Because ML mother financially profiled FL family, said FL isn't good enough for her son. Even though her family…
His mother is pulling class rank and highlighted ages privileged to do so, the mother who made the amputation decision without Min-jae's input. He chose to seperate himself. Yu-Jin has already experienced what privileged people can do.. Her mentor & professor had say in her outcome. Why she needed to reinvent herself and make sure she goes after what she wants. All whilst learning along the way. Now she's Trial by Poker..
Lolif it ends this way the way I would bomb this drama with low ratings would be crazy. What do you mean ML should…
What I mean he goes but doesn't mean FL interacts with ML. He is watching from a far and he decides against it and leaves. His fate is with 2FL, who will accept it when ML returns, just like she has been since it started. years on... ML & 2FL have split up (maybe not) , that's when FL & ML they see each other.
Just like Katie & Hubbell the love is still there but the hope is gone.
Neuro divergent is a psychiatric diagnosis...Normal people who are still developing communication and social skills…
They are in their mid 20s and early 30s but they do not act nuerotypical, they do show social awkwardness where processing social information is different, part of the spectrum is part of being Neurodivergent.
It's a descriptive, identity-based umbrella term and not a psychiatric diagnosis, no clinician would use that term to diagnose.
Why I mentioned it is because 2 of my flatmates who are on the spectrum actually mentioned it as we watched.
That SeJin guy is just a cockroach. What the heck you have to do to get rid of him. He is in every scenes of this…
Lab Rat boy we've nicknamed him. You know he probably at the heart that caused the problem at his old university. One where he somehow knows all the intell on.. Regarding a romance was going on and he definitely got himself involved....
He probably did exact same thing, why ended up there, made a wager and lost...
Ok I want to understand something, did what Yujin say to Minjae about how if her mother asked her to stop seeing…
Because ML mother financially profiled FL family, said FL isn't good enough for her son. Even though her family own a business. FL brother is a mechanic (engineering) but ML mother looked down on them. Think FL was seeing what he knew but FL not thinking how he'd take that, as he is thinking it's to do with his disability.
Is this love on the spectrum. Are the FL & ML nuerodivergent... Or it's another case of bad communication..
ML mother financially profiled FL family and yet ML doesn't think highly of his own mother. FL then makes ML feel inadequate by saying if her mother told her to end it, she would. Was that her baiting see if he knew? I wanna knock their heads together...
And we've seen FL projecting herself onto ML, I know he rejected her because of Harvard... But that kiss prior to PhD Harvard news was 🔥 that boy sure left his mark, no wonder FL not giving up on him.
Then there is Ratboy & their weirdness of getting into bed with ML... Like HELLO... CREEP alert and a high flying 🚩 to which ML openly tells FL all about but they can't talk about their own feelings.. 🤦🏽♀️
Then Ratboy has a meltdown with FL over ML. Who creepy peeping habit is bothersome.. Don't get me started on Volcano Topokki incident 😂
I know few episodes been chaotic BUT Im sooo invested in where this goes 🍿 😁
The timeline it is set in. alongside cultural dynamics of the generations should show you how those personalities…
ML Sais it and it wues to flashbacks all the protectiveness she showed.
The Haenyeo women would make a whistle sound when they got to surface called sumbisori, safety signal to alert nearby divers that they are alive and well.
I dont think 2ML feelings for the FL is 100% . I think ML & 2ML paths crossed when in orphanage and 2ML can't understand why ML has had the loving family, Girlf and wants to beat ML at something. As 2ML life has been groomed into being no1 high competitive and taking something from others. Which 2ML thinks he has until...
FL she needs to leave Seoul and go love herself in a new setting, workout what it is she wants, as she's always been there for everyone else especially ML. In that time ML who has feelings for 2FL isn't quite sure in what capacity those feelings are, as 2FL is replicating FL in being his support and guidance but the ❤️ isn't as powerful.... ML goes off to find the FL as his ❤️ cannot survive without her & 2FL knows it but been hanging on in hope.... Just like the ML originally with FL..
However ML gets to where FL is and sees she has a whole new complete life, friends etc and leaves. Returning to 2FL telling her, he didn't connect, he knew the past has to stay in the past.
And ML & 2FL just carry on.....
Then one day few years on the FL & ML are at road crossing looking at each other.....
MDL is a platform where audience come and give their opinion no it. There will always be some weirdos who'll try…
Its a fictional drama... Of course FL accepted the 2ML to kiss her... Which for discussion would be she should of told the ML.. But it's called subplots... Build up to the drama to unfold.
Its not that deep....
The title is 'A Love other than Yours' ...
Obvious there would be third parties involved.
My issue with series it's badly filmed, acting is wooden in places. When cast previous work is better.
Was it miscast? It's definitely not worth waiting a week for one episode... Im just gonna wait till last episode see what outcome was. ... 😂 Who marries who within Open relationship.
This story portrays the differential intricacies of what 'Love' is within one's heart - their beliefs based on what is best for the recipient or what society expects.
