Generally, if you rest, you let the dishes pile up and you don't clean it. Ha Ra saying 'Let's do it later' is…
I get you but didn't you see Haras reaction to finding out the real reason? She had no clue that he was feeling this way. She just thought she has a good husband. Turns out he kept it all bottled up inside to finally lie about cheating to get off the marriage. And she blamed herself as she didn't know the real reason. She even thought it was because she couldn't get pregnant. But it is he who didn't tell her what's been bothering him and every time he just does things for her it triggers his traumas even more. But she didn't even know about his traumas so how would she even know that it was causing him so much trouble?
You are guessing that she really meant it when she said she ate too full, so she wants to take shower and they…
This is not based on real life. Just look at the way they fight their cases. It's the most ridiculous thing ever. And also every person is different. Just because you're Asian does not mean that you will do what every other Asian does. Also yes she shouldn't just leave the dirty dishes but at the same time, he shouldn't be doing it for her every time. Once or twice is okay but if he is just doing it for her and expecting her to do it the way he does it then that's dumb. She will do something when she feels right just as he does things right away because that feels right to him. Or he should've acted like the grown man that he is and told her his issue. This is what I mean by them having different personalities and ways of doing/handling things. He didn't let her know about his feelings and she just thought she has a loving husband without second thoughts. But turns out he was keeping it all in to lie about cheating so he doesn't have to do her chores for her which he was doing willingly in the first place. And she was thinking about what could have been the reason for his cheating, to finally thinking not having a baby was the main reason. Also, society always blames women for there not being a baby, and since you wanna bring being Asian to the table then think of Asian society, who do you think they blame more, man or woman? Its the woman and even though she is a lawyer/attorney herself she still can't help but blame herself all these years because he didn't give her a real reason in the first place but now she finds out its because she was being "demanding" towards him, and once again she is too be blamed for their bad relationship, not him who wasn't courageous enough to bring the real subject to the plate.
I know many are angry about her ignoring or not considering his feelings during their marriage and always being "demanding" and so am I but let's be real here, from what I got so far she doesn't know anything about his traumas or bad past, even though they were in a relationship for 10+ years before marriage. He did not reveal anything to her. Instead, he fulfilled all her "demands" without opinionating. He is a grown man, and lawyer/attorney, he is not dumb, he should have told her about his past or just his opinions in general but he didn't and is now "playing" the victim for being too considerate for his "over-demanding" wife. Another thing I want to note is that she is the type to do things at once after resting e.g washing dishes after showering, she even told him they can do it together after but he thought I might as well just do it myself and that's not her fault. They are opposites and have different opinions - he was being too considerate towards her, making her simply not have to think once.
So according to ep 72 preview he doesn't want to be with BR anymore because she "likes" TP and he is their enemy's son. But he holds BDs hands instead because that's fine?? Like what a hypocrite! BD is literally his enemy's daughter and he hated her all this time but now to take "revenge" on BR for "liking" TP he becomes this petty to join hands and possibly have a relationship with BD. Like he really lost his mind after finding out about the pen audio. But this means BR will be sad and TP will be there for her and BR and TP will get close!!!
Also, happy he will finally leave BR alone and stop being rude to TP. I hope the next time SD screams at TP, BR will directly take TPs side and tell SD to F off!
HYand the mum aren't actual mother and daughter. HY's mum left her at her grandmas door step and never returned. The aunt allowed HY to call her mum. And we know nothing about the dad. the friend of mum lied about him going Philippines for work so mum doesn't have to hear bs about her being a single mum or the truth about HY. And the math tutor is just math tutor.
The way he is behaving seems like he didn't actually cheat on her but there was a reason for it. Also, he still has feelings for her. But let's be real what reason can be sooo important to lie and become adulterous even though you still love your partner? Whether there was an actual reason to lie or not I don't want them to get back together because, at the end of the day, he didn't give importance to their relationship.
Also, happy he will finally leave BR alone and stop being rude to TP. I hope the next time SD screams at TP, BR will directly take TPs side and tell SD to F off!