I understand why some viewers felt upset with Hyunjun. His way of speaking can come across as blunt, and sometimes…
Where did I make Certainty , I clearly wrote as I doubt.... And That's my opinion and also I am not hating anyone... I just saw through viewers . I love hyunjun nad sun wook duo as well ..specially I clarified that why viewers throwing on awful cmts to hyunjun is absolutely because of his behaviour towards yunjae....which is clearly rude .TAHTS it.
I think the only endgames are HyunJun x SunWook and HyeongJun x MinSeong.For HyunJun and SunWook, I'm not surprised…
Hehe...same here...I also wanted Jaeha and Hyeongjun to back together until I see the pain in Hyeongjun eyes also though he loved him the most ..and he felt uncomfort and distant ...that made me very traumatic and wished he can find smn and minseong appears...whatever others saying ... MS AND HJ is the ultimate couple for me...and I will Stan them if they gonna be together ..and also I hope they would...
The comments were bursting with rage and honestly they almost made me stopped watching Ep 10 and 11⊠but I still watched it and it was exactly the opposite of what people were saying. I felt so happy, not awful like the commenters made it seem. My ultimate ship is Minseong and Lee Hyeongjun. Iâm literally watching this whole show because of them. For me, the spark of this show comes from this couple only. I felt so happy seeing them grow closer in such a sincere and honest way no matter what people say. I really hoped their night date would air first so I wouldnât have to wait another week⊠and like I predicted, it aired. I was just wordless. I truly pray and wish they are endgame đ«¶đ Even though they werenât chosen to go outside, I could still feel their âhome sweetâ date energy đ As for Hyunjun, Yunjae and Sun Wook⊠I donât hate anyone. But from an audience perspective, I understand why people were upset with Hyunjun. Itâs okay to reject someone, but he could have expressed himself clearly while still being humble. Yunjae clearly liked him, so careless words and fed-up reactions would hurt. Thatâs what I didnât like. I wonât deny that from episode 1, Hyunjun and Yunjae were the first ship that excited me. But after episodes 3 and 4, I got disappointed because Hyunjun also showed interest in Sun Wook. By episodes 5 and 6, it became crystal clear he only had eyes for Sun Wook. And from episodes 5 to 9, I really started loving Sun Wook â his cuteness, his consistency, his understanding personality. He didnât give false hope and he spoke with gratitude and humbleness, which I felt Hyunjun lacked at times. For Yunjae, I really feel bad. One-sided love hurts. Courting someone even when you know it might not be possible is painful. I wish he would protect himself instead of calling Hyunjun again. But honestly, Hyunjun went a little overboard sometimes. I understand someone can get fed up, while u don't like smn but have to put act up with it....but he still chose Yunjae even knowing Yunjae was head over heels for him. And the sheep/goat towel comment on the date⊠even if he didnât like him, he could have just stayed quiet or made him comfortable instead of saying things that might make him feel inferior. That moment really made me angry. It also made me question â if he can act like that with Yunjae, what about Sun Wook in the future? What if one day he gets fed up again? I I was honestly angry at my peak and even started questioning if he really deserves Sun Wook. Sometimes it feels like heâs only attracted to Sun Wook because Sun Wook gave him attention. And what if one day, after the show ends, he gets fed up the same way he did with Yunjae? What if Sun Wook is at his lowest at some point⊠would he still stay? I donât know. That thought really made me doubt. So for them⊠I honestly have no comment. Anyway, no hate. Just my opinion. But overall, I loved the episodes because my ultimate ship is growing đ„čâ€ïž So please watch the show yourself instead of deciding based on comments.
Please ...someone give me the spoiler if you watch tomorrow at 7:45am after airing....of ep 10 and 11.and also who's gonna the endgame. By that time,I'd be in the workplace. So I wont get to watch...that's why please tell me...I am dying to know.
He'll be alone ...I watched his interview twit after the show...
