my past comments. This is the most authentic and realistic reality shows I have ever seen. That it is focused on gay men is the icing on the cake. You make some good points. When I looked at this series it made me think about my high school and college days. Meeting up years later very few of the couples who we thought were joined at the hip and would be together made it for the long run. But the good news is we could still be cordial and in some cases became just good friends. That is how life is. I thought the same as many about Hu Wei and Bomi. They each have alot going on and Bomi is so young. Who knows what will happen in the future. As far as Jobu I thought he was just funny and horny. Taeheon was a willing participant.. William and Izaya both seemed pretty certain about what they wanted and already seem pretty secure in their respective careers so I wish them the best. I feel each one came out the better for having been on the show and I sense no bitterness or animosity. Like in life you win some you lose some you keep it moving. Take care.

I am really liking this series. It reminds me alot about Manner of Death. I love GMMTV getting into more mature themes and storylines. I love Joong and Dunk but Chimon is really impressive in this series. I always felt he was really talented but just needed the right vehicle. He has really matured and I am loving it! At this point I really dont know who the killer could be but I am enjoying this roller coaster ride.

I am surprised at the rating. This is a gem. Should be at least 8.5. I hope it improves . Anyway, I am in it until the end.

Mawin is the friend I dream of having. Ko and Pheem remine me of fraternity brothers. All is fair in love and war until one really falls in love . Then it’s no longer a game. I cant help it. Gun looks so darn good in pink. I absolutely adore that jacket. And I can look at Dew all day. I love a tall man. As for Off…he is in a class all by himself . The three of them together made this worth watching. Of course an honorable mention goes to AJ. He and JJ must be laughing all the way to the bank. This was a roller coaster of a ride. I am not even mad at Jira. The heart knows what the heart wants . It is not suppose to make sense. It is over. I got my happy ending. If anyone expected Off and Gun not to end up together they havent been watching these two very long. It is always a matter of when and how with these two. I love it! This goes on my rewatch list.

One last note! I truly liked every one on Season 2. Just like Season 1 they really picked a diverse group in terms of ages and personalities but they each had a personal story to tell which made me cry at times. I pray each one is doing well . Tomaki’s letter was so touching. He reminds me of my younger son. I also love Ryuki. I just wanted to hug him and reassure him. I think this group will be there for him if he has a need to talk. I cant end without a word of praise for the side panel. They provided just the right balance of honesty and objectivity. I hope to see them in Season 3. The music, the visuals, the coffee truck, the getaways… all perfect in my humble opinion. Take care everyone and be kind.

I really really hope we get a third season! I have said it before and I will keep saying it! This is not just about hooking up! This is much deeper than that and I love how the show allows us to get a glimpse into what is actually in their hearts. I appreciate being allowed into their world. As an older person who is non gay and has grown up in a very conservative environment this show has been entertaining and educational. I have grandsons and nephews. I hope I have created an atmosphere where they would feel safe and free to reveal their truth. Years ago my family had a chance to do that with a young relative and we failed miserably. His grandmother and I have spoken about this and I know she shares my regret. He seems to have dropped off the planet. That is not his fault. His parents and siblings pushed him away in a very harsh manner. I wish he would contact us. So more than the other similar shows this one in my opinion is the best . It is much more mature and insightful. Even if one does not find a partner I think they leave with a greater understanding of who they are and what matters to them most as they continue to live their truth.
If you read this whole rant thank you. I enjoy this forum and the freedom to express myself. I was so happy for the three couples. Whether they last or not it has been a great ride.

I was thinking the same thing after watching Season 4 of HisMan. One week is not enough time especially if you are an introvert. The dates seem rushed and scripted. The Boyfriend is not perfect but it feels more authentic and realistic. I strongly believe the longer format allows for feelings to develop naturally.

From the comments it looks like Toh has finally broke away from Jimmy. I hope this turns out like Secret Relationships where the good guy comes in and finally shows Toh what a real non toxic love feels like. However I am not holding my breathe since Jimmy is shown as the main character. However it amazes me how people will return time and time again knowing they are setting themselves up for more heartache. It will be interesting to read how the writers give Jimmy a redemption arch.

