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Did he spend the night or just show up earlier than JA that morning but it did look suspicious.

Seems we get farther and farther away from the main couple and it’s mostly about the cafe family right now (surprised since HY is a part of that family?) and now looks like we get a romance brewing between a single dad and a manipulating 28 year old child. We are just beginning to build up to the fight between seems like the mom’s only over the 2 30 year old kids that they talk about as if they are preschoolers. Honestly getting a little tired of the fighting already. They wont get past this quickly because JA won’t accept ES because she is CY’s child for her son. I’m just tired of feeling aggravated at the end of each episode.

Looks like all the MG/SJ shippers will be happy tomorrow. I guess knew it was heading this way since it’s been almost 2 weeks since we’ve even seen EA anywhere near MG or GR (or more to the point SJ let EA near MG) but I was still holding out hope he would pick the one that’s already grown up mentally but looks like the writers like MG with the adult child. Poor GR he’s more mature than the 2 put together.

I think HY wants her cake and eat it too.

There are a couple of secondary couples but as other reply said it is SFL chasing after ML constantly right now and the 3rd guy I assume will be in a secondary couple is kind of oblivious right now.

I’ve decided I’m not going to comment on the parental struggles and fights anymore. We all have our own opinions and none are wrong but sometimes responses when read seem to be a lot harsher than I’m sure they are meant to be and I include my responses in that.

I have seen raw this morning. Why does HY always find a reason to meet up with EH and why EH continues to listen to her go on about not giving up on SW and doesn’t get up and walk out is beyond me. Like yesterday when she basically said she would never give up on SW because he is the only one that can make her life happy. I am sure he shared his mother news with her and you know that when she finds out that ES and EH are brother and sister she will say that ES is SW’s sister and try to cause trouble that way because she is so desperate.

People have been talking about how bad a job DG and CY did talking to their 2 30+ year old kids about their birth mother but had they taken 24 hours and got over the shock and the surprise I think the conversation would have been easier and better prepared for.

I wasn’t going put my 2 cents worth about this because I don’t like to stir up bad feeling on here over a tv show especially when I see people calling other people names instead of having adult conversations. I’m a hippie I guess because I like love and peace.

I don’t have children so I cannot put myself in the
place of the mother who lost her children because of nothing she nor the two people that raised them did. I can imagine the heartache she has felt for 30 years. But I put myself in the shoes of the person that I am assuming most people on here don’t feel deserves the title of mother to those adult children she raised for 30 years. Again she and DG didn’t steal them away in the night. DG left money and a phone number he could always be reached. Did he know that SJ would steal the money and destroy the note? So when CY got to the Philippines she should have just left him trying to raise 2 kids and work when he was already divorced? It was okay for JA to remarry but not DG? I guess he should have let the kids grow up in the streets or married someone he really didn’t know and the kids abused instead of remarrying someone that loved
him and his kids.

If you’ve read many of my posts you know I was the one that gave CY the nickname the chicken fryer because I though she was a low class woman who
treated her stepchildren better than her own daughter and she had a vicious temper. I hated her attitude and screaming all the time. And I’m still not a huge fan but I think credit should be given if credit is due. To the 30+ year old adults CY is the only mother they remembered that stayed with them and didn’t disappear. There is enough blame to be placed on DG and CY for whatever misunderstanding that led JA to divorce DG without allowing him to explain. To me, that says she was tired of that marriage and finding them together gave her a perfect reason to divorce so therefore she asked no questions. Who set up JA finding DG and CU together that day? Was it JS again? DG had absolutely no plans to keep her kids. He was going to keep them until she got on her feet and then she would have full custody. JA got ran over by her future husband and put in the hospital for who knows how long but sounds like a pretty long time. Then her sister ruined her own sister’s life while she was unable to do anything herself. But obviously JA remarried the guy who ran over her who I think gave her lip service about looking for her kids. He today still doesn’t look happy she has found them. So I think he takes some of the blame for the 30 years himself.

Now to get back to my putting myself in CY shoes. This woman has been the only mom these 2 adult children know for 30 years. I imagine she is feeling right now about how JA felt when she couldn’t find them 30 years ago. Scared because she is afraid she is going to lose the bond she has with her 2 kids (and yes, I’m sorry, I believe they
are her kids). I have a girl I used to work with and she was just a young girl with 2 babies and I loved that girl like she was my own from almost the time I met her and she calls me mom. If someone came to me and said I couldn’t see Steph anymore because I wasn’t her real mom it would literally tear my heart out of my body.

The more contempt JA shows to the woman they consider their mother will only make it that much harder for them to accept her above the woman they already consider mom.

I’m shutting up. I’ve rambled on now until I’m making no sense because I’m tired.

At 37 had my mom and dad demanded I sit down and listen I would have continued to walk. Just saying. She’s an adult.

I still don’t know, other than DG marrying the woman she feels is the reason her father is dead, what she has to be angry at DG for at this point. You could see the fight leave her body with every word DG said about his conversations with her sister. She already was hurt by his infidelity to the point she divorced him without allowing him to explain the whole situation to her, but as a betrayed wife that was her right and as he went along with whatever she wanted he obviously felt guilty and sorry for what he had done to her.

But in my over thinking mind, I think if her current husband hadn’t run over her with his van and put her in the hospital to where she went a long time without being able to see her kids or even have someone get in touch with DG and explain what was going on then this wouldn’t have happened either. So in reality the new husband threw the first blow by putting JA out of commission and then the sister threw the knock out punch by telling DG JA was getting remarried and didn’t ever want to see her kids again since she was starting a new
life.

The only true blow DG has thrown her was marrying the woman she hated. But he was free to marry whomever he pleased just as JA was. My only issue with DG and the chicken fryer is the fact that imo they should have shown the kids pictures and kept their birth mother’s memory alive no matter what so they knew who she was.

Subs are finally up if you got tired of checking.

Still waiting.

If today hadn’t been an exciting show that I wasn’t excited to see the subs they would already be available but when it’s exciting it seems like they hold them to make me crazy! 🤔

Wow. I really thought they’d drag out the sister’s part in the disappearance but guess not.

I’ve known women who have extremely sad daddy stories that don’t act like HY does about hers.

I don’t trust teasers!! 🙄

They fight like real sisters but I tend to agree with you on that.

To me that scene was equally disturbing. We all know they have a mutual dislike or jealousy of each other but as soon as they walked into the cafe it should have been left at the door. But let’s be honest those aprons are cute for a kid or teenager but on an adult worker in a cafe catering to adults they are immature and childish. Both words that describe SJ. And SJ is just like EA in the fact that she doesn’t want anyone to criticize her but feels it’s her right to criticize others….let’s face it she was fast to put down ES in episode 52 about her beauty. Both EA and SJ are equally hateful to each other.

But had I been a paying costumer and walked in on a cafe employee talking to someone like that no matter who it was I more than likely would turn around, leave, and not go back. But in the real world SJ wouldn’t have lasted past the first time she ordered something without following purchase procedures.

This is @Sher1964’s and my first disagreement on a
character!! It’s been kind of fun to have opposing viewpoints and discuss them in a good friend manner. But let’s not do it often! ☺️❤️

I figured it was the translation but it was interesting. 😂

She has an accent for sure. My cousin is married to a Swede and that sounded like his accent to me.