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Replying to DavidPENNY Mar 2, 2026
I liked this drama but the infidelity was insane
HELLO THERE
I was about to watch this
But can you please elaborate....I DON'T MIND SPOILERS AT ALL
I read the comment above the ML is like a cuckold so I am guessing FL cheats and ML still forgives...
PLEASE Elaborate...THANK YOU.....
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On Love in Time Feb 21, 2026
Title Love in Time
FL is so selfish and Annoying......
Bruh I just can't......
Haven't been annoyed by a FL in a long long long long long time until I watched this one
I am about to drop this....
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Replying to RAINBOW Feb 21, 2026
Title First Love
Honestly, I started it with high expectations, but it didn’t hook me. I kept watching only because of Takeru…
Was about to watch but then I see your comment

"And in the future arc, the fact that the male lead had a girlfriend, went as far as planning a wedding, and at the same time grew close to his first love woman was completely unacceptable to me. No matter what logic they tried to justify it with, that was cheating"

Yeah, It's not a big deal for some but for me, IT IS INDEED CHEATING and people try to justify and validate it just because their current partner is not the main character....and I am sick of people normalizing this.....


and Israel is mentioned??? yeah noo............I will pass on this
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Replying to Black-Phoenix Jan 25, 2026
Title Dwelling Narrowness Spoiler
Haizao is in relationship with Xiaobei but when Song si ming showers her with gift and money she gives in. At…
" saying “she had food and a roof” massively understates the context. Urban poverty isn’t just starvation:it’s constant instability, debt, obligation, and social immobility"

AS I stated Before, It was GREED that Took over. She and her sister weren't in dire trouble or anything. Sure there was debt BUT IT WASN"T " I have to sleep with Songsiming to HELP OUT MY SISTER" debt otherwise we will become BEGGARS.

Her sleeping and cheating with SONSIMING was not
" I am poor and I have to DO THIS for myself and FAMILY THING" 😂😂😂😂
AT first she did it because she was grateful WHICH IS STILL doesn't VALIDATE it. Who sleeps with someone else when they're engaged just because they're grateful???? Someone with no moral integrity and Loyalty.

She could have STOPPED AFTER that but Nope...she continued even after her sister reminded her " what about Xiao bei" she didn't care she continued because she liked the affection and gifts he showered her and on top of that SHE ENJOYED BEING WITH sonsiming.. Her CONTINUATION of cheating is what shows her TRUE TRASH character...
And when Xiaobei found out, she brought out the VICTIM card which you are doing as well and sure she was given second chance but after being CAUGHT again, she didn't regret or felt sorry.
She was INFACT Happy and relieved and rushed immediately to Sogsiming saying she wd never let go of him again.

The thing You have failed to see about Haizao is that her REPEATED cheating isn't because that was her last resort or she was FORCED,
It was because she Enjoyed the endless GIFTS and stuffs, she enjoyed being with Songsiming even when she was engaged.

Had she had broken up with XIaobei beforehand,, Then only SONGSIMING would have been the AHole but nope,...SO both of them belong to Garbage Bins
YOUR justification & Validation of Cheating are all senseless..
"The show is literally about how narrow her options are"
AT first sure but she cramped it up herself...It's only narrow when you make it
You make it sound like The only way for POOR people to make it out big cities is SLEEP around or do some immoral/criminal activities....

It all comes down the CHOICES and PATH we take in life and The choice she took was the IMMORAL one which is why KARMA STRUCK HARD on her!!!
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Replying to Black-Phoenix Jan 25, 2026
Title Dwelling Narrowness Spoiler
Haizao is in relationship with Xiaobei but when Song si ming showers her with gift and money she gives in. At…
" you never experience true poverty as you are still sitting on your moral high horse. "
--Oh I have experienced poverty but like Haizao, I had roof over my head and food on the Table and Both of us didn't hit the street in torn clothes begging..... and that is more than enough for not to cross my Moral and ethical Boundary as a Human Being.

"I notice you blame everything on haizao and rarely mentions songsiming’s cheating. "
--I have already mentioned that this sonsiming guy is literally married with kids and he is also a PIECE OF TRASHHH and the reason I haven't emphasized him is because he is not the MAIN character of the story...but doesn't change the fact that BOTH her and HIM are Two TRASH in a Garbage bin!!!

