Define toxic behaviour cause the FL was a walking green flag
Really? Then we watched different series. She didn't allow him to explain misunderstandings but run away instead ( many times!), she didn't want to talk to him but instead saying out loud how frustrating it is to be with him, she said how comfortable it felt when she dreams about him speaking and laughing out loud...shall I move on?
I am really glad that the writers chose this way. I can't imagine other way, really. Just because he is disabled and has insecurities, doesn't mean that he will stand everything she throws at him. Every toxic behaviour, every cutting word... Good job, writers. Now, don't change anything. Except she somehow, miriculosly understands how toxic she was and mature.
Well, he had to break up. There was no other way. The things she said, how she behaved... would be too much for anyone. Now its time to heal, without any of those sad, toxic woman. He will be fine, as he said thanking her for everything.
No breakup please. If they breakup now, all the emotional connection they formed will vanish away. Solve the problem…
It happened to me, I broke up after few months. My boyfriend was from different country, we struggled a lot ,.. we went separate ways. But then, after some long time I realised what a beautiful soul he was. We renewed our relationship and are married for over 10 years now
So I do hope, that similar path was written for them in this show. But imo they have to break up, she is not ready for relationship with him yet.
I saw some previews, and it looks like she just can't look past his disability and accept it. She makes him and herself unhappy because of that. They both should let it go and be happy with someone else. Except she grows up and understand what love is, including how to accept his disability ...but for that she needs time alone.
The writers are correctthe Honeymoon Phase 0-6 months is followed by Uncertainty Stage. +6mosAnyone whose had…
I don't expect and even don't want happy ending. This would be really unrealistic and if, than disastrous. This girl needs to mature and grow up first because she is not ready for any relationship. The only possibility is that they make up after some time, maybe few years when she is ready and knows what love and healthy relationship is.
The writers are correctthe Honeymoon Phase 0-6 months is followed by Uncertainty Stage. +6mosAnyone whose had…
Are they already six months together? In Japanese version it lasted only one summer long. Anyway,I do understand doubts phaze. I do. But doubts over listening to music,really? What is more, he offered her listening to music in his car or during a festive meal in his house. Why does she make problems over it? She comes home turn on TV and radio on full and cry. He never asked her to live in silence! I would understand some doubts over raising children together or something of similar importance. Instead, she makes herself unhappy over small things.
FL makes herself unhappy. Why would she hesitate to turn radio on, listen to music and even dance to it at his…
In japanese version FL was cheerful, happy, emotional, very expressive...and here she is just sad all the time. ALL THE TIME she makes herself unhappy. Come on writers.
Tbh, the drama would be much nicer if the writers paired FL's best friend with him. Crazy, funny, happy,cheerful but sensitive girl. Because right now I feel like I am mourning but I don't know what.
FL makes herself unhappy. Why would she hesitate to turn radio on, listen to music and even dance to it at his house.? Why?? He doesn't care. He just wants her to be happy which he showed many times. Instead she comes back to her flat and listen to very loud music...crying. What???
He should break up and get rid of her constant long face. I'd have enough as well.
I always thought that the name of the drama referred to the FL wanting ML to say that to her but you’re making…
In the original Japanese drama FL insisted that ML tells her that he loves her using his voice- which he is not able to do. In goodbye scene in return, he asked her to tell it one last time to him, while holding her so close to his body so that he can "hear it" due vibrations. So yes, it can refer to both, as it did in Japanese version
Those problems are little bit overdramatized. My husband is Swiss and when we go to my country he has no clue what anyone is saying, my family, friends...I translate only if needed. How is that different? Why Meoun is so bothered about him not getting what others are saying?
That is why break up is inevitable. She needs to grow up, mature ,learn what healthy relationship is...and then…
Well, anyone can mature and learn what healthy relationship is all about. I hope she will, and they will end up together in few years when she is ready. It would be worst to stay together in her current state of mind. Disaster guaranteed.
But break up would be good. She is not ready for relationship with him yet. She needs to grow up and they will…
In japanese version it was 2 or 3 years, I don't remember exactly. Well, I guess here maybe shorter, since they are not so young? We will see. But if they stayed together with her current state of mind it would never work. She NEEDS to grow up.
After everything they have been through FL still doesn't trust ML enough to know he won't leave her for his ex.…
That is why break up is inevitable. She needs to grow up, mature ,learn what healthy relationship is...and then renew relationship with him, after few years- as it was in japanese original. Without this break up separating them for years and growing up, the drama would be flat.
Good job, writers. Now, don't change anything. Except she somehow, miriculosly understands how toxic she was and mature.
So I do hope, that similar path was written for them in this show. But imo they have to break up, she is not ready for relationship with him yet.
Tbh, the drama would be much nicer if the writers paired FL's best friend with him. Crazy, funny, happy,cheerful but sensitive girl. Because right now I feel like I am mourning but I don't know what.
He should break up and get rid of her constant long face. I'd have enough as well.