Juniko

Honestly, I don't know. I do like him right now, because being with him is heartwarming and that he's actually fun and sweet in a bizarre sort of way. But I really don't know if that's genuine or if since he was there when I needed comfort now my brain is processing it like Hiro=comfort.

I agree with you, being exoticized is really not agreable. When I went to Japan, there was this girl in my dorm I thought I could be friend with, until I realized she only was talking to me because I was french. It felt really bad, so I can't imagine what it's like when you actually loved the other person. With Hiro honestly when I first met him he was only "hot japanese guy" to me, but now he's just Hiro.

But imagine I am on the rebound (which might be the case, given how I was 2Weeks ago). Then what ? How do I stay friends with him without leading him on ?Don't I need to first know how he feels?

nope

Hi.
I also think that my life since October looks like a drama, so I'm patiently waiting for my happy ending ^^

You're right, it isn't healthy to keep chasing someone who's just going to hurt you.

So if you're 100%sure he lost interest in you, but that you still love him anyway, the problem is just your heart. It's perfectly normal, you can't ask your heart to process things as fast as your brain. Once you're attached to someone it's difficult to find the off switch. But I believe that if you stop nurrishing your heart with thoughts about him or false hope, it can heal faster.

But if you still have doubts, then the bast way is to make sure. Ask him out, and if he changed the subject again, ask him why. Be bold with him.
If it's too hard to do that, organise an outing with many other friends, and invite him, and see how he behave with both you and the other girls around.

Fighting!

(part3)

As for listening, well he does. The day Mr M got married, I met him (alone)and we talked for hours. I remember that he kept looking at me the eyes and that he would really react to what I'm saying. Also when I would bring a topic he would ask questions, and not change the subject.

Last time he also showed me pictures of his family and friends back in Japan.

But I don't really know if this much could mean he's into me or if it's just one part of japanese politeness I still didn't get. I feel he's not just acting as a friend, but I could be wrong.

What do you think ?

(part2)
So...About Hiro.

As I told you, he never text first, but whenever we start, the conversation can drag for hours. The first time it happened he actually asked me to send him a picture of myself (nothing weird, it's just that we were texting about the kind of things that people from france and japan would do during their high school festival, and when I told him I was dressed as a doll he got curious).

But he did take the initiative once, and it was actually the first time we went eating alone together - I don't know if you can call that a date. I remember, the waitress had forgotten to give us something and he actually ran to get it. That day we paid separately, but the next time, we went for coffee somewhere and he paid.

Thanks for the advice ! Since your anwers are straight and honest, and that they actually make sense, I'm going to keep asking.

Because honestly I only had one boyfriend before and he was the one who rapidly clarified the situation so that we would actually start dating. So I never had this weird friendship thing where I don't know what the guy is thinking.

Well, beside Mr M, but that one got married, and I really don't want to feel that stupid again.

Also my closest friend among my classmates in highschool was a guy, so I can see the difference between frendship and...that awkward situation.

I'm going to staet empress Ki soon. Also I'm struggling with completing Secret ot not...it was so good I don't want it to end...

I hope you can !
As for me I plan on going back to Japan in 2 Years, if I got my degree, and of course, if I gather enough money...

(part 2 - wow, first time I need a part 2!)
Thanks for your advice about Hiro. You are right, he is dense. He never starts a conversation, but if I do he's capable to keep texting until 1 or 2 AM. I get the feeling he really doesn't know what to do. Only things is, neither do I. I don't hit on boys. Things kindof always happened naturally I never had to give anyone a hint and I'm afraid to be soooooo obvious.

So........AND you ? How are you ?

Thanks ! I also thik we've spoken before.

You know I'm open here because I can't be in real life. My parents tend to think that love is a silly thing at my age and that whatever I'd feel for anyone would be put in the "schoolgirl crush" department in comparison with the "real stuff". I'm 22, by the way... Also, all my friends are older that me and most are already married and passed the romance stage. So anyway in my environment I always feel like the kid of the band and I always feel patronized everytime I open up about something personnal. So now I'd rather do it here where I know nobody will give me the impression they are comforting a kid who broke a worthless toy and who's making a big deal out of it.

I've recently started White Christmas and I love it. But I'm also watching those currently airing like Jeirs, Marry Him if your Dare and Secret. I'm only watching heirs for Kim Woo Bin now, cause I'm completely disappointed with LMH's acting (even though he's the one my mother loves) and I'm only watching MHIYD because of the main lead. But Secret is great, and I love its OST.

You ? Any good drama ?

THANKS ! I honestly thought we were friends already !

sounds fun but not very calm lol.
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thanks ^^ !
How are you doing these days ?

I was sure we were already friends...but since apparently we're not, I'm asking you...

Pretty please ???

I've never been there. I only know about the festival (carnaval).
How would you describe your own city ? *_*

thanks for accepting my fr. So you live in Rio de Janeiro ? I learn portuguese at school. How are you ?

Yeah Kim Soo Hyun in a modern drama/Saeguk flashbacks ? As an alien ? I'm definitely going to watch that !

I'm glad you got yourself a friend in that short a time. Are you planning on going back ?

How many of his projects are going to stay in hiatus ? Absolute Him, Celebrity...then what ?