" But I bet if it’s the roles were switched where haizao is the rich one married and songsiming is the “3rd wheel” you would be rebuking haizao for being a bad unloyal wife.
-- Nah My answer would be the same ..Both are TRASH

The difference between you and me is that
YOU are trying so hard to DEFEND and VALIDATE her cheating because she's a Woman and want this to be gender issue....
whereas for ME, CHEATERS have no gender THEY ARE ALL PIECE OF TRASH!!!!! and there is absolutely no VALIDATION and JUSTIFICATION For cheating. And it wasn't once or Twice but REPEATEDLY...
As they say, "Cheaters often defend cheaters" Carry on...😁😁😁😁
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Replying to Black-Phoenix Jan 23, 2026
Title Revolutionary Sisters Spoiler
The mother of the three sisters was a S**T who had affairs. All three sisters have different fathers and None…
Turns out he did
and yet he still raised em as her own and he also forgave his wife hoping she would change but she never did and her own actions and character was the reason of her death.
But none of the daughters knew until the end
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Replying to Black-Phoenix Jan 23, 2026
Title Revolutionary Sisters Spoiler
The mother of the three sisters was a S**T who had affairs. All three sisters have different fathers and None…
I mean from the jump, it was established that the mother was nasty trashy person who really didn't care about the family..but it's not until near the end that we find that all three daughters aren't his own....and what's more? They all had separate fathers😭😂😭😂
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Replying to Black-Phoenix Jan 22, 2026
Title Dwelling Narrowness Spoiler
Haizao is in relationship with Xiaobei but when Song si ming showers her with gift and money she gives in. At…
See this is why world has gone to shit because People like you are Literally Justifying and Validating CHEATING! 🤦🤦🤦🤦
"you probably haven;t experience hai zao and hai ping's level or poverty"
They weren't that Poor that they had to BEG on the Streets or had to fight to put food in their stomach at least ONCE in 24hr or else they would die.... Don't give me that Crap.

It was more about Greed than Poverty! If she wanted to chase rich and wealthy Old man...It'd been fine ...IF SHE HAD Broken up with Xiaobei before COMMITTING THE SIN OF CHEATING and yet here you are singing heaps on her...😂😂 and it wasn't one time cheating.. It was REPEATED and on top of that she actually never truly regretted her actions.

If "Poverty" is the reason People can do any IMMORAL acts they please and ditch their Moral Integrity altogether with dignity and loyalty.. and with People like you Justifying and Validating Everything and Playing the VICTIM every time it's called upon...The world is done for!
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Replying to Adri Jan 12, 2026
Title Spring Fever
So far it seems that the SML may have feelings for the FL.(He saw her at her mom's event and has fallen for her…
Thanks. But I am good.
2 eps in outta 12 and already feeling triangle based on the comment and considering the fact that 2 Guys in Main role.. It definitely is.
I am a Big ANTI-TRIANGLE person.. That's the Second most Annoying Trope in a drama for me..
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Replying to Adri Jan 12, 2026
Title Spring Fever
So far it seems that the SML may have feelings for the FL.(He saw her at her mom's event and has fallen for her…
Thanks for Clarifying
Almost started watching it.
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On Doctor X Jan 2, 2026
Title Doctor X
FINGERS CROSSED 🤞🤞🤞
Doctor X is one of my all time Fave J Drama and Yonekura Ryoko Absolutely Mesmerized me with her Performance.
Hoping Jiwon Delivers well..

ALSO HOPE they bring MELON as well 😂😂😂
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Replying to Black-Phoenix Dec 30, 2025
Title Hometown Cha-Cha-Cha Spoiler
UNPOPULAR OPINION... and IDC if I get Flanked
First HALF: Outstanding!
Second Half: Here's why I dropped this before I forced myself to complete this.
even though I used to be so excited every week for the new eps to drop.....
The 2nd Half was way more about his Trauma and that kept on Dragging and dragging and creating misunderstanding and Angst...yea yea, I get it its part of life
But, just because its SOL doesn't mean TRAUMA AND SAD PAST is a Necessity...also they could have shortened that part...
AGAIN That's just me.
Cheers!
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Replying to John0211 Dec 18, 2025
Title You Want Me to Steal You Spoiler
no divorce ?husband n wife work it out ??
YES NO DIVORCE
BOTH CHEATERS stay together
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Replying to Hime Dec 17, 2025
Title Sniper Butterfly Spoiler
I know this will be an unpopular opinion but to be completely honest: I was a bit disappointed. I liked half of…
I said it below as well,
My only criticism is, after finally getting back together..the show focused on his business problems towards the ending stage when they could have added more romantic parts.
That kinda killed the momentum for me!!!
All in all I still enjoyed it but the greedy me wanted more.
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