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Interesting analysis and predictions. If you think double in-laws are out, then you don’t know Yang Hee Seung other works. Double in-laws,are no less taboo than what happened in High School King of Savy

I don’t disagree with a lotmof what you say. I think my point wasn’t that she contradicted him. It’s that she went out of her way to contradict him on a television show, and that’s okay, but she did it in a blunt way in front of a nation, with no attempt to soften it or care as to how it might make him look. A simple “I respect your opinion” or “I see your point,” would have done the trick. To do it how she did it is insensitive and I don’t think she did it out of malice. I just think she doesn’t see it as wrong. If a man put down a woman’s opinion that way on national television, people wouldn’t be saying “it’s okay, he is a strong man,” they’d be saying he was a jerk. I totally agree about the mother. I have no idea what is going on in both son’s heads with her. I couldn’t agree more about the compliments. I think that is the biggest part of the problem in their relationship. She didn’t feel appreciated. If he doesn’t learn the importance of that, they have no hope, even if they do get back together.. The fact she is trying so hard with the director is a bit mystifying to me. Why does she have to try so hard? Why can’t he accept her for who she is? Also, she could have tried that hard with her marriage, yet somehow she sees this new relationship as more worthy of the extra effort. I don’t really get it,.

In a strange way, it is like she is innocent. She seems childlike in the way she seems to have no sense when it comes to how her actions are seen by those close to her. Sure she speaks her mind, and that is good. In a sense, it is what he can learn from her, but she seems to have no idea when she is being insensitive, even as she herself is tremendously sensitive about some things. Also, in some ways, he cannot he blamed for not communicating when attempts to communicate displeasure come off as nagging to her.

I don’t disagree in general, but she brought up divorce because he blamed her for the miscarriage. Something she even told her mother she was to blame for. An inability to accept blame when at fault is a massive relationship problem. How could he ever trust her to be pregnant again, if he has no assurance that she won’t just overwork again and cause another miscarriage. Being strong is not her problem, it is what makes her admirable. An inability to admit your mistakes Is a flaw. Not being able to see that publicly contradicting your mate’s medical opinion is tantamount to publicly shaming him, is a huge fault, whether for a woman or a man. Yet she doesn’t think there’s anything wrong with it. That is not being strong, it is being insensitive and any man would be excoriated for that kind of behavior toward a woman.

I have a different take on what may happen. I think Song NaHee is in for a very rough time. She and the director are a terrible match. They are too much alike, in ways that will cause conflict. He will be nowhere near as tolerant of being humiliated by having his medical opinion contradicted publicly, nor of her ignoring his wishes and she may even see his reasonable requests as more nagging. I think cracks will form in their relationship that will ultimately drive them apart. At the same time, I expect Yoon Gyu-Jin is a generally happier person and is more likely to become happier as he gains distance from the relationship and learns to accept her being with the director. We have seen moments of that when he played with the boy. If he begins to seem like the old self she fell in love with, it could lead to a lot of regret on Na-Hee’s part,

For things to resolve she has to see her cold personality as a part of the problem. The director may be a catalyst for that, as well as seeing her ex become happier out of the relationship. He needs to learn to communicate and if she begins to suspect she was a contributor to their unhappiness, it could drive her further away from him (as she thinks she is bad for him.) If that happens, he may be the only one to get her past that, and that may teach him to communicate better. Just a theory, but we have a lot of stuff yet to happen and often where things seem to be going is not where they end up.