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I concern. Well said. I see them compare her to those M. L. WHO are soo much worse with no real self reflection.

Also saying she's a player....

She only dated JW after her break up.

I see many ppl critizing/recognizing her behaviors....

They also know that ppl are not stuck and can grow....

The characters learn from it. Although they didn't flesh it out even more.... It was addressed... Disscused and talk about it

Ppl are never perfect and will continue to do mistake.... It will either bring growth or not.... It depends on the person and what they are willing to do.

EO recognized that and seek that growth. She was able to truly be open and honest.... She told him. She still is a big mess... A coward.... Ect

He is willing to learn who she really is and just date.

He ask her what should they do now they are dating..... She wanted him. To call her Name.... Her name of EO.... They timid.... Mess... Coward who is trying to o be better.

I will still have the same reaction regardless of the actors

Bridgerton has same issues.

They don't communicate and they FL forced her ideals on him

She did apologize. Not in a way ppl wanted.... She told him. She was sorry and agree she was a horrible person....

He asked.... But then brush it off. They never had any real discussion.

He didn't know or understand...

KG even said she is happy and content..... He assume she was miserable because she was fired.

They never discussed... Talk or fight.... He is complicent

What is consider properly?

She apologized. She agree she is horrible and rather be the B.

At the end he accepts all of that and want to learn from that.

She is better in communications....

She told him... I'm. Still a mess and a coward... Ect....

They know each other at their worse and she seek to improve that. They have a better understanding and fundamental communications because of what they went through.... They also learnt from it. Both was open and honest

Many couple like RI... Don't know each other or at their worse.... Fighting and arguing... Serves a purpose...

There is no perfect ideal way.... That don't exists. We also can't put our ideals of how we want this and that on other ppl

If it exist in your world.... More power to you

I disagree.

The problem is real functional communications.

There are many ppl who are married and lived a secret life. A gay married to a women and she never knew.... Ect.

RI Assumes he is OK with everything because he is complicent to whatever she wants. He mentioned some things but never expressed his true feeling.

Ri- he's knows I don't want to get marry...

Does he? Or he felt she doesn't want to get married right now.

I experienced something similar. Whatever we discussed he just agreed with me. My ex just went with whatever I wanted and never expressed his true wants and needs..(honey moon stage) .. At one point we broke up at least 1x every 3 months. I reacted with my emotions.... No real rationale thoughts.

We had a roller coaster long relationship. Like a cigarette. We were 2 very different people... In wants... need.. Growth.

But I learn and grew a lot from it and know better... And is more experienced

Their main issues for all of them is functional communications.

GJ never discuss things with her and always let her have her way. They never talk about their wants of needs for the future. She assumes he agree because he always complacent.

KG isn't very vocal about it either..... He is like whatever. With SY he is not expressive....or seem to care to dig in.

My ex would shut down when I try to discuss things, it is soo infuriating. He don't say a word.... Don't ask questions. He usually just is whatever and agree with Me.... Which does turn into resentment and is overwhelming.

I feel they will listen. When they do the candle lighting it is when they have a serious issues to talk about. Each one of them uses it when they are ready to discuss it.

Many complained about the toxic or unhealthy relationships.

This series is talking about... It addressing it and not just brushing things aside. There was many clues...comments. The past 2 ep was hashing it out... Every complaint ppl had the characters said it in the drama. Lol.... She said she is selfish and mean...... He said he is pathetic... Ect... They are not excusing and hiding it.

So I commend them

We'll see what they do on ep 16....there is also 17.... We'll see... If they want HEA... They need season 2 or do atime jump? EO need to truly find and love herself. JW need to learn to be less OCD and have more patiences...build better coping techniques


Many drama and series don't address this... They cont. Push and pull and then hea

I read. HE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. It goes for guys and girls (both perspectives). It seem many girls rationale red flags they see and linger like JW. It was a funny great read.

I applaud it.... Many relationships is toxic.... Many of us don't see or recognize it.... Rationale it... These relationships can teach us soo much...

These experiences that teaches us soo much. Many will watch this and will relate because they been through it.... Is going through it... Or can be going through this in the future. It is not rainbow and sunshine.

