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That was at least a place I laughed for the first time in ages!!

I was like he has on a suit jacket where did that come from and they are in a different restaurant and I kept thinking no, I had to be wrong so I rolled it back and yes, they weren’t in Kansas anymore. Crazy!!

Marked spoiler just for length.

As a pro-JA area I may get kicked out. I’ve had a feeling about something for a while now and I just cannot get rid of it especially now that JA has told SW and SJ about their brother and sister. The biggest mystery to me right now is where did SW come from if it was 30 years since she had seen her oldest kids. So we are confused about age but if he is 34 and EH is 35 was she pregnant with DG’s child when she left him? We know Kdrama isn’t going to deal with an incest relationship, thank God.

If you’ve never watched a kdrama with me I have a tendency to try to figure out where the writer’s are going with the storyline and post it so if you don’t want to read my craziness stop now! Just to let you know I have a 0% track record but it’s fun anyway. As I said I don’t think JA is as innocent in the situation as she is pretending/acting. Sometimes the person who is actually guilty is the one who cannot let a situation go and keeps bringing it up ad nauseam to cover their own guilt.

Agatha Christie said “conversations are always dangerous, if you have something to hide.” Why still after 30 years does JA still not want to have a simple conversation about what they call a misunderstanding (I even agree that is a stupid excuse and don’t believe it)? She doesn’t have to believe it but let them say their peace. Is she afraid to find out that she was the only one cheating in the relationship? With who you ask? I think she was having an affair with JS’s boyfriend/fiancée who I think is her husband’s brother. I think she was pregnant with or just had SW when she took the only picture she had of EA and EH. She wasn’t leaving the country nor was DG so why was that the last time she was going to be able to see them until she was able to get back on her feet? This is a red flag to me. I don’t care how financially strapped I am, my kids would be with me. If they couldn’t be with me full time then I would be seeing them every time I could. I hate to tell her her daughter felt abandoned long before DG moved them to the Philippines and there was no reason she wasn’t seeing them unless she was hiding something like a pregnancy or a new baby. Maybe she tells everyone SW is 32 so no one ever questions if he is DG’s son and she doesn’t have to admit she was the one cheating. The reason why she is so cold toward SW is because he is the product of an affair that she feels guilty about but as long as she can hold her anger by thinking DG was as guilty as she was with CY, whom she despises, she can live with her lies.

This also explains why she had her husband pay for JS a cushy life that she doesn’t have to work and she can keep JS under her thumb and minimize any chance she might run in to her ex. She feeds her daily and basically other than sleeping in her apartment JS might as well have a room in their house.

If SW is 32 it could be that JS’s ex came into town and hooked up with his ex lover JA for a few nights and she got pregnant then. Maybe that is why her husband married her? Also wonder if same thing happened again and SJ is a product of that time. Her husband loves her so he accepts her children by another man. I honestly think he never really looked for her kids that hard the last 30th years because he already was and has raised 2 of her kids she had with his brother. This explains why he is so hateful and cold to both SW and SJ. Now she wants to bring in kids to his home by yet another man. The looks on his face and the things he is saying are screaming he doesn’t want EA moving in.

JA’s reaction to hearing the truth or a lie after 30 years just feels wrong and as I said usually the person in the wrong is the person who is the loudest trying to keep what they have done from ever coming to light.

I’m sorry to all you JA mom only fans but these are just thoughts that have bounced around the rocks in my head from early on. If it makes you feel better I’m not a fan of CY either but I think she deserves credit for raising two kids a birth mom can be proud of.

As I said 0% track record but it’s getting to the point I have to speculate because the episodes get more stupid daily. ☺️

I haven’t watched that but let me tell you about the SML who actually ended up the ML’s redemption arc in AOME. He and the FL (his fiancée) broke up. She gave him a marble chess set as a gift but can’t remember the reason. She told him he had major issues with his dad that he needed to fix before finding another girl. He takes the chess game in and asks his dad if he wants to play a game of chess, his dad said yes, then they played a second game. The next morning the evil Dong men who had planned to take over the company by marrying little Dong to the granddaughter of the chairman were like warm puppies and never evil again.🤮

I feel like JA is hiding secrets of her own that she definitely doesn’t want to come out to DG and CY so I kind of feel the same way about her.

Me either.

Is the CEO setting ES up for HY since he still favors HY for SW even knowing she is crazy?

I’m still waiting to laugh. 🙄

I’ve known several girls through my life who’ve had worse home lives than HY (like the girl in my 7th grade class pregnant with her stepdad’s baby and her mom waiting for him to get out of prison so they could continue their married life) that all have done well in their lives and aren’t evil stalkers because of their “daddy” issues. But I know we have to add the dramatic delusional crazy person who will overnight turn into a heavenly angel with no one remembering when they were evil.

I’m the same way but I would also be willing to listen to my dad and step-mother about their side of the cheating story. We all know there is his side and her side and somewhere in the middle of those two stories is probably the truth. But to only listen to the bitter birth mother is not fair to EA but as she seems to be more and more like her birth mother attitude wise I guess only hearing her story is all that matters. I’m just waiting for move in day when she sees she will be living with JS. 😂😂😂😂

Honestly you would think these “kids” are still however old they were 30 years ago not almost middle aged adults the way these two women fight over and try to make decisions for them.

I’m right there with you. I don’t want her redeemed I want her off the show period.

Personally I think EA inherited JA’s not wanting to listen, selfishness and it’s all about me attitude, where EH inherited her hatred of carrots and his dad’s gentle nature.

Why can’t everyone sit down and listen instead of just assuming whatever they want to. JA invited EA to move in their house with out consulting anyone especially her two other children she treats like inconvenient visitors. I don’t think her husband was thrilled since she basically promised to keep EA out of his way. And it should be good times when EA and SJ realize they are sisters.

That seems to be the “in” thing with most dramas anymore to switch the SML and SFL into the ML and FL. You would think the more popular actors would get tired of it and never take a lead in a drama again then maybe the writers will stick to the original story lines.

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If she refused to give him a way to contact her then I guess I’m not sure how he was supposed to do it. Or maybe I missed the fact that he had a way to contact her. I assumed (and we all know what that does) DG was told to contact JS by JA so she didn’t have to see him or talk to him except when she wanted to make arrangements to see the children.

I told Sher when JA started pressure to meet the kids the 4 parents should sit down and hash out all the issues so there would be no he said/she said when the parents and kids met together. But that must have been to logical for the writers.

I am with Roo if my sister tells you something I said I would expect you to believe her and not bother me. No, it didn’t come out in the episode. I said in one of my posts if my ex sister in law told me that I would believe it because the woman just divorced me so why wouldn’t I believe it but I guess I must be as stupid as DG. Plus as he kept leaving his contact info with SJ I would assume he had no way to contact her.

I get that but she hasn’t said anything about it to either of her kids who right now should be getting the full story from both sides. To me she abandoned those kids the moment she chose to leave the house without them and see them when it was convenient to her not when JS lied and he decided to leave the country.

I was hard hearted again because I didn’t feel a thing except annoyance that JA can’t admit that her sister meddled where she shouldn’t have and gave DG the wrong idea. Every time I say that I get well he should have went to see JA himself but she was in the hospital and I assume he had no way to contact her since he left his contact information with someone who he thought he could trust and if she says she never wants to speak to you again I would have believed it too since she divorced me. Guess I must be as stupid as he is.