Dramagagg

Yes, but the ex-boyfriend is the root of all his annoying and insecure attitudes, this is the opportunity to develop once and for all.

When an ex girlfriend comes back, for me it's tolerable, but when an ex boyfriend comes back, it's completely annoying and feels very toxic, even ridiculous in some cases, am I the only one who feels this way?

That's not even female empowerment, it's setting boundaries, just like she did with He Suye when she thought he had a child, it should be even easier because it's with someone who treated her like trash. It should be easier for her, but yes, it is really very likely that she allows him to interrupt her life again

thaaanks

They were good episodes, but it's not healthy for me because they throw that dose of sadness at me and leave me waiting until tomorrow for more episodes. waaaa

Episode 13 was a constant emotional beating for He Suye, he had no rest, and although I was a little annoyed by Ms Shen's attitude, I can't say that it was completely wrong.

I hope that if the ex boyfriend comes back, Ms Shen kick him in the ass and send him flying right away, and more importantly, that she doesn't let him invade her life without saying anything. We've had enough of her insecurity side. No hesitation is allowed from now on

I didn't find any episode previews, but I read some spoilers where they said that Ms Shen's ex-boyfriend was coming back.

I know, but she didn't really wanted to go on the blind date hahaha

I didn't like the fact that she went on another blind date, i guess i'm narrow minded :(

Probably because I have found people with different criticisms, some criticize her because she did not tell him that she had broken up with her boyfriend(What ?), others because according to them, she was rude and discriminated against him for having a child etc etc, for you, what did she do wrong? maybe your opinion will make me see something new and convince me that she did something wrong, just to be clear, although she never said that, not liking a man as a partner because he is a single father is not discrimination, nor is it toxic or a bad attitude, In reality, it shows quite a bit of emotional responsibility towards him, the child and herself, it is like people who don't want to have children, it is totally acceptable, also, I defend her because even though it is a drama, and it created a very very very annoying situation (for me who hates misunderstandings), it is a logical reaction, the human brain works in many ways, not all of them are straightforward, in a shock situation.

The problem is, deep down, she's not really his friend, but she's not his girlfriend either hahahaha

If it were you you would surely have gone like a shining ice queen and told him " hey, I didn't know u had a kid" and we would lose 30 min of drama XD

HAHAHA exactly, i hope he does not go down when the evil girlfriend returns

what are you talking about
? First you talk as if I had said that he owed her something (I never said it), now again as if I had said that no one showed interest? when I clearly said that he was the first to fall for her, that is romantic interest, he is approaching with a romantic interets and clear and precise feelings
, not her, I never said that neither of them did not show interest, you must learn to read to be able to make a judgment, because i dont think that there is no double standard in any of my comments, but just in case, you can prove me wrong by pointing them out.

Being an adult does not make you mature and rational in every situation, at least she who is 25 I think, and spent 7 years in the only loving relationship in her life, I would say that she still has a lot to live and learn to handle certain situations, the problem is that the situation is not as simple as everyone makes it out to be, she is his friend, but at the same time she is not, she is not his girlfriend nor is she courting him, she is in the middle of figuring out what she feels for him, and in the middle of everything that hesitation takes that surprise, obviously she is not going to think clearly, fear, uncertainty, apart from her recent breakup, she is also making preparations to pursue her goal of studying abroad for the first time, well, part of it is just me trying to give her context considering everything, she never said the main reason for her shock explicitly, maybe in the next episode they will clarify her internal thoughts for us, but I highly doubt that the reason is "I don't like single parents."

All this misunderstanding with the child has made me think that it was a plot so that the character of
Zhang Ling He looked better, and as a hint to him that she likes him, I mean, he was very chill about it, and to be honest he even enjoyed realizing it was a misunderstanding, he really liked the misunderstanding so much that he couldn't stop smiling when he realized what that meant hahaha

A child is actually a big big deal, because it can influence a relationship in many ways, from problems with people outside the relationship, to even breaking it.

You are partly right, he has not asked her out, but you are not taking into account, unlike her, that he was approaching her with the intention of courting her, because from the beginning he has been sure of what he feels for her, he was the first to fall, taking this into consideration, I think that in the hypothetical case that he had a son, he should tell her, even if she doesn't like to talk about him as you say, because you can't wait to make someone fall in love with you to tell them something of that magnitude, when You have already made that person fall in love with you, you have to do it first, out of respect, so that she knows and decides what he represents as a partner.

With all due respect, what you're saying doesn't make sense at all, I'm not looking for a fight, but i never said that he owed her anything, in fact, she didn't complain to him, nor did she discriminate against him for having a child, it was simply a shock, and she wanted to set limits, and that's within her rights, she never specified the reason but whatever it was it was fine, because she wasn't rude nor did she complain about anything, besides, she wasn't courting him, why would she tell him that she broke up with her boyfriend? i mean, she was going to come out of nowhere and tell her "hey, it turns out I broke up with my boyfriend." I mean, not even him who was the first who fell for her has declared his feelings, why would she who recently had a breakup, and is still not sure how she feels about him throw herself like that?

People need to grow up, they believe that everything in life is like in dramas and when a drama comes out with a logical reaction, the first thing they do is criticize because he or she did not have a reaction of a perfect character without flaws or emotional conflicts, please at least consider that she is coming from an ugly breakup and was starting to fall in love again, and although this is not the case, it is okay if she does not want a single father as a partner, that is not being bad or toxic