Many times it is a moment of happiness and to be able to just have and cherish that.... Not needing or wanting to "own" it forever.

Hey.... Look at those divorce rates.... Bank for divorce lawyers

Brokeback Mt. - I can't quit you

For now they are addressing it.... Each person's issues... Trauma.... Some ppl are recognizing it.... Addressing.... Some aren't.....

There is no time line for this... Self discovery...some don't make it there and is stucked... Many do... At their own pace

Is face to face ideal.... Sure for some.. I rather have honest words in some form. Face to face isn't ideal for everyone.

What works for some doesn't work for many.... Pushing our ideals and thoughts of how you. Would or should do it...... Isn't realistic. They are not living by your standards and ideals.

I like the friend scenes.... No pressure...

Call me out on my BS. But don't beat me with it.

I can't imagine having A friend constantly criticism & judging me.... Jeez thanks... I already hate myself... Thanks for making me hate myself even more.

Many friends tell me things they don't tell others..... Because I just listen.... Give statements here and there. But it on them and time. As in how much time they need to reset themselves.

So far they are showing that.... EO had some catalyst to somewhat face her issues. Her issues is herself. She talked it out with JW. She like work on herself. Can't love another right if you can't love yourself.

Everyone recovery time is different. There is no handbook of when someone get over things...

Crisis prevention intervention tells us never tell an esculated individual to calm down. That is the worse you can do..... Calm down triggers them to esculation.....

https://www.crisisprevention.com/Blog/CPI-s-Top-10-De-Escalation-Tips-Revisited

**Allow Time for Decisions
When a person is upset, they may not be able to think clearly. Give them a few moments to think through what you’ve said. A person’s stress rises when they feel rushed. Allowing time brings calm.

***Focus on Feelings
Facts are important, but how a person feels is the heart of the matter. Yet some people have trouble identifying how they feel about what’s happening to them. Watch and listen carefully for the person’s real message. Try saying something like “That must be scary.” Supportive words like these will let the person know that you understand what’s happening—and you may get a positive response.


Lol I see a lot of.... I don't get it.... Get over it already.... You Have no self respect.... Ect..... It like yup.... That is exactly what ppl want to hear.(I get this is a series but there are ppl like this in real life.) I hope you. Don't encounter a friend in need like this in real life.

All of the. Character has some growth. EO has been trying for much longer than him. Made all these bad choices.... Ect..... Internally struggling... Fighting with herself... Yelling at her own reflection full of hatred.

JW is ocd.

.I hope JW have some growth in ep 16 as well. For him. To accept her words and actions. She showed him she can't deaand handle it. look at cousin.... He plays along but don't fully communicate and get it.

RYU understood her more and knew that is where she is at and is happy doing PT... Wandering and not committing to a FT job

I meant for series and dramas. They just push... Pull... Repeat the same fights....

Esp. Friend zone. No1 is single or ever single long.

I know a few ppl like that in RL who just can't be alone(single).

I get it.... I been there... Repeated the same shit.... Emotions is a Bitch

*for love yourself * F. L. Y.

After my break up. I bought a book. Love yourself like your life depends on it.

Also to be selfish of my wants... Needs... And mental state.

Love is many different things for different ppl. Everyone has different way of showing it.

Nothing wrong with selfish love... To love oneself more. You. Have to live with yourself and you. Can't escape

Her actions has been consistent.

She avoid him. With actions and words.

He wanted any type of anything to linger.

She also told him... He don't know her.... That after yang yang they wouldn't have worked OK.

Ppl have momento from relationships. It was a good memory to her.

She said in earlier ep... 2 months is enough for me.it was good memories with no worries... Responsible and Carpe diem for her.

JW was also much more carefree on his vacation.

All these ppl have trouble communicating with each other... Assuming... Being complacent... Not using better words and questions for better functional communications...

Heck. We still have that issues at the work place. There is always miscommunications. Hahaha.... I always have to confirm this is what they meant and be caution not to offend anyone.

Even with family... Friends.. S.O..... It is hard to fully express ourselves.

