Please ...someone give me the spoiler if you watch tomorrow at 7:45am after airing....of ep 10 and 11.and also who's gonna the endgame. By that time,I'd be in the workplace. So I wont get to watch...that's why please tell me...I am dying to know.
He'll be alone ...I watched his interview twit after the show...
Question : it felt like a series of choices. you must have experienced new emotions for the first time while on the show. YJ: i saw the person i liked choose someone else. i've always tried not to dislike anyone too much, but for the first time, i felt a sense of rivalry. i'm usually someone who keeps distance from competition, so those feelings were unfamiliar and caught me off guard. Q: through the "HisMan" series, queer content is becoming more mainstream. YJ: i wonder if there's even a need to separate it as "queer content." it's just the same content like every other. i hope it becomes more mainstream. Q: What advice would you give to people who plan to appear on dating programs in the future? Y: don't drink too much in the morning before starting. (a਼਼) there's a saying these days about "turning off your brain." i think it would be good to be a bit less calculating don't think and worry too deeply and just act according to your feelings. Q: is there anything you want to say to someone right now? YJ: to my parents. i want to say thank you for allowing me to grow up in a free environment. i want to tell them that., many people struggle with coming out, but i didn't have to. i think they already knew since i was young, even without me saying much. thankyou for creating that kind of enyramnten emrthis is a wave entertainment series that contains the real love stories of 11 people searching for love in HisMan season 4 applied an elimination system for the first time in Korea's dating shows, so it must have felt more intense. did that environment affect your way of dating or your mindset? YJ: i think i tried not to show any weaknesses as much as possible to everyone, so i acted a bit more cautiously than usual. Q: we're curious about your original personality. YJ: i'm actually brighter than how i appeared on the show, but i think i became a bit quieter there. Q: in the 30-seconds phone call date, you hesitated but eventually called with honesty YJ: you could say I fell for him at first sight. Q: how were the 7 days after you sent the message? YJ: there was a time when we had anonymous conversations through the chat message, and i kept talking without knowing who it was. when i finally found out at the very end, my mind went "ding." i tried to figure it out for a week, but everyone was so good at acting that i couldn't guess. i still remember the moment we first exchanged phone calls. J@chen_emr
HyeongJun acts like the victim but he is actually the one hurting JaeHa. JaeHa deserves a better man than him.…
Woah.....hahhaha..truly the hater of Hyeongjun ....
So let's get to straight who clearly throw hate on HJ ..... if Jaeha had come alone, ended up with another man, and moved on, that would be considered a âhappy endingâ⌠and people would say itâs good they broke up, right? But when Hyeongjun comes to the show after they already broke up, suddenly itâs wrong? Why is moving on acceptable for one person but a crime for the other? Suddenly heâs suspicious for being there? They broke up a long time ago. After that, HJ had every right to move on. Just because Jaeha lingered in the past doesnât mean HJ had to freeze his life there too. Jaeha ghosted him for a long time. Then suddenly, in front of cameras, he cries and asks for closeness. Real life doesnât work like a drama. This isnât BL fantasy , itâs reality. Emotions donât pause just because someone reappears with tears. HJ said again and again that he loved him deeply. Thatâs exactly why he couldnât ignore him. Loving someone doesnât mean you must stay and suffer forever. If Jaeha was the one who ended it, why expect HJ to stay waiting like a saint? Does Jaeha think HJ only belongs to him? That no matter what happens, heâll never leave? Thatâs not love thatâs assumption. Relationships arenât one-sided sacrifice. Itâs not just compromise from one person. Communication matters. Consistency matters. And Jaeha failed to communicate properly for a long time. Yet somehow all the blame falls on HJ? Thatâs the part thatâs unfair. Youâre watching edited scenes from a camera and thinking you know the full depth. But real pain isnât always loud. Real hurt isnât always dramatic. HJ choosing to move on isnât betrayal. Itâs self-respect.