Question : it felt like a series of choices. you must have experienced new emotions for the first time while on the show. YJ: i saw the person i liked choose someone else. i've always tried not to dislike anyone too much, but for the first time, i felt a sense of rivalry. i'm usually someone who keeps distance from competition, so those feelings were unfamiliar and caught me off guard. Q: through the "HisMan" series, queer content is becoming more mainstream. YJ: i wonder if there's even a need to separate it as "queer content." it's just the same content like every other. i hope it becomes more mainstream. Q: What advice would you give to people who plan to appear on dating programs in the future? Y: don't drink too much in the morning before starting. (aàš„àš„) there's a saying these days about "turning off your brain." i think it would be good to be a bit less calculating don't think and worry too deeply and just act according to your feelings. Q: is there anything you want to say to someone right now? YJ: to my parents. i want to say thank you for allowing me to grow up in a free environment. i want to tell them that., many people struggle with coming out, but i didn't have to. i think they already knew since i was young, even without me saying much. thankyou for creating that kind of enyramnten emrthis is a wave entertainment series that contains the real love stories of 11 people searching for love in HisMan season 4 applied an elimination system for the first time in Korea's dating shows, so it must have felt more intense. did that environment affect your way of dating or your mindset? YJ: i think i tried not to show any weaknesses as much as possible to everyone, so i acted a bit more cautiously than usual. Q: we're curious about your original personality. YJ: i'm actually brighter than how i appeared on the show, but i think i became a bit quieter there. Q: in the 30-seconds phone call date, you hesitated but eventually called with honesty YJ: you could say I fell for him at first sight. Q: how were the 7 days after you sent the message? YJ: there was a time when we had anonymous conversations through the chat message, and i kept talking without knowing who it was. when i finally found out at the very end, my mind went "ding." i tried to figure it out for a week, but everyone was so good at acting that i couldn't guess. i still remember the moment we first exchanged phone calls. J@chen_emr
HyeongJun acts like the victim but he is actually the one hurting JaeHa. JaeHa deserves a better man than him.…
Woah.....hahhaha..truly the hater of Hyeongjun ....
So let's get to straight who clearly throw hate on HJ ..... if Jaeha had come alone, ended up with another man, and moved on, that would be considered a âhappy endingâ⊠and people would say itâs good they broke up, right? But when Hyeongjun comes to the show after they already broke up, suddenly itâs wrong? Why is moving on acceptable for one person but a crime for the other? Suddenly heâs suspicious for being there? They broke up a long time ago. After that, HJ had every right to move on. Just because Jaeha lingered in the past doesnât mean HJ had to freeze his life there too. Jaeha ghosted him for a long time. Then suddenly, in front of cameras, he cries and asks for closeness. Real life doesnât work like a drama. This isnât BL fantasy , itâs reality. Emotions donât pause just because someone reappears with tears. HJ said again and again that he loved him deeply. Thatâs exactly why he couldnât ignore him. Loving someone doesnât mean you must stay and suffer forever. If Jaeha was the one who ended it, why expect HJ to stay waiting like a saint? Does Jaeha think HJ only belongs to him? That no matter what happens, heâll never leave? Thatâs not love thatâs assumption. Relationships arenât one-sided sacrifice. Itâs not just compromise from one person. Communication matters. Consistency matters. And Jaeha failed to communicate properly for a long time. Yet somehow all the blame falls on HJ? Thatâs the part thatâs unfair. Youâre watching edited scenes from a camera and thinking you know the full depth. But real pain isnât always loud. Real hurt isnât always dramatic. HJ choosing to move on isnât betrayal. Itâs self-respect.
