Should Your Beloved Be Protected?
I'll start by saying, this is not a different story written by a different writer (many of the complaints I've read), but an extension of the story we started last season with our characters having to face the vulnerability--as well as the challenges--that come with closeness.
I wasn't a huge fan of the business stuff in either, but overall I enjoyed both seasons very much. Here's why.
Honestly, many people's reactions to this season (negative ones) remind me of people's reactions to Part 2 of Alchemy Of Souls. So many people hated it in comparison to the first part and thought it was a huge step down in quality and writing, etc. But I never thought so. I didn't have specific expectations going into that season or this one, and that helped a lot. Also, keeping in perspective what the writer was trying to do with the tropes/cliches helped me keep the frustrating bits in context of the bigger picture.
For instance, Mu Dan's angst about her mom's death helped her to redirect her passion for making money in a more altruistic direction, and allowed her to extend her natural compassion towards a vision much bigger than herself and her own personal ambitions, financial or otherwise. This new vision ended up aligning more with Jiang Chang Yang's goals/dreams as well, and allowed them to work together more effectively as a team.
Jiang Chang Yang's noble idiocy was the last thread of cultural "masculinity" that he had to set aside to finally allow Mu Dan to be her own person, rather than merely his wife or his beloved. He had to allow her to choose her challenges, struggles and dangers, just as he has done for himself (and as men are often allowed to do more easily without question). He had to realize he can't protect her if she doesn't want his protection, since that's just controlling her and holding her back, in the end. This is always something he has been stellar at throughout this whole series, but once he learned to care for her more deeply, he had to learn to let go of being her knight-in-shining-armor. It was his final holdout, and it had to go. It was the only way these characters could be true partners.
I thought Jiang Chang Yang was a fascinating case study in how the man in a relationship can function, and I kind of loved it. I ended up loving that he was rarely there to swoop in and save her when she encountered trouble (or when he tried, she had already gotten herself out of it by the time he showed up), and trusted her to make her own choices, solve her own problems, and win her own battles. The role he played had its own, unexpected charm, and felt refreshingly new. I think the word that comes to mind that describes how he treats Mu Dan is "dignity"--it's what Jiang Chang Yang extended to Mu Dan as a fellow human, not just as "a woman." Not something you see very often in a romance, and somehow they still managed to make their interactions romantic, even though this is a very nontraditional relationship dynamic that many are probably not used to.
I laud the writer's attempts at paving new paths for depicting relationship dynamics. I say, well done!
Was it perfect? Certainly not, and Season 2 definitely has more angst, lack of communication (would it be a drama if it didn't? 😅), and frustrations than Season 1 (buckle up if you plan to watch!), but keep the big picture in mind without expectations, and enjoy the ride.
You might be pleasantly surprised. 😉
P.S. The OST and BGMs were better in Season 2, actually (imo). Loved them.
I wasn't a huge fan of the business stuff in either, but overall I enjoyed both seasons very much. Here's why.
Honestly, many people's reactions to this season (negative ones) remind me of people's reactions to Part 2 of Alchemy Of Souls. So many people hated it in comparison to the first part and thought it was a huge step down in quality and writing, etc. But I never thought so. I didn't have specific expectations going into that season or this one, and that helped a lot. Also, keeping in perspective what the writer was trying to do with the tropes/cliches helped me keep the frustrating bits in context of the bigger picture.
For instance, Mu Dan's angst about her mom's death helped her to redirect her passion for making money in a more altruistic direction, and allowed her to extend her natural compassion towards a vision much bigger than herself and her own personal ambitions, financial or otherwise. This new vision ended up aligning more with Jiang Chang Yang's goals/dreams as well, and allowed them to work together more effectively as a team.
Jiang Chang Yang's noble idiocy was the last thread of cultural "masculinity" that he had to set aside to finally allow Mu Dan to be her own person, rather than merely his wife or his beloved. He had to allow her to choose her challenges, struggles and dangers, just as he has done for himself (and as men are often allowed to do more easily without question). He had to realize he can't protect her if she doesn't want his protection, since that's just controlling her and holding her back, in the end. This is always something he has been stellar at throughout this whole series, but once he learned to care for her more deeply, he had to learn to let go of being her knight-in-shining-armor. It was his final holdout, and it had to go. It was the only way these characters could be true partners.
I thought Jiang Chang Yang was a fascinating case study in how the man in a relationship can function, and I kind of loved it. I ended up loving that he was rarely there to swoop in and save her when she encountered trouble (or when he tried, she had already gotten herself out of it by the time he showed up), and trusted her to make her own choices, solve her own problems, and win her own battles. The role he played had its own, unexpected charm, and felt refreshingly new. I think the word that comes to mind that describes how he treats Mu Dan is "dignity"--it's what Jiang Chang Yang extended to Mu Dan as a fellow human, not just as "a woman." Not something you see very often in a romance, and somehow they still managed to make their interactions romantic, even though this is a very nontraditional relationship dynamic that many are probably not used to.
I laud the writer's attempts at paving new paths for depicting relationship dynamics. I say, well done!
Was it perfect? Certainly not, and Season 2 definitely has more angst, lack of communication (would it be a drama if it didn't? 😅), and frustrations than Season 1 (buckle up if you plan to watch!), but keep the big picture in mind without expectations, and enjoy the ride.
You might be pleasantly surprised. 😉
P.S. The OST and BGMs were better in Season 2, actually (imo). Loved them.
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