I like your thought process..

Yes, they are shoeing two episodes today.

It is on Gagalala in America. Watching it now.

This is only the first episode and I am loving it already. The visuals are insane. I am riding this train until the end. Love love the cast.

Sorry I have tried but I have been spoiled by The Boyfriend. I am stuck on this find love in seven days format. Seven days to me is just so much pressure especially if you are an introvert. I feel the intense emotional pressure it is having on everyone but especially the introverts.
Even if they walk away with someone it wont last because it truly takes more than seven days. Hopefully I am wrong but I will just wait until it is over to find out the results. It just seems too forced and too orchestrated. I am happy to see some people enjoying it. I like reading their comments.

Thank you. I looked at it twice already and missed that😭

I loved ep 9 but next week is going to be wild….is Don still alive or was that part of a dream…anyway I cant wait!

Pavel and Pooh have done it again. From start to finish they had me on the edge of my seat. Kudos to the entire cast and crew. Whether you believe in the supernatural or not this was so well done. The visuals were just awesome. Loved the ending. All my favorites were left alive and standing. This is definitely on my rewatch list. I cant wait to see Grim Lover.

Love ep 9. Perfect example of what happens when you fall for an egotistical, self centered narcissist. They can be so seductive and charming but it is just a mask. Poor Jira…he took the bait and fell for Koh. I really hope he does not end up with Koh. One of my favorite sayings is I can do bad all by myself. Koh is the textbook example for a toxic personality. Run Jira run. Of course, he probably won’t listen.

This is the only reality show that I watch. I loved Season 1 and now I am in love with Season 3. It seems so much more authentic than the other shows. No silly game fillers. The contestants actually get the chance to voice their opinions and it is not just about hooking up. We really get to see the personal challenges that being a gay man in an Asian country presents. It is heartbreaking to listen to their personal struggles but it has also given me a new insight into the gay world. This is not a bl fictional series. This is real. Kudos to the cast and all involved. The more I watched Kazuyuki the more I kept saying he needed to go back and try to make things right with his ex. It was clear that he was not over his ex. And I hope Ryubi has found the support group that he needs to be able to eventually live his truth. He is so young . I would like to see him back for a season three . I was also glad that they let Izaya and William leave. It was obvious that they were at the point where they just wanted to be together. I also love the panel. They offer insightful comments but are not at all intrusive. Again for me this is the best. I thought I loved His Man the best but no season they have will ever top Season 2 in my book. Sung Ho and Seong are still going strong. See you next week. Hope Bomi and Huwei seal the deal.

I can empathize with you and you make a logical argument. It reminds me of the funeral of a close relative. When it was time for remarks from family and friends a young man stepped forward and intoduced himself. Apparently my deceased relative was his father and this was his first time seeing him. I sat there in amazement. There was no bitterness or anger in his tone. In fact he extended an olive branch to his half siblings. What was the point of being angry? They could not undo the past. Instead they embraced him. I did not read the book that this series is based on but from a comment I read the writers of the screenplay have followed the book .

I have rewatched ep 8 for a second time and I am so sorry about all the negative reactions. I too was disappointed at Don dying but it is such a well done and beautiful episode about love and life. Maybe I feel this way because I am old enough to have experienced that life and love is not linear or logical. Maybe I feel this way because I was happily preparing to see the man I loved when I got that fateful call from the hospital. Like Pond I rushed to the hospital but it was too late. I had been talking to my husband less than an hour before and now he was gone. I will always regret that I had not said I love you before we hung up. I loved the part where the office team does the exercise about love. Now whenever I end a conversation with my friends or loved ones I always say I love you. Funny how it has now become a beautiful habit. And for those who say things could have been cleared up so easily I say yes in a perfect world that is how it would be. But again speaking from experience it does not always work that way. Maybe I am one of the few people in the world whose family tree is overloaded with secrets and hidden truths. If anyone has been kind enough to read my long tirade I thank you. I do not take your criticism lightly but I stand as probably the only one who actually appreciates the overall symbolism and message .