When I was younger I had issues with a friend who became my brother gf. She went cray cray for loveand I didn't know or like her anymore. I didn't comphrend. A friend suggested I write a letter to her. It helped a little.

This series is about the other side of Love.

I'm. Grateful for all bad relationships... (good too but bad taught me more)

One taught me love
One taught me patient
One taught me pain

Thank you nxt Ariana GRANDE

Nothing wrong with that....work on one self first....

I watched a Thai series.... Friends zone.... And I'm. Like WTH... Ppl can't be alone or something hahaha ha.... They don't show ppl (main lead) being singles and dating themselves....

They have have certain flaws and behaviors that can be improved

Loved enoug on Netflix

I feel ppl should Date themselves..... First love yourself

There is no time limit of when ppl get over things.

You. Don't have to get. It.... But it happens quiet often.

I knew a guy who was in love with my friend for 10. He waited & didn't give. Up. They r happily married now.

Yes. They. Didn't disappoint about the characters growth &working on yourself.

That is why I said... I'll. Wait to see how it pans out....

Healing & elf growth & discovery has no time limit... It's when the person is ready. Well done... I hope... They cont.... To show her loving & accepting herself... JW also reset... Learn to let things go and less OCD


Many ppl don't understand.. Never experience.
Has different mental state....

Which is fine but to disregard their journey and feeling because you Don't understand and relate... Criticism /judgmental..... That lack of emphaty.... Is off putting to me

There is plenty of times In drama and real life where I don't understand or relate. But I'm. Not beating them down with my judgements.

I. E. Why are you not over it already? You Should be over it already? So on....

EO has great friends who are not beating her when she is already down. They let them talk when they are ready... They also don't pressure her.

JW in YY is different than the city and vice versa.

Again I hope they continue each character for self discovery and growth.

Again there is no time limit for getting over things or having growth. Some ppl never achieve it esp. Without help. Some do it on their own... Some need.... A push.... A catalyst.

Ppl don't heal or have growth according to other ppl time line.

I waited a student out in the hallway for 3 hrs... Outside in the winter for over 1 hours. Of course we used techniques or tried talk to them to help.... But sometimes they don't need words.... They need Time

Great music is made from our experiences... Esp bad ones... (Taylor swift.. Ed sheeran... Ect)

Hope we get to see this soon

I also don't watch reality show..... It's too dramatic for me hahaha.... But one time.... There was a marathon of jersey shore and I got sucked into the train wreck. There was nothing good on apparently. Hahaha.... But most ppl I know like to watch it so I see it in passing.

Yes the FL in psycho has tough moments.... Her Armour. But I wish they address consequences for her actions.... They always made it positive.... But her actions isn't always so. I love those books. Her books make sense for her trauma. Like her manager said. Those book is an out let of her traumas.

Working in this field help me learn soo much... Because I didn't understand and emphasize. I was actually a B a few times because I didn't get it.

I am ashamed about how I acted. I was soo annoyed and frustrated by that person. I said to them, "why don't you. Know how to do this?! What is wrong with you." and so on. I was so mean. My bf at the time called me out on it. I was ignorant of people on the spectrum and Mental health. I later seek to better understand and improve. Many times I didn't think I can do it. But the people challenged me and taught me better patiences, understanding and better emphaty. I honestly feel they teach me more that I teach them. Kind of like the F. L IN PYSCHO. She had moments where her actions is a teaching moments.... She gave them opportunities to let it out.... Let it go... And fully express their frustration, thoughts, feelings and rage....

I talked to my client's mom. Who had trauma as a kid. She is seeing a therapist and is on med. I see her with her mother and she shrinks. She said she deals with it better and now it is better to have peace. she agree that releasing the rage in a rage room would help.... But she would never say it to her mother's face.

I'm also not willing to spend on various streaming. It's B. S. The Netflix isn't mine. Lately they been having more Asian dramas.

Amazon has a good amount.

I do enjoy historical.

Nirvana in fire.... Was amazing to me. It was like a chess game. All the characters were smart. I barely ffw.

I don't have a good attention span.

I like the 4 seasons... Although winter is a bit long.... Hahaha...