InspectorMegre

Wow your view is toxic. JH has no right to assume that. JH has to ASK YR what YR thinks and feels, FIRST.
JH saw them having fun so she has to ASK YR FIRST where YR stands.
And JH just assuming that YR will continue to be JH's doormat is super selfishly trashy. JH is NOT a good friend. Their friendship depends on YR catering to JH

Wow that is soooo blind to say this. YR added a lot to Daddy Long Legs life... He has access to her family and is well taken care of, and he has access to YR who is DELIGHTFUL TO HIM.... he likes her, he enjoys her... BECAUSE YR IS VERY UNIQUE, SHE IS A VERY CARING AND KIND PERSON, IT IS A GIFT TO BE AROUND HER. And it is a gift to be allowed to be visiting her family and be friends with her bother, who is also an exemplary individual, very honest and kind. Also, to enjoy YR's mom's cooking.

He is a guest in their family so he has to be super careful. He never hit on her. Until now when she is independent.
He showed his gratitude for the family treating him well by taking care of YR

Yeah YR said she will fight for JP but if that player JP does nothing, or even worse, goes with JH, he is OUT OUT OUT.

And, YR is free to try another guy, why not, Daddy seems a promising candidate.

Oh I see. When I reread it, I see your point. OK then, I revoke my post.

I am not sure what I would answer o that post then
Yes usually love triangles with 2 guys on 1 girl are different, men typically honor the other guy's rights and do not intervene, Women are more likely to go after another woman's guy.

Hm where is your evidence hat YR is doing the same thing to Daddy Long Legs???
When did YR go on dates with the Daddy? When did she interact with him going places - then dumping him? When did she flirt with him? When did she seek him out? When did she recruit a friend to help her seduce Daddy?
It is sad that my post looked funny to you. With that lack of insight for ppl, you will end up as JP if make or, if you are female, in 1950s marriage with frozen meat or in a side chick modern situation. Be more discerning.

JH never really cared for YR, it is all shallow and based on YR being the "lesser" friend who always caters to JH,

I totally agree with you.
JH is selfish and calous. Something is weak / wrong in her where she cannot care for others.

Sure they were friends, ALso, in some cultures, you bring your friends home and it is not a big deal.

But on the scale from 0 to 10 they were friends at say 7. They collaborated and took care of each other but never were really close. They never were 100% honest. As soon as it got rough, the friendship is GONE, JH is after YR.

Their friendship depended on YR catering to JH. If that element weren't there, they wouldnt be friends. YR was JH's "satellite"

But this dude is for real, there are tons of guys like that. It is epidemic LOL So I am curious how the show will resolve it, what is their take on how this can be transformed

Same here, I dislike one sided conversation, So we are done, Just block me. Farawell

Oh I forgot to add: FL in Queens HOuse also indirectly caused dementia in her mother bc she caused involvement in murder for her mother and brother, and rift with her family, AND herself on the street as a homeless without a penny. A naive, blind, doormat who does not listen and does not communicate.... That woman was smart.

Lucia is dumb. Literally dumb.

Thank you. I think the people in the discussion for this drama said that too. Lucia is an "indirect villain" or "enabler" someone so ... incompetent who provokes and enables evil to keep flourishing.
FL in Queens House also was ignorantly blind clutz like that and led to death of her own son, her own father, and ML's sister. The difference is that she self reflected later. Not enough but at least tried...
Most ppl do not want to be held accountable for their messes LOL so drama writers try to appease the audience, but...

@dayidream your comment helped me understand the drama better
and now I realize your post helped me understand my mother who is ... clinically a narcissist, imo,
and all from her desire to be loved, and demanding it then by manipulation, esp by demanding self pity
She demands love and attention and if she cannot get it, manipylates via self pity

JP has 3 episodes left to defrost and grow his balls to COMPLETELY rehaul himself, to COMPLETELY transform, realize he loves YR, confess, and show his love in very clear expressive ways ALL THE TIME, PERMANENTLY,

One thing that might start cracking JP THE ICEBERG is his dad - JP finally admitted to him why boxing.

But JP is soooo frozen that this might be impossible. I am afraid of his crocodile tears in trying to keep YR as his personal servant, or his f;eeting insignt that he needs YR, wihout real change and easy going back to old behaviors,

FOR JP TO TOTALLY TRANSFORM IS .... A VERY LOW PROBABILITY EVENT, Still everything is possible but ... rare things happen rarely :) and it is dumb to keep waitong for it..

The doormat insecure character of YR is revealed bc she likes JP and DOTES ON HIM FOR 7 YRS just bc he showed little crumbs of attention and care for her,,,

Yeah i am afraid JP running to her is crocodile tears Hey my lovely pray dont go away i enjoyed ah so much you serving me for free...
or temporary insights without any real change...

in a very unlikely rare even it could be a real transformation

Heclearly looked at YR and said - and I found you when I stopped running away blah blah something like ... our memories... and so ... it was clear she was his

There are lots of relationship advices online. There is Matt who advises ppl to call then not call and make the other person miss them... etc trash,
Then there is STEPHEN SPEAKS, who is down to earth and honest for most part. There are details I disagree with but getnerally speaking, I fully support his views. He has lots of videos online and is an expert on defending ppl against JP-lke parasites and even worse - the guys who are "going with the flow", who never claim you or title you, never take you out in public as "his", never promise anything etc etc
It is very common and typical way of mistreating African American women (and many others) so he was tryung to help teach ppl about boundaries...

FYI this is unrealted to this drama but is extra you mught watnt to check out - a decent and free relationships and BOUNDARIES guides, mostly on youbute

I really dislike the acting of ML actor, I think he lacks skillZ and it is obvious he is acting. It annoys me. Bc everyone else is totally into it LOL even the makkang acting scenes, like the principal, are done PERFECTLY, the principal actress skillZ are amazing :) she is totally into her role LOL knowing she is overdooing it, she makes it sooo real..
Added later: in later episodes. acting of ML actor improved. He is passable now.

So anyways, I LOVE THE CHARACTER OF ML And I cannot understand why ppl think he is annoying as nosy? he is just a protective GOOD FATHER. I love how ML script is written, he does everything properly, he is a very honest, capable, loving guy.

He is a single father and his kid is in a school where .. what ...5? teachers left in ... 2? last years..... and the teacher lives in his annex... and his son was hurt by the last teacher...

That single dad is 100% right to be suspicious of the teacher, and nosy about what the teacher is up to, and protective of his kid!!!!

do you hear yourself LOL you must be a version of JP or JH to defend toxicity so badly

That is the modus operandi of JH and it shows that she is not a real friend. When we are a real friend, we try to improve for the sake others and we DO think of others. JH keeps acting super impulsively and destructively.