Growing Apart or Growing Together?
I'm the type of person that believes less and less in love, and even less in long-term love. Maybe that’s why I’m so drawn to romance in fiction, especially in BL. There’s something comforting about watching love play out on screen, even when real life makes it feel uncertain. One thing I strongly believe in, though, is communication. In friendships, family relationships, and romantic partnerships, communication is essential. Without it, people fill in the blanks themselves. Assumptions turn into overthinking, and overthinking often turns into conflict. This short series highlights that dynamic very clearly. I found the story both realistic and unrealistic at times. I agree with a review I saw that if a couple has been together for seven years, you would expect them to have stronger communication skills by now. That’s a fair point. At the same time, being in a relationship doesn’t mean you automatically know how to handle every challenge. Growing together is an ongoing process. Sometimes couples only recognize their communication issues when they reach a breaking point, and maybe that’s what happened here.
Age and timing also matter. If they started dating at 18 or 20 and are now 25 or 27, that represents significant personal growth. The difference in mindset between 18 and 25 is substantial same with 20 and 27. As individuals, we constantly change, emotionally, mentally, even physically. In a long-term relationship, two people have to continually adjust to those changes and learn how to move forward together. That’s where many relationships struggle. It takes two people willing to work through moments that feel like the end in order to build something lasting. Many couples choose to walk away instead. Some avoid long-term commitment afterward, while others fall into cycles of on-and-off relationships, never fully satisfied.
Sustaining a relationship requires effort, patience, and mutual commitment.
Relationships are difficult in general. But if both people are willing to put in the work, and there’s no toxicity or clear deal-breakers, that’s often the healthiest situation you can ask for. Feeling bored at times or questioning the relationship doesn’t automatically mean it’s wrong. Sometimes boredom is just comfort. However, comfort shouldn’t turn into neglect. It’s important to communicate openly and find ways to reconnect, especially when adult responsibilities start taking priority over romance.
I think this series portrayed that aspect well. I just wish we had seen more of their happiness alongside their struggles. The kiss scenes also felt too short, and unfortunately we have to pay for them, but that’s a minor complaint.
Overall, it was a decent watch. Nothing groundbreaking, but it offered a realistic look at a couple trying to rediscover their spark. Personally, I tend to prefer slow-burn stories where we watch two people fall in love from the beginning, rather than stories that start with an established relationship facing problems. Still, I respect the bold choice to focus on what happens after the honeymoon phase.
My overall rating: 7.5/10
Age and timing also matter. If they started dating at 18 or 20 and are now 25 or 27, that represents significant personal growth. The difference in mindset between 18 and 25 is substantial same with 20 and 27. As individuals, we constantly change, emotionally, mentally, even physically. In a long-term relationship, two people have to continually adjust to those changes and learn how to move forward together. That’s where many relationships struggle. It takes two people willing to work through moments that feel like the end in order to build something lasting. Many couples choose to walk away instead. Some avoid long-term commitment afterward, while others fall into cycles of on-and-off relationships, never fully satisfied.
Sustaining a relationship requires effort, patience, and mutual commitment.
Relationships are difficult in general. But if both people are willing to put in the work, and there’s no toxicity or clear deal-breakers, that’s often the healthiest situation you can ask for. Feeling bored at times or questioning the relationship doesn’t automatically mean it’s wrong. Sometimes boredom is just comfort. However, comfort shouldn’t turn into neglect. It’s important to communicate openly and find ways to reconnect, especially when adult responsibilities start taking priority over romance.
I think this series portrayed that aspect well. I just wish we had seen more of their happiness alongside their struggles. The kiss scenes also felt too short, and unfortunately we have to pay for them, but that’s a minor complaint.
Overall, it was a decent watch. Nothing groundbreaking, but it offered a realistic look at a couple trying to rediscover their spark. Personally, I tend to prefer slow-burn stories where we watch two people fall in love from the beginning, rather than stories that start with an established relationship facing problems. Still, I respect the bold choice to focus on what happens after the honeymoon phase.
My overall rating: 7.5/10
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