Black-Phoenix

I have been saying it repeatedly
ML and FL ending up together ain't it. ITS SO RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUSHED!!!
That confession ain't..it just hit her that she's about to lose housemaid..😂 Honestly That is how it appears no matter how much people try to spun it around.

She is confusing FREE LABOUR with LOVE...😂

and since they wanna rush anway
Might as well introduce a fresh Female character as Taehyung's childhood friend/ something and have him end up with her and they raise woojooo ...
THAT WD be a better ending

First I was annoyed at 2ML but after rewatching again.....

She'd clearly giving mixed signals and leading him On.
She didn't Reject any of his advances/ feelings in any shape or form.
She had never set any boundaries with him.
nor had she given any indications that She is into someone else.
SO why wouldn't the 2ML approach and pursue her repeatedly?????

and out of the Blue she suddenly realizes she loves ML as she's about to lose baby sitter and housemaid😂😂

She is confusing FREE LABOUR for Love......
RIDICULOUS way to Salvage the storyline....

My wish exactly...
My another wishful thinking 😂
Since The writers are gonna rush the ending anyway...
Might as well introduce a fresh Female character as his childhood friend/ something and have him end up with her and they raise woojooo 😂😂

I know that ridiculous but ITS WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY Better than having this ML and FL end up together.

"I don’t think I'm in the minority when I say I don’t want the main leads together."
------I have said this many times. THEY SHOULD NOT END UP TOGETHER. They are not right for each other..

" she didn’t miss him, she missed what he did for her"
------ Exactly. She's just grateful to him. she doesn't love him. It's just ONE SIDED LOVE/Affection from ML side and people are confusing it as chemistry 😂😂

"And during the interview part, she was openly flirting with both the leads"
--- See this is why I don't understand people being annoyed at the 2ML part because she was openly flirting. Also she didn't Reject any advance/feelings from 2ML in any shape or form...Nor she has clearly given 2ML any indications that she had feelings for anyone else.


" the one who works outside and who works from home/ stay at home parents are different regardless of their gender. We are bashing the FL, but in real life this is what happens. This is how affairs start (though FL ML weren’t dating yet)."
------- Ding DING DING!!!! Most affairs start in WORKPLACE!! And that's just reality. Again ML/FL aren't even dating so it's not AFFAIR...But What I am trying to say is most Romantic relations develop at workplace EVEN IF YOU ARE IN A COMMITED RELATIONSHIP.. sad but true.


They are just RUSHING to make MLX FL end up together with no chemistry/ romance.😂😂..
I will die on that HILL!

"You mentioned that you hate the FL for not drawing a clear line, but why did she have to? She was single and free to spend time with whoever she wanted."

Correction:
I hate FL as her overall Character and NO DEVELOPMENT WHATSOEVER!!! People excuse that she's young and she's thrown the responsibility of child outta nowhere but so is the ML. Like he's not an old guy who had experience raising kids.

The "drawing the line" thing is comparing it with People's annoyance to 2ML.
People were annoyed how 2ML was constantly approaching and coming closer to 2ML and I am like why wouldn't he? she's single and she has not rejected him in any shape or form anyway! nor she she has given any clear indication the she has feelings for any other man.

I still stand by the statement that ML X FL has NO CHEMISTRY!
And it's all due to the write writing a TERRIBLE CHARACTER FOR FL!!!!!! YES SHE IS TERRIBLE


and t he writers are gonna just LUMP THEM together near the end!
I see everyone is annoyed by 2ML but I didn't see FL drawing a CLEAR LINE to stop him either.......
I hate the FL so much more than the 2ML ...
AND I JUST HATE WHEN THE WRITER GIVE 2ML more screen time than the ML!

I can't believe this drama is still at 7.8 😂😂😂😂
should be like 7 at best!

I said what I said

Also let's be honest, DO PEOPLE REALLY WANT ML X FL to end up Together at this point?????? For me that s TERRIBLE ENDING...because FL still has ZERO character development

A better ending would be ML to find someone else and taking care of UJU with her..rather than FL.

Thank you for saving my time

so they both cheat and are absolute trash?
Thank you for saving my time.

Nah it was real.....

PLEASE DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME ON THIS..

READ THIS Before you start watching.....
To summarize the main characters

FL is Selfish, self centered and insufferable.
ML is perhaps the BIGGEST SIMP I have ever come across in Chinese DRAMA.
Its just ML simping over FL and FL doing whatever she wants but still in love with her EX .

I hated both character from the bottom of my heart...FL just annoying and ML is PATHETIC pro Max!!

PS: If you're looking for Romance, look elsewhere... There's like NO ROMANCE between the Two.... ITS very negligible..Infact I'll say FL has more romance with 2ML...

ML and FL only get together at the final episode ..yes at ep40 😂😂 and being the simp Ultra that he is..he gives in easily and also because it was the last episode so the writer had to RUSH IT...
It's not even a Mediocre ending. .Its Terrible
SPOILER?? YES
Sorry not sorry!

PPS: 7.4 is too high of a rating ..its 5 at best!

HELLO THERE
I was about to watch this
But can you please elaborate....I DON'T MIND SPOILERS AT ALL
I read the comment above the ML is like a cuckold so I am guessing FL cheats and ML still forgives...
PLEASE Elaborate...THANK YOU.....

