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I didn't see it that way, I saw it as a totally logical reaction with a touch of drama as it was a TV show, after all she received a major shock when she was getting excited about him, all after an ugly breakup, plus in months of interaction and having taken her home he never mentioned his son (misunderstood), after all, almost 90% of people don't think clearly when they receive a shock.

The circumstances of the FL are completely different, way too diferent to be honest, age, position in life, personality and preferences, also in love scout the FL lacked of family love and parents, she created a connection with the girl before knowing that she was the daughter of the ML, she also fell in love with his role as a dad, that was one of the things that attracted her the most, something that did not happen with Shen Xifan, she heard the news and saw it as him hiding his son, in addition to being younger and not lacking paternal love, she never said that she didnt liked a single dad, But if she doesnt liked, it's okay, it's not something bad or toxic, as long as you don't refer to them with denigrating or hateful terms, it's like people who don't like having children, there's nothing wrong with them, but they should respect those who do like having children.

ehh thats not a discrimination

That you don't like the idea of ​​having a relationship with a single parent is not something to be criticized for, and it is not toxic either, it is something totally valid because it is what you prefer as a person, Just because you don't like the idea of ​​having a relationship with a single parent doesn't make you a bad person. Although her attitude was annoying to the viewers, she didn't do anything wrong, she simply set limits with someone she was falling in lolve, a after having received an unexpected shock. She wasn't mean or rude, she simply set limits to not get excited about him anymore.

Yes, thank you, I have seen many people saying that she was childish by not confronting him and talking about it, but what right did she have to confront him? I mean, seriously? They haven't declared their feelings, she just received a shock from a misunderstanding when she was getting her hopes up with him, and people want her to go and act like a disappointed girlfriend when they're just friends, many people here needs to grow up.

I don't understand why there are so many people criticizing the female lead, having a child is something very important, she is coming from an ugly breakup and was starting to get excited about ML, even though it was a misunderstanding to find out that he has a "son" after months of interaction, it is a big shock, Her attitude, although a little annoying, it also makes sense, because remember that neither of them had declared their feelings, she was not in a position to complain, but rather to set limits.

I know that her attitude was because he had never mentioned his "son" but in case that she did not like the idea of ​​having a relationship with a single father, we could not criticize her either, since it is not a valid reason to be criticized, when you are going to start a relationship you have to prioritize your happiness, you cannot start a relationship by making sacrifices of accepting something that you do not like, much less if in the future it would affect two more people, having a relationship with a single father or mother entails many challenges, for both sides, it is not always as beautiful as seen in dramas

Having a kid indeed its a big deal. I don't understand why you compare it to love scout, the situations are totally different, i agree with thing about sfl thought

The best thing about this drama is definetly Lin Yuan, i love her character, naive, funny , cute, loyal, she is always there when Fl Needs her, i lover her

Patient with her ? how ?

Why is Bai Lu soooo good at her crying scenes ? she is on another level, especially on the marriage proposal scene, that crying kiss broke my heart into a thousand pieces T.T

hahahah i loved this comment

hi, does this drama have a love triangle ? or love quadrangle ?

im asking because there are so many male actors in the portrait and jus the female lead, i want to give it a shot, but im not into love triangle dramas :/

dont worry, u r not the only one hahahaha

I liked the drama, it is one of those dramas that is not a masterpiece, but is capable of hooking you and making you see everything in one day.

If I have to say that I didn't like something, was that the second female lead, she was selfish, a little twisted and had a victim complex, although she was not involved in a love triangle or anything annoying, I still hated her character with passion, sje improved a little at the end at least. I saw people saying that the second male lead was selfish, i think thats totally wrong, for me, he was not selfish, but he was totally clueless, thats not a sin, and even more so when that is enhanced by your partner's lies, I felt sorry for him, he was thrown into psychological torture for years without having any idea why.

Oh dont get me wrong, I'm not saying that she was selfish for choosing to live her dream, or breaking up with him, but she did it in the worst possible way, chasing her dream was one of the few decisions that made sense from her, when i said selfish im talking about how she behaved as his girlfriend and how she behaved after returning to his life.About him, I would say that more than selfish, he was clueless. She had no right to call him selfish because she never gave him the opportunity to face reality, after all, a large part of their relationship was based on a lie that she created. She never gave him the opportunity to decide if she really liked her true personality and tastes or her behavior in general. What she did is called lying and manipulating, and to make matters worse, after making him totally dependent on her, she broke up with him without any kind of explanation, without thinking about the damage that the sum of her actions would cause, my point is, you cannot complain for a behavior that you yourself help to grow, and if you are going to become an important part of someone's life based on lies (not all of it) you must give the person the opportunity to decide if they like the real version of you, not end everything without any explanation disregarding the damage that you will cause.

im glad they didnt, i think her character was extremely selfish, a twisted character with a victim complex, not totally evil, but with very little emotional responsibility

i thought it was just me, glad to know that was not the case, i think her character was extremely selfish, a twisted character with a victim complex

HI, so, i started watching this drama cuz i love Tian wei, but im currently on episode 11, and so far, her character has been a disappointment, she is dumb, selfish and the thing i hate the most, a liar, she is just trying to take advantage of ML in a very annoying way, its not even cute, even when she8Tian Wei) is the cuteness personified, she looks more like a cheap villainess than a Female lead, its just me ? T.T

i think this was a good drama, good actors, good plot, good characters, i just felt that could have been much better, investment, money, that was the problem, the CGI looked poor, monotonous, the fighting choreography the same, maybe it was budget problem ? idk, with a fighting choreography like The legend of shen li, the long ballad, etc, this drama would have been one of my favorites, one of those who may not be an undeniable master piece for everyone, but still u end up watching it multiple times

there are a couple of things that they should change, the biggest its the name, it cant be called "love song in winter" when the romance is so poorly written, almost every action from the FL makes no sense at all when it comes to romance, this leads us to an annoying behaviour from both leads, him been clingy with no dignity at all, and her disregarding the psicological damage she does to him everytime, without having a good reason or withouth even explaining properly to him, she just throw him under the bus , so for me the biggest problem in this drama is the romance, But this has a lot of impact on the perception we have of the protagonists, making them attractive or annoying, so far mostly annoying

too many plot holes, this all takes us to get an annoying FL and pathetic ML, too clingy when he is being treated like trash