People only believe what is spoken loudly, not what is endured silently. Hyeongjun chose silence over chaos and thatâs exactly why many misunderstand him. They listen to words, but they donât read the eyes. They donât see the quiet pain, the hesitation, the trembling hands. Itâs easy to say JH is right and HJ isnât sincere. But But they never ask about the flames that once burned in Hyeongjunâs eyes now turned so cold they may never feel warm again. And sincerity isnât always loud. Sometimes itâs in the way someone holds back tears. Sometimes itâs in the way someone avoids conflict because theyâre already too hurt. Not because he didnât love, but because he loved too deeply and got hurt where he least expected. The person he loved most became the reason he was in pain. That kind of hurt doesnât make you dramatic .. it makes you quiet. People ask why he seemed distant, why he wasnât active at first. Did anyone ask how broken he was inside? Did anyone ask how long he waited without contact? Silence is not guilt. Silence is sometimes survival. The only thing that matters to me is that HJ is slowly finding happiness again. You can see it small smiles, careful step, trembling but trying. Accepting Minseongâs closeness wasnât about replacing someone; it was about allowing himself to heal. And that takes courage. If Minseong truly loves him, I will support them wholeheartedly. But if not, I just hope Hyeongjun never receives false hope again. He deserves steady love, not confusion. He deserves warmth, not emotional chaos. At the end of the day, I wonât argue with people who only see one side. I choose to see his healing. I choose to support his peace. And I genuinely pray he finds a love that feels safe, consistent, and real whether itâs with Minseong or someone else. Because Hyeongjun deserves happiness. Quietly. Fully. Finally. â€ïž
So let's get to straight ... the commenters who clearly throw hate on HJ AND MS ..... if Jaeha had come alone, ended up with another man, and moved on, that would be considered a âhappy endingâ⊠and people would say itâs good they broke up, right? But when Hyeongjun comes to the show after they already broke up, suddenly itâs wrong? Why is moving on acceptable for one person but a crime for the other? Suddenly heâs suspicious for being there? They broke up a long time ago. After that, HJ had every right to move on. Just because Jaeha lingered in the past doesnât mean HJ had to freeze his life there too. Jaeha ghosted him for a long time. Then suddenly, in front of cameras, he cries and asks for closeness. Real life doesnât work like a drama. This isnât BL fantasy , itâs reality. Emotions donât pause just because someone reappears with tears. HJ said again and again that he loved him deeply. Thatâs exactly why he couldnât ignore him. Loving someone doesnât mean you must stay and suffer forever. If Jaeha was the one who ended it, why expect HJ to stay waiting like a saint? Does Jaeha think HJ only belongs to him? That no matter what happens, heâll never leave? Thatâs not love thatâs assumption. Relationships arenât one-sided sacrifice. Itâs not just compromise from one person. Communication matters. Consistency matters. And Jaeha failed to communicate properly for a long time. Yet somehow all the blame falls on HJ? Thatâs the part thatâs unfair. Youâre watching edited scenes from a camera and thinking you know the full depth. But real pain isnât always loud. Real hurt isnât always dramatic. HJ choosing to move on isnât betrayal. Itâs self-respect.
hj cannot follow his heart because he clearly wants back with hj⊠have you not been watching he just wants to…
Hahaha...I think you're not watching it carefully ....your opinion doesnt mean I have to think same as yours...I just strongly disagree to yours..and thats it. WHATEVER YOU SAY.
My ultimate ship is Minseong and Lee Hyeongjun. Iâm literally watching this whole show because of them. For me, the spark of this show comes from this couple only. I felt so happy seeing them grow closer in such a sincere and honest way no matter what people say. I really hoped their night date would air first so I wouldnât have to wait another week⊠and like I predicted, it aired. I was just wordless. I truly pray and wish they are endgame đ«¶đ Even though they werenât chosen to go outside, I could still feel their âhome sweetâ date energy đ
As for Hyunjun, Yunjae and Sun Wook⊠I donât hate anyone. But from an audience perspective, I understand why people were upset with Hyunjun. Itâs okay to reject someone, but he could have expressed himself clearly while still being humble. Yunjae clearly liked him, so careless words and fed-up reactions would hurt. Thatâs what I didnât like.