People only believe what is spoken loudly, not what is endured silently. Hyeongjun chose silence over chaos and thatâs exactly why many misunderstand him. They listen to words, but they donât read the eyes. They donât see the quiet pain, the hesitation, the trembling hands. Itâs easy to say JH is right and HJ isnât sincere. But But they never ask about the flames that once burned in Hyeongjunâs eyes now turned so cold they may never feel warm again. And sincerity isnât always loud. Sometimes itâs in the way someone holds back tears. Sometimes itâs in the way someone avoids conflict because theyâre already too hurt. Not because he didnât love, but because he loved too deeply and got hurt where he least expected. The person he loved most became the reason he was in pain. That kind of hurt doesnât make you dramatic .. it makes you quiet. People ask why he seemed distant, why he wasnât active at first. Did anyone ask how broken he was inside? Did anyone ask how long he waited without contact? Silence is not guilt. Silence is sometimes survival. The only thing that matters to me is that HJ is slowly finding happiness again. You can see it small smiles, careful step, trembling but trying. Accepting Minseongâs closeness wasnât about replacing someone; it was about allowing himself to heal. And that takes courage. If Minseong truly loves him, I will support them wholeheartedly. But if not, I just hope Hyeongjun never receives false hope again. He deserves steady love, not confusion. He deserves warmth, not emotional chaos. At the end of the day, I wonât argue with people who only see one side. I choose to see his healing. I choose to support his peace. And I genuinely pray he finds a love that feels safe, consistent, and real whether itâs with Minseong or someone else. Because Hyeongjun deserves happiness. Quietly. Fully. Finally. â¤ď¸
So let's get to straight ... the commenters who clearly throw hate on HJ AND MS ..... if Jaeha had come alone, ended up with another man, and moved on, that would be considered a âhappy endingâ⌠and people would say itâs good they broke up, right? But when Hyeongjun comes to the show after they already broke up, suddenly itâs wrong? Why is moving on acceptable for one person but a crime for the other? Suddenly heâs suspicious for being there? They broke up a long time ago. After that, HJ had every right to move on. Just because Jaeha lingered in the past doesnât mean HJ had to freeze his life there too. Jaeha ghosted him for a long time. Then suddenly, in front of cameras, he cries and asks for closeness. Real life doesnât work like a drama. This isnât BL fantasy , itâs reality. Emotions donât pause just because someone reappears with tears. HJ said again and again that he loved him deeply. Thatâs exactly why he couldnât ignore him. Loving someone doesnât mean you must stay and suffer forever. If Jaeha was the one who ended it, why expect HJ to stay waiting like a saint? Does Jaeha think HJ only belongs to him? That no matter what happens, heâll never leave? Thatâs not love thatâs assumption. Relationships arenât one-sided sacrifice. Itâs not just compromise from one person. Communication matters. Consistency matters. And Jaeha failed to communicate properly for a long time. Yet somehow all the blame falls on HJ? Thatâs the part thatâs unfair. Youâre watching edited scenes from a camera and thinking you know the full depth. But real pain isnât always loud. Real hurt isnât always dramatic. HJ choosing to move on isnât betrayal. Itâs self-respect.
hj cannot follow his heart because he clearly wants back with hj⌠have you not been watching he just wants to…
Hahaha...I think you're not watching it carefully ....your opinion doesnt mean I have to think same as yours...I just strongly disagree to yours..and thats it. WHATEVER YOU SAY.
I love Jae-Ha, but I'm actually glad he's out.I'm relieved he's finally free from Hyeong-Jun. Hyeong-Jun doesn't…
Hahaha⌠woah, what a theory youâve got there but itâs only one-sided, judging just by the scenes and typing from your keyboard. At first, I also thought Jaeha and Hyeongjun might clear up their misunderstanding and get back together. But honestly, the problem wasnât Hyeongjun it was Jaeha. If Jaeha truly loved Hyeongjun, he wouldâve cared more about him than the reshoot. Hyeongjun didnât agree to the reshoot because they were already a final couple, yet Jaeha prioritized coming out, which is valid, but his approach ended up hurting Hyeongjun. He ghosted him for a long time, leaving Hyeongjun broken inside. If Hyeongjun hadnât returned to the show, Jaeha would have stayed and potentially met someone else â remember, in Ep 1, Jaeha also noticed another guy. He didnât wait for Hyeongjun; only when Hyeongjun arrived did he act like he cared. Hyeongjun came to move on, not to be forced, and that choice deserves respect. If someone truly cares, they donât force their presence on the other. Love isnât just about saying âI love youâ or âIâm worried about youâ â itâs about action, compromise, and choosing each other consistently. Hyeongjun suffered a lot because of Jaehaâs lack of communication and care. Thatâs why he seemed distant in the show until Minseong came along and made him happy. Love isnât about enduring constant hurt; if staying in a relationship drains you, itâs not meant to be. Everyone has the right to comfort, happiness, and emotional safety with their partner. Just look at Hyeongjun ... heâs often seen crying or sad when Jaeha is around. Not because he hates him, but because he was hurt by someone he deeply loved. Jaeha was the person he loved most, yet the ones we love the most can sometimes hurt us the most. It doesnât completely break us, but the scars remain. Hyeongjun has every right to be happy and free to choose his heart. As for Jaeha, he also deserves someone compatible who truly matches his thoughts and feelings. But Hyeongjunâs pain, patience, and choice to prioritize his own well-being show true courage and self-respect. Itâs not weak to step away from someone who hurts you repeatedly; itâs strength. Even if itâs hard or seems âtoxic,â staying in a relationship just because you âloveâ someone isnât logical love is about care, actions, and respect, not compulsion. So yes, even though I loved Jaeha, Iâm glad heâs out of Hyeongjunâs life. Hyeongjun finally gets to freely choose his happiness, without wavering or being drained by someone who couldnât communicate properly. I truly hope Hyeongjun heals his heart and finds someone who treats him with the care, attention, and love he deserves. And I hope Jaeha also finds someone compatible who values him the same way.