From the ML/FL relationship that is extremely deep within. To 2ML relationship with his mother & 2FL relationship with ML. The ML best friend relationship - ML parents.
Subplot is heartache and tears that comes with it along with survival and the journey.
The acting ticks right boxes.
ML is abandoned as a Child due to a mix up at an affluent IVF facility, it's his story that involves the FL who was also abandoned as a child. They find each other, then after what looks like a happy relationship, one ends it. Due to their childhood trauma and how it has shaped them. One wants to be a parent and love unconditionally the other has different feelings about parenthood.
The ML runs a lucrative business that runs errands where dabbles in adrenaline moments, until is crosses gangster territory. Both receive detrimental health news and the journey begins....
The series flip flops for both main characters on their past plus FL need in finding her mother.
This drama ticks all emotions. As a parent, I had a hard time how one can abandon a child. That said, I loved this story. There were times I asked 'Why' 'how' in some scenes & sequency but I loved it still. Had me in tears of sadness & laughter.
The 2ML relationship with FL was also sad and shows how we love at different levels and what may border dependency and dangers with paranoia. 2ML relationship with his mother their dynamics also was traumatic for him due to family tradition & controlling nature.
I loved 2FL she was protective & loved ML in her way & vice versa their relationship was ambiguous and layered.
It shows us how humans behave when faced with death.
One thing.. K dramas love a scene with Rain. I'm in UK & I thought we got a lot of rain 😁
wtaf is going onbut its interesting to see where things will goyou cant deny mido and namgung have some insane…
Feel same... I'm like I need the back story on how FL&ML decided on friends to lovers... Not like they've been together since 16yo it was 26yo... Now they're nearing 40! Will they walk away from the past 20+ years of each other...
Think one with tell the other they can both date others with an expiry date make a decision to stay together forever or walk away from each other indefinitely. Pulling us along for the journey 🤣.
The Kissing 🤣 2ML put everything into it... FL was not 🔥 by it, was more a WTH is this. There was no passion. FL had drank a lot & thought processing seriously delayed. Looked torn in should I tell ML what went down to burying head in sand about it. Equates to drama to come..
Think the ML&FL are very much a demiromantic partnership that has lost it's way, I mean this on how it's not romantic from viewers pov or is this part of their dynamic?
We don't know why ML (as it may come across) so in love with the FL or just a protective kinship. I'm curious on how MLFL when their bond became romantic into lovers. Their romantic relationship started when 26. Until then they were best friends with one obviously holding the 'in Love with torch'.. Which one I'm not sure as they both flip flop on their emotions & care for each other.
Surely they had relationships with otherd prior to getting together. I feel their back story is lacking. Maybe this is highlighted as episode go forward & director has us just as they intended with actors doing exactly that....
Its frustrating 😂 one episode a week, I thought at least give us 2 which included the missed one... I tell myself put it on hold then binge watch but I also look at the episode drops and just hit play, because I need to know 🤣🤣🤣
I haven't shouted 'Omg what are you both doing' at tv so animated .. Since watching 'Because this is my first life'.... Early Spring got some sighs and Ohh for the love of cake sung... But this has me having conversation with a 65" plastic light box 🤦🏽♀️💗
Rewatching this, the first watch was 2018... With Neurodivergent more openly talked about it all makes a lot more sense.. Although I loved it first time round and years on.... Especially as Esom character strong female in a male dominant profession is very much like 90s.... Will I still question the last episode... 😂
Really liked the first half, more focus on friendship and the interactions between the fl and ml are really funny.…
She didn't give up her dream because she got married. She made the choice not to write again for reason she left her job (huge part of the story & the 🚩) - She was no longer in love with why she wanted to write as it had became tainted but doesn't mean she would give up on it completely. FL was drawn to ML to start, she felt safe, she wouldn't of kissed him at the bus stop as was so out of character for her meanwhile her friend been in a 7 year relationship with who also her best friend & never realised they were on different page regards to marriage ... It's quirky mature neocortex drama.. where ML is neurodivergent.
He chose to seperate himself.
Yu-Jin has already experienced what privileged people can do.. Her mentor & professor had say in her outcome.
Why she needed to reinvent herself and make sure she goes after what she wants. All whilst learning along the way.
Now she's Trial by Poker..
His fate is with 2FL, who will accept it when ML returns, just like she has been since it started.
years on... ML & 2FL have split up (maybe not) , that's when FL & ML they see each other.
Just like Katie & Hubbell the love is still there but the hope is gone.
Neurodivergent.
It's a descriptive, identity-based umbrella term and not a psychiatric diagnosis, no clinician would use that term to diagnose.
Why I mentioned it is because 2 of my flatmates who are on the spectrum actually mentioned it as we watched.
He probably did exact same thing, why ended up there, made a wager and lost...
Think FL was seeing what he knew but FL not thinking how he'd take that, as he is thinking it's to do with his disability.
ML mother financially profiled FL family and yet ML doesn't think highly of his own mother.