I wonât deny that from episode 1, Hyunjun and Yunjae were the first ship that excited me. But after episodes 3 and 4, I got disappointed because Hyunjun also showed interest in Sun Wook. By episodes 5 and 6, it became crystal clear he only had eyes for Sun Wook. And from episodes 5 to 9, I really started loving Sun Wook â his cuteness, his consistency, his understanding personality. He didnât give false hope and he spoke with gratitude and humbleness, which I felt Hyunjun lacked at times.
For Yunjae, I really feel bad. One-sided love hurts. Courting someone even when you know it might not be possible is painful. I wish he would protect himself instead of calling Hyunjun again.
But honestly, Hyunjun went a little overboard sometimes. I understand someone can get fed up, while u don't like smn but have to put act up with it....but he still chose Yunjae even knowing Yunjae was head over heels for him. And the sheep/goat towel comment on the date⊠even if he didnât like him, he could have just stayed quiet or made him comfortable instead of saying things that might make him feel inferior. That moment really made me angry.
It also made me question â if he can act like that with Yunjae, what about Sun Wook in the future? What if one day he gets fed up again? I I was honestly angry at my peak and even started questioning if he really deserves Sun Wook. Sometimes it feels like heâs only attracted to Sun Wook because Sun Wook gave him attention. And what if one day, after the show ends, he gets fed up the same way he did with Yunjae? What if Sun Wook is at his lowest at some point⊠would he still stay? I donât know. That thought really made me doubt.
So for them⊠I honestly have no comment.
Anyway, no hate. Just my opinion.
But overall, I loved the episodes because my ultimate ship is growing đ„čâ€ïž So please watch the show yourself instead of deciding based on comments.
YJ: i saw the person i liked choose someone else. i've always tried not to dislike anyone too much, but for the first time, i felt a sense of rivalry. i'm usually someone who keeps distance from competition, so those feelings were unfamiliar and caught me off guard.
Q: through the "HisMan" series, queer content is becoming more mainstream. YJ: i wonder if there's even a need to separate it as "queer content." it's just the same content like every other. i hope it becomes more mainstream.
Q: What advice would you give to people who plan to appear on dating programs in the future?
Y: don't drink too much in the morning before starting. (aàš„àš„) there's a saying these days about "turning off your brain." i think it would be good to be a bit less calculating don't think and worry too deeply and just act according to your feelings.
Q: is there anything you want to say to someone right now?
YJ: to my parents. i want to say thank you for allowing me to grow up in a free environment. i want to tell them that., many people struggle with coming out, but i didn't have to. i think they already knew since i was young, even without me saying much. thankyou for creating that kind of enyramnten emrthis is a wave entertainment series that contains the real love stories of 11 people searching for love in HisMan season 4 applied an elimination system for the first time in Korea's dating shows, so it must have felt more intense.
did that environment affect your way of dating or your mindset?
YJ: i think i tried not to show any weaknesses as much as possible to everyone, so i acted a bit more cautiously than usual.
Q: we're curious about your original personality.
YJ: i'm actually brighter than how i appeared on the show, but i think i became a bit quieter there.
Q: in the 30-seconds phone call date, you hesitated but eventually called with honesty
YJ: you could say I fell for him at first sight.
Q: how were the 7 days after you sent the message?
YJ: there was a time when we had anonymous conversations through the chat message, and i kept talking without knowing who it was. when i finally found out at the very end, my mind went "ding." i tried to figure it out for a week, but everyone was so good at acting that i couldn't guess. i still remember the moment we first exchanged phone calls. J@chen_emr
So let's get to straight who clearly throw hate on HJ ..... if Jaeha had come alone, ended up with another man, and moved on, that would be considered a âhappy endingâ⊠and people would say itâs good they broke up, right?
But when Hyeongjun comes to the show after they already broke up, suddenly itâs wrong? Why is moving on acceptable for one person but a crime for the other? Suddenly heâs suspicious for being there?