I liked Jaeha but also I hoped to him eliminated cause finally hyeong jun can follow his heart freely without any force or past hurt feelings....but not Lee hyeok jin , that's why I am a little bit sad ...I'm just watching this show for min song and hyeong jun...only they two sparkling...I hope they'll be the end couple...âŁď¸I think minseong learned from Junseong to be more active...đđFrr...like he said ..I didn't see this side of him in s2...actually ..I was not interested of whom he dated or whoever...but now it's different ...woah ..he's the main character here...People says everyone's time will come...I think this is it....
My brain jsut didn't process the fact that why they need an elimination ??is it the some kind of survival show?really ...NO season is the best than S2.. I thought minseong and Hyeongjun will be the next junsungho but I think it'd not after watching ep 7 ... Hyeongjun has soft corners for Jaeha...no matter what I wish for them happiness...no matter to whom they ended up with.
YJ: i saw the person i liked choose someone else. i've always tried not to dislike anyone too much, but for the first time, i felt a sense of rivalry. i'm usually someone who keeps distance from competition, so those feelings were unfamiliar and caught me off guard.
Q: through the "HisMan" series, queer content is becoming more mainstream. YJ: i wonder if there's even a need to separate it as "queer content." it's just the same content like every other. i hope it becomes more mainstream.
Q: What advice would you give to people who plan to appear on dating programs in the future?
Y: don't drink too much in the morning before starting. (a਼਼) there's a saying these days about "turning off your brain." i think it would be good to be a bit less calculating don't think and worry too deeply and just act according to your feelings.
Q: is there anything you want to say to someone right now?
YJ: to my parents. i want to say thank you for allowing me to grow up in a free environment. i want to tell them that., many people struggle with coming out, but i didn't have to. i think they already knew since i was young, even without me saying much. thankyou for creating that kind of enyramnten emrthis is a wave entertainment series that contains the real love stories of 11 people searching for love in HisMan season 4 applied an elimination system for the first time in Korea's dating shows, so it must have felt more intense.
did that environment affect your way of dating or your mindset?
YJ: i think i tried not to show any weaknesses as much as possible to everyone, so i acted a bit more cautiously than usual.
Q: we're curious about your original personality.
YJ: i'm actually brighter than how i appeared on the show, but i think i became a bit quieter there.
Q: in the 30-seconds phone call date, you hesitated but eventually called with honesty
YJ: you could say I fell for him at first sight.
Q: how were the 7 days after you sent the message?
YJ: there was a time when we had anonymous conversations through the chat message, and i kept talking without knowing who it was. when i finally found out at the very end, my mind went "ding." i tried to figure it out for a week, but everyone was so good at acting that i couldn't guess. i still remember the moment we first exchanged phone calls. J@chen_emr
So let's get to straight who clearly throw hate on HJ ..... if Jaeha had come alone, ended up with another man, and moved on, that would be considered a âhappy endingâ⌠and people would say itâs good they broke up, right?
But when Hyeongjun comes to the show after they already broke up, suddenly itâs wrong? Why is moving on acceptable for one person but a crime for the other? Suddenly heâs suspicious for being there?
They broke up a long time ago. After that, HJ had every right to move on. Just because Jaeha lingered in the past doesnât mean HJ had to freeze his life there too.
Jaeha ghosted him for a long time. Then suddenly, in front of cameras, he cries and asks for closeness. Real life doesnât work like a drama. This isnât BL fantasy , itâs reality. Emotions donât pause just because someone reappears with tears.
HJ said again and again that he loved him deeply. Thatâs exactly why he couldnât ignore him. Loving someone doesnât mean you must stay and suffer forever. If Jaeha was the one who ended it, why expect HJ to stay waiting like a saint?
Does Jaeha think HJ only belongs to him? That no matter what happens, heâll never leave? Thatâs not love thatâs assumption.
Relationships arenât one-sided sacrifice. Itâs not just compromise from one person. Communication matters. Consistency matters. And Jaeha failed to communicate properly for a long time.
Yet somehow all the blame falls on HJ? Thatâs the part thatâs unfair.
Youâre watching edited scenes from a camera and thinking you know the full depth. But real pain isnât always loud. Real hurt isnât always dramatic.
HJ choosing to move on isnât betrayal. Itâs self-respect.
Itâs easy to say JH is right and HJ isnât sincere. But But they never ask about the flames that once burned in Hyeongjunâs eyes now turned so cold they may never feel warm again. And sincerity isnât always loud. Sometimes itâs in the way someone holds back tears. Sometimes itâs in the way someone avoids conflict because theyâre already too hurt.