FL is so selfish and Annoying......
Bruh I just can't......
Haven't been annoyed by a FL in a long long long long long time until I watched this one
I am about to drop this....

Was about to watch but then I see your comment

"And in the future arc, the fact that the male lead had a girlfriend, went as far as planning a wedding, and at the same time grew close to his first love woman was completely unacceptable to me. No matter what logic they tried to justify it with, that was cheating"

Yeah, It's not a big deal for some but for me, IT IS INDEED CHEATING and people try to justify and validate it just because their current partner is not the main character....and I am sick of people normalizing this.....


and Israel is mentioned??? yeah noo............I will pass on this

I have seen few clips here and there..who ends up with whom??

" saying “she had food and a roof” massively understates the context. Urban poverty isn’t just starvation:it’s constant instability, debt, obligation, and social immobility"

AS I stated Before, It was GREED that Took over. She and her sister weren't in dire trouble or anything. Sure there was debt BUT IT WASN"T " I have to sleep with Songsiming to HELP OUT MY SISTER" debt otherwise we will become BEGGARS.

Her sleeping and cheating with SONSIMING was not
" I am poor and I have to DO THIS for myself and FAMILY THING" 😂😂😂😂
AT first she did it because she was grateful WHICH IS STILL doesn't VALIDATE it. Who sleeps with someone else when they're engaged just because they're grateful???? Someone with no moral integrity and Loyalty.

She could have STOPPED AFTER that but Nope...she continued even after her sister reminded her " what about Xiao bei" she didn't care she continued because she liked the affection and gifts he showered her and on top of that SHE ENJOYED BEING WITH sonsiming.. Her CONTINUATION of cheating is what shows her TRUE TRASH character...
And when Xiaobei found out, she brought out the VICTIM card which you are doing as well and sure she was given second chance but after being CAUGHT again, she didn't regret or felt sorry.
She was INFACT Happy and relieved and rushed immediately to Sogsiming saying she wd never let go of him again.

The thing You have failed to see about Haizao is that her REPEATED cheating isn't because that was her last resort or she was FORCED,
It was because she Enjoyed the endless GIFTS and stuffs, she enjoyed being with Songsiming even when she was engaged.

Had she had broken up with XIaobei beforehand,, Then only SONGSIMING would have been the AHole but nope,...SO both of them belong to Garbage Bins
YOUR justification & Validation of Cheating are all senseless..
"The show is literally about how narrow her options are"
AT first sure but she cramped it up herself...It's only narrow when you make it
You make it sound like The only way for POOR people to make it out big cities is SLEEP around or do some immoral/criminal activities....

It all comes down the CHOICES and PATH we take in life and The choice she took was the IMMORAL one which is why KARMA STRUCK HARD on her!!!

" you never experience true poverty as you are still sitting on your moral high horse. "
--Oh I have experienced poverty but like Haizao, I had roof over my head and food on the Table and Both of us didn't hit the street in torn clothes begging..... and that is more than enough for not to cross my Moral and ethical Boundary as a Human Being.

"I notice you blame everything on haizao and rarely mentions songsiming’s cheating. "
--I have already mentioned that this sonsiming guy is literally married with kids and he is also a PIECE OF TRASHHH and the reason I haven't emphasized him is because he is not the MAIN character of the story...but doesn't change the fact that BOTH her and HIM are Two TRASH in a Garbage bin!!!

" But I bet if it’s the roles were switched where haizao is the rich one married and songsiming is the “3rd wheel” you would be rebuking haizao for being a bad unloyal wife.
-- Nah My answer would be the same ..Both are TRASH

The difference between you and me is that
YOU are trying so hard to DEFEND and VALIDATE her cheating because she's a Woman and want this to be gender issue....
whereas for ME, CHEATERS have no gender THEY ARE ALL PIECE OF TRASH!!!!! and there is absolutely no VALIDATION and JUSTIFICATION For cheating. And it wasn't once or Twice but REPEATEDLY...
As they say, "Cheaters often defend cheaters" Carry on...😁😁😁😁
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Turns out he did
and yet he still raised em as her own and he also forgave his wife hoping she would change but she never did and her own actions and character was the reason of her death.
But none of the daughters knew until the end

I mean from the jump, it was established that the mother was nasty trashy person who really didn't care about the family..but it's not until near the end that we find that all three daughters aren't his own....and what's more? They all had separate fathers😭😂😭😂

See this is why world has gone to shit because People like you are Literally Justifying and Validating CHEATING! 🤦🤦🤦🤦
"you probably haven;t experience hai zao and hai ping's level or poverty"
They weren't that Poor that they had to BEG on the Streets or had to fight to put food in their stomach at least ONCE in 24hr or else they would die.... Don't give me that Crap.

It was more about Greed than Poverty! If she wanted to chase rich and wealthy Old man...It'd been fine ...IF SHE HAD Broken up with Xiaobei before COMMITTING THE SIN OF CHEATING and yet here you are singing heaps on her...😂😂 and it wasn't one time cheating.. It was REPEATED and on top of that she actually never truly regretted her actions.

If "Poverty" is the reason People can do any IMMORAL acts they please and ditch their Moral Integrity altogether with dignity and loyalty.. and with People like you Justifying and Validating Everything and Playing the VICTIM every time it's called upon...The world is done for!