They broke up a long time ago. After that, HJ had every right to move on. Just because Jaeha lingered in the past doesnât mean HJ had to freeze his life there too.
Jaeha ghosted him for a long time. Then suddenly, in front of cameras, he cries and asks for closeness. Real life doesnât work like a drama. This isnât BL fantasy , itâs reality. Emotions donât pause just because someone reappears with tears.
HJ said again and again that he loved him deeply. Thatâs exactly why he couldnât ignore him. Loving someone doesnât mean you must stay and suffer forever. If Jaeha was the one who ended it, why expect HJ to stay waiting like a saint?
Does Jaeha think HJ only belongs to him? That no matter what happens, heâll never leave? Thatâs not love thatâs assumption.
Relationships arenât one-sided sacrifice. Itâs not just compromise from one person. Communication matters. Consistency matters. And Jaeha failed to communicate properly for a long time.
Yet somehow all the blame falls on HJ? Thatâs the part thatâs unfair.
Youâre watching edited scenes from a camera and thinking you know the full depth. But real pain isnât always loud. Real hurt isnât always dramatic.
HJ choosing to move on isnât betrayal. Itâs self-respect.
Itâs easy to say JH is right and HJ isnât sincere. But But they never ask about the flames that once burned in Hyeongjunâs eyes now turned so cold they may never feel warm again. And sincerity isnât always loud. Sometimes itâs in the way someone holds back tears. Sometimes itâs in the way someone avoids conflict because theyâre already too hurt.
Not because he didnât love, but because he loved too deeply and got hurt where he least expected. The person he loved most became the reason he was in pain. That kind of hurt doesnât make you dramatic .. it makes you quiet.
People ask why he seemed distant, why he wasnât active at first. Did anyone ask how broken he was inside? Did anyone ask how long he waited without contact? Silence is not guilt. Silence is sometimes survival.
The only thing that matters to me is that HJ is slowly finding happiness again. You can see it small smiles, careful step, trembling but trying. Accepting Minseongâs closeness wasnât about replacing someone; it was about allowing himself to heal. And that takes courage.
If Minseong truly loves him, I will support them wholeheartedly. But if not, I just hope Hyeongjun never receives false hope again. He deserves steady love, not confusion. He deserves warmth, not emotional chaos.
At the end of the day, I wonât argue with people who only see one side. I choose to see his healing. I choose to support his peace. And I genuinely pray he finds a love that feels safe, consistent, and real whether itâs with Minseong or someone else.
Because Hyeongjun deserves happiness. Quietly. Fully. Finally. â€ïž
But when Hyeongjun comes to the show after they already broke up, suddenly itâs wrong? Why is moving on acceptable for one person but a crime for the other? Suddenly heâs suspicious for being there?
They broke up a long time ago. After that, HJ had every right to move on. Just because Jaeha lingered in the past doesnât mean HJ had to freeze his life there too.
Jaeha ghosted him for a long time. Then suddenly, in front of cameras, he cries and asks for closeness. Real life doesnât work like a drama. This isnât BL fantasy , itâs reality. Emotions donât pause just because someone reappears with tears.
HJ said again and again that he loved him deeply. Thatâs exactly why he couldnât ignore him. Loving someone doesnât mean you must stay and suffer forever. If Jaeha was the one who ended it, why expect HJ to stay waiting like a saint?
Does Jaeha think HJ only belongs to him? That no matter what happens, heâll never leave? Thatâs not love thatâs assumption.
Relationships arenât one-sided sacrifice. Itâs not just compromise from one person. Communication matters. Consistency matters. And Jaeha failed to communicate properly for a long time.
Yet somehow all the blame falls on HJ? Thatâs the part thatâs unfair.
Youâre watching edited scenes from a camera and thinking you know the full depth. But real pain isnât always loud. Real hurt isnât always dramatic.
HJ choosing to move on isnât betrayal. Itâs self-respect.