FL then makes ML feel inadequate by saying if her mother told her to end it, she would. Was that her baiting see if he knew? I wanna knock their heads together...
And we've seen FL projecting herself onto ML, I know he rejected her because of Harvard... But that kiss prior to PhD Harvard news was 🔥 that boy sure left his mark, no wonder FL not giving up on him.
Then there is Ratboy & their weirdness of getting into bed with ML... Like HELLO... CREEP alert and a high flying 🚩 to which ML openly tells FL all about but they can't talk about their own feelings.. 🤦🏽♀️
Then Ratboy has a meltdown with FL over ML. Who creepy peeping habit is bothersome.. Don't get me started on Volcano Topokki incident 😂
I know few episodes been chaotic BUT
Im sooo invested in where this goes 🍿 😁
The Haenyeo women would make a whistle sound when they got to surface called sumbisori, safety signal to alert nearby divers that they are alive and well.
ML saying FL was his personal whistle.
FL she needs to leave Seoul and go love herself in a new setting, workout what it is she wants, as she's always been there for everyone else especially ML. In that time ML who has feelings for 2FL isn't quite sure in what capacity those feelings are, as 2FL is replicating FL in being his support and guidance but the ❤️ isn't as powerful.... ML goes off to find the FL as his ❤️ cannot survive without her & 2FL knows it but been hanging on in hope.... Just like the ML originally with FL..
However ML gets to where FL is and sees she has a whole new complete life, friends etc and leaves.
Returning to 2FL telling her, he didn't connect, he knew the past has to stay in the past.
And ML & 2FL just carry on.....
Then one day few years on the FL & ML are at road crossing looking at each other.....
The END
😂
Plot twist could be an open relationship
ML instigating it 🤷🏽♀️ 😁
Its not that deep....
The title is 'A Love other than Yours' ...
Obvious there would be third parties involved.
My issue with series it's badly filmed, acting is wooden in places. When cast previous work is better.
Was it miscast? It's definitely not worth waiting a week for one episode... Im just gonna wait till last episode see what outcome was. ... 😂 Who marries who within Open relationship.
Each to their own... I guess
From the ML/FL relationship that is extremely deep within. To 2ML relationship with his mother & 2FL relationship with ML.
The ML best friend relationship - ML parents.
Subplot is heartache and tears that comes with it along with survival and the journey.
The acting ticks right boxes.
ML is abandoned as a Child due to a mix up at an affluent IVF facility, it's his story that involves the FL who was also abandoned as a child. They find each other, then after what looks like a happy relationship, one ends it.
Due to their childhood trauma and how it has shaped them. One wants to be a parent and love unconditionally the other has different feelings about parenthood.
The ML runs a lucrative business that runs errands where dabbles in adrenaline moments, until is crosses gangster territory. Both receive detrimental health news and the journey begins....
The series flip flops for both main characters on their past plus FL need in finding her mother.
This drama ticks all emotions. As a parent, I had a hard time how one can abandon a child. That said, I loved this story. There were times I asked 'Why' 'how' in some scenes & sequency but I loved it still.
Had me in tears of sadness & laughter.
The 2ML relationship with FL was also sad and shows how we love at different levels and what may border dependency and dangers with paranoia.
2ML relationship with his mother their dynamics also was traumatic for him due to family tradition & controlling nature.
I loved 2FL she was protective & loved ML in her way & vice versa their relationship was ambiguous and layered.
It shows us how humans behave when faced with death.
One thing.. K dramas love a scene with Rain. I'm in UK & I thought we got a lot of rain 😁
There was no passion. FL had drank a lot & thought processing seriously delayed.
Looked torn in should I tell ML what went down to burying head in sand about it.
Equates to drama to come..
Think the ML&FL are very much a demiromantic partnership that has lost it's way, I mean this on how it's not romantic from viewers pov or is this part of their dynamic?
We don't know why ML (as it may come across) so in love with the FL or just a protective kinship. I'm curious on how MLFL when their bond became romantic into lovers. Their romantic relationship started when 26. Until then they were best friends with one obviously holding the 'in Love with torch'.. Which one I'm not sure as they both flip flop on their emotions & care for each other.
Surely they had relationships with otherd prior to getting together. I feel their back story is lacking.
Maybe this is highlighted as episode go forward & director has us just as they intended with actors doing exactly that....
Its frustrating 😂 one episode a week, I thought at least give us 2 which included the missed one... I tell myself put it on hold then binge watch but I also look at the episode drops and just hit play, because I need to know 🤣🤣🤣
I haven't shouted 'Omg what are you both doing' at tv so animated .. Since watching 'Because this is my first life'.... Early Spring got some sighs and Ohh for the love of cake sung... But this has me having conversation with a 65" plastic light box 🤦🏽♀️💗
FL was drawn to ML to start, she felt safe, she wouldn't of kissed him at the bus stop as was so out of character for her meanwhile her friend been in a 7 year relationship with who also her best friend & never realised they were on different page regards to marriage ...
It's quirky mature neocortex drama.. where ML is neurodivergent.