Not because he didnât love, but because he loved too deeply and got hurt where he least expected. The person he loved most became the reason he was in pain. That kind of hurt doesnât make you dramatic .. it makes you quiet.
People ask why he seemed distant, why he wasnât active at first. Did anyone ask how broken he was inside? Did anyone ask how long he waited without contact? Silence is not guilt. Silence is sometimes survival.
The only thing that matters to me is that HJ is slowly finding happiness again. You can see it small smiles, careful step, trembling but trying. Accepting Minseongâs closeness wasnât about replacing someone; it was about allowing himself to heal. And that takes courage.
If Minseong truly loves him, I will support them wholeheartedly. But if not, I just hope Hyeongjun never receives false hope again. He deserves steady love, not confusion. He deserves warmth, not emotional chaos.
At the end of the day, I wonât argue with people who only see one side. I choose to see his healing. I choose to support his peace. And I genuinely pray he finds a love that feels safe, consistent, and real whether itâs with Minseong or someone else.
Because Hyeongjun deserves happiness. Quietly. Fully. Finally. â¤ď¸
But when Hyeongjun comes to the show after they already broke up, suddenly itâs wrong? Why is moving on acceptable for one person but a crime for the other? Suddenly heâs suspicious for being there?
They broke up a long time ago. After that, HJ had every right to move on. Just because Jaeha lingered in the past doesnât mean HJ had to freeze his life there too.
Jaeha ghosted him for a long time. Then suddenly, in front of cameras, he cries and asks for closeness. Real life doesnât work like a drama. This isnât BL fantasy , itâs reality. Emotions donât pause just because someone reappears with tears.
HJ said again and again that he loved him deeply. Thatâs exactly why he couldnât ignore him. Loving someone doesnât mean you must stay and suffer forever. If Jaeha was the one who ended it, why expect HJ to stay waiting like a saint?
Does Jaeha think HJ only belongs to him? That no matter what happens, heâll never leave? Thatâs not love thatâs assumption.
Relationships arenât one-sided sacrifice. Itâs not just compromise from one person. Communication matters. Consistency matters. And Jaeha failed to communicate properly for a long time.
Yet somehow all the blame falls on HJ? Thatâs the part thatâs unfair.
Youâre watching edited scenes from a camera and thinking you know the full depth. But real pain isnât always loud. Real hurt isnât always dramatic.
HJ choosing to move on isnât betrayal. Itâs self-respect.
If Jaeha truly loved Hyeongjun, he wouldâve cared more about him than the reshoot. Hyeongjun didnât agree to the reshoot because they were already a final couple, yet Jaeha prioritized coming out, which is valid, but his approach ended up hurting Hyeongjun. He ghosted him for a long time, leaving Hyeongjun broken inside. If Hyeongjun hadnât returned to the show, Jaeha would have stayed and potentially met someone else â remember, in Ep 1, Jaeha also noticed another guy. He didnât wait for Hyeongjun; only when Hyeongjun arrived did he act like he cared. Hyeongjun came to move on, not to be forced, and that choice deserves respect.
If someone truly cares, they donât force their presence on the other. Love isnât just about saying âI love youâ or âIâm worried about youâ â itâs about action, compromise, and choosing each other consistently. Hyeongjun suffered a lot because of Jaehaâs lack of communication and care. Thatâs why he seemed distant in the show until Minseong came along and made him happy. Love isnât about enduring constant hurt; if staying in a relationship drains you, itâs not meant to be. Everyone has the right to comfort, happiness, and emotional safety with their partner.
Just look at Hyeongjun ... heâs often seen crying or sad when Jaeha is around. Not because he hates him, but because he was hurt by someone he deeply loved. Jaeha was the person he loved most, yet the ones we love the most can sometimes hurt us the most. It doesnât completely break us, but the scars remain. Hyeongjun has every right to be happy and free to choose his heart.
As for Jaeha, he also deserves someone compatible who truly matches his thoughts and feelings. But Hyeongjunâs pain, patience, and choice to prioritize his own well-being show true courage and self-respect. Itâs not weak to step away from someone who hurts you repeatedly; itâs strength. Even if itâs hard or seems âtoxic,â staying in a relationship just because you âloveâ someone isnât logical
love is about care, actions, and respect, not compulsion.
So yes, even though I loved Jaeha, Iâm glad heâs out of Hyeongjunâs life. Hyeongjun finally gets to freely choose his happiness, without wavering or being drained by someone who couldnât communicate properly. I truly hope Hyeongjun heals his heart and finds someone who treats him with the care, attention, and love he deserves. And I hope Jaeha also finds someone compatible who values him the same way.
.I waited desperately a week and looking when ep will be aired came here back and forth just to see it's only one epđđ