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Trauma exists, living in it shouldn't be an excuse
I liked this series for the time it took to deconstruct their relationship. Not rushed, evenly paced and realistic. The actors did well and their failings realistically told. It was engaging and introspective to encourage thought but also reactive. One couldn't watch without seeing all their flaws and form opinions.
The both ml, Itsuki and Yuma, were hiding. Yuma from facing the reality of their relationship until the end. He still holds on to a memento, unable to throw it away. Itsuki living in his past trauma and being overly critical of other peoples views of the gay community. He refuses to be the poster boy of a successful gay union but lives freely and comfortably under the one who is fighting the cause.
I treasure Itsuki's honesty but it pops up at his convenience. He is very critical of Yuma and refuses to communicate beyond derision and in so doing fails even in his last interview to see how Yuma has changed. Even at the end it is selfish. Yes, their projected views are incompatible, but who goes along just existing? He knows Yuma types are the one to make the changes in the world but is content to live while they fight. I'm not advocating for him to be always on guard, and fight every pos out there but he seems apathetic and wants to be remembered. For existing? He disrespected him to the point of bringing a lover to their home. A home he contributes nothing financially to as he is unemployed and was offered a space even after they broke up initially. Yuma doing this alone should have stopped him.
Yuma on the other hand still struggles to let go of the ideal. He fights for the positive views of the gay community and would go to lengths to protect it. In so doing, perpetuates a lie and fails himself. He loves Itsuki but their incompatibility works against him. He pushes him but because they communicate ineffectively, or not at all as Itsuki ignores or is apathetic, he doesn't know how to understand where they went wrong. In the end, acceptance and understanding comes too late. I hope he does completely move on from Itsuki, he doesn't deserve it.
Shiho faces adversity on either side and understands at the end her true worth and not the perception. Her boss should be removed. His condescending attitude should not be dealt with. I felt the pain of Naomi and was grateful she apoligized to Shiho. She felt lost and lashed out at the wrong person.
I applaud this series for showing the reality of relationships. Not all work. Not all are balanced. It's okay to move on. It's not okay to be used.
The both ml, Itsuki and Yuma, were hiding. Yuma from facing the reality of their relationship until the end. He still holds on to a memento, unable to throw it away. Itsuki living in his past trauma and being overly critical of other peoples views of the gay community. He refuses to be the poster boy of a successful gay union but lives freely and comfortably under the one who is fighting the cause.
I treasure Itsuki's honesty but it pops up at his convenience. He is very critical of Yuma and refuses to communicate beyond derision and in so doing fails even in his last interview to see how Yuma has changed. Even at the end it is selfish. Yes, their projected views are incompatible, but who goes along just existing? He knows Yuma types are the one to make the changes in the world but is content to live while they fight. I'm not advocating for him to be always on guard, and fight every pos out there but he seems apathetic and wants to be remembered. For existing? He disrespected him to the point of bringing a lover to their home. A home he contributes nothing financially to as he is unemployed and was offered a space even after they broke up initially. Yuma doing this alone should have stopped him.
Yuma on the other hand still struggles to let go of the ideal. He fights for the positive views of the gay community and would go to lengths to protect it. In so doing, perpetuates a lie and fails himself. He loves Itsuki but their incompatibility works against him. He pushes him but because they communicate ineffectively, or not at all as Itsuki ignores or is apathetic, he doesn't know how to understand where they went wrong. In the end, acceptance and understanding comes too late. I hope he does completely move on from Itsuki, he doesn't deserve it.
Shiho faces adversity on either side and understands at the end her true worth and not the perception. Her boss should be removed. His condescending attitude should not be dealt with. I felt the pain of Naomi and was grateful she apoligized to Shiho. She felt lost and lashed out at the wrong person.
I applaud this series for showing the reality of relationships. Not all work. Not all are balanced. It's okay to move on. It's not okay to be used.
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