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I find they have lots of funny quotes....

All of them burning each other

But ppl are stuck at what happened.... The characters are currently stuck

Yes. It was an enjoyable read. It was pretty funny read

He's Just Not That Into You
Book by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

It had a male and female perspective... It was pretty funny

Talks about how we rationale things and make excuses about ppl behaviors.... To recognize certain behaviors and accept it as is....

Preview

EO drunken txt

Bastard. How can you. Say harsh things to me.... I'm. Crazily looking for me....(along that line.. .. Some mistranalation give or take)


So I hope the writer shows more of that. Her looking for herself... Healing and self love.
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I hope they do have a real talk and both reset alone on their own

KG wrote in his novel

"if they were meant to reunite, they have to go their separate ways..... It is inevitable to separate."

We will also see all the characters in a drunken state to cope

I admire BTS kpop..... They are soo open about their constant mental health struggles.... They pen it down and help their fans relate/heal.... They also are constantly learning to love themselves/heal (doesn't matter they have millions of adoring fans)

Epiphany " I'm The only I should love.... In this world"

That hit my soul.... I had struggled and I am still learning

Love oneself is hard.

I recommend the book " love yourself like your. Life depends on it" kamal

I had some EO moments and that book helped me build growth.... Add to my healing.... I was depressed for awhile. But just dealt with it.. I talked to no one.... But since I'm. A psychology major.... I seeked my own healing

She said when she plays Sunah. She is playing EO acting as Sunah.... So it makes sense she is "acting".... Over acting while pretending.

When I worked as a server.... I pretend/act. Like. An out going person... I'm. Not.... A show

But she isn't trying any thibf. She isn't pushing for more and clearly rejects him. Again.

I support everyone to learn to self heal/love

He is the one still hung up.

SY is no diff. 4 years after the break up. She is still not over it and stalks his IG... Beats up ppl.

Everyone copes in their own time.

All the characters has crazy moments... Unreasonable.... Many ppl can relate to this.

I have close friends too... Like EO I like to keep my personal matters to myself. I also don't pry into my friends business. If they want to tell me... They will in their own time... I will be there as a support regardless.... Someone who sits there to laugh... Cry.... Rage.... Ect.... If the want to talk... Talk... If no... All good

I find it hilarious that some ppl tell JW needs to get over that relationship from 1 year ago & he have no self respect....

While they praise/admire SY.... Who hasn't gotten over a relationship from 4 years... ago... Get drunk... And beat up ppl.... She never fully communicated w/kg and only gave him an ultimatum. She tell the girls they shouldn't fight over a guy (neither girls wants him)

SY is ideal soo cooler than. The. Rest... Lol.... She is as flawed as the rest of them and there's nothing wrong with that

I find all of them just human.... Different coping sills... Mental health ect....

..I'm. Just stating a hypocrisy / bias

I emphasize..... Don't always agree with their choices.... But they are not STUCK there....I hope the writer understands to show healing.... Self love... Growth

I don't dislike any of the characters.

In. Relationships, sometimes there isn't a clear closures. I have told many people before that. I wasn't feeling it. No elaborate reasons.... Beside I wasn't feeling it... They can think why all they want... I had none.... It is on them.. Ppl have told me before by their actions of ghosting that they didn't feel it....I have a pretty strong mentality. I was not curious why. I have great coping skills and was whatever and move on...


An interesting book I read. He's just not that into you. I feel can apply to both genders. Ppl give clears signs and many of us rationalize these "red flags" we see.

Again EO actions isn't good choices. She has mental health issues on the verge of suicide. An explanation not an excuse. The writer need to have the character self heal/learning to love herself. She bare the responsibility for her actions and reactions with self destruction.

Again, JW is responsible for how he act after the break up. EO told him with words in a cowardly way and her actions... (she did break up and set it up for him. To hate her thinking it will be easier for him. To move on) ... He is soo fixated.... He needs better coping skills. Even the recent ep.... She still shows him. With her words and attitude.... He needs to self heal and move on... Grow from it

I don't believe we are solely responsible for other ppl actions. There isn't many painless break up. Love is blind they say. They each hold some self responsibility.

Emphasize but not sympathize

If I break up with a person and they choose to drink to cope.... It's on them.. I'm catalysts for their actions but don't hold them sole responsibility for what other people may or may not do.

The writer needs to show characters healing.... If not it will be unjust to even mention these mental health issues

I need both characters to heal alone.... Build their growth and learn ALONE

I don't havant issues with these flawed like some ppl. I don't believe ppl are stuck in these behaviors. I do hope the writer provides growth.

I enjoy the characters interactions and each ep has me laughing.

I don't have to fully agree with all their actions to enjoy it. No one is perfect. I see ppl struggles with these concept daily. Good choices VS. Bad choices... Esp. Ppl with mental health issues.... Many ppl will growth and be better... Many need that help and push.

"those in glass houses... Shouldn't throw stones."

This series makes me laugh and gives me the. Feels. That is all that matter... If it entertains you.. Just enjoy the ride.... If not.... Hahaha... You. Must be bore and have nothing to watch to linger. I rather spend my time on things that I enjoy.

U.Lin looks great. I wouldn't know her age until i looked at the profile

Started out well...

It's a cute fluffy drama....

.but i soon got bored with the main couple....skimmed the rest for the 2nd leads....

I feel many ppl will click and enjoy it....

Ya. I'm back to normal schedule and won't have as much time anymore.

Hahahaha....i don't think you're behind me. You just didn't see those.

I watched maybe 15? drama a year...as in fully watching/completions

That is including thai, chinese,Japanese, kdrama.

I'm attracted to human pieces with connections...growth qnd development. I occasionally watch a crazy drama (makang) ....fluff

I actually drop last Empress...but it was highly watched and big ratings

Thx

I don't root for ppl who are malice with no growth/development.

I believe in karma & consequences for their actions...

I root for redemption and
characters arch.

Uncanny counter. The character is a bully. Trauma. He himself is bullied by his dad...he transferred it to other. My fav scene is when the ppl he bullied helped him. They showed him compassion/emphaty. His actions was not ok...but in doing so...it helped him grow....and he wasn't stucked there or get worse. He changed his ways...and did better



People are not stuck there.....

EO is not doing so in a malice evil intent. She broke it off. Not the best way. But told him it's over none the less. Made herself a villain even more . Thinking it will make it easier for him to forget if she was. She mentioned that in ep 3. She pretend....ignored...thinking it is easier and will hurt less. She is not being intentionally cruel. Dan from run on is the same way. She is mean /cruel to many ppl ( which i find worse). Many characters came called her out on her heartless ways. Her tongue is like a sword......her (suicidal brother)

I watched let eat 3. 1 of my fav scene. The F.L. told her step sister she's cruel for telling the guy who had a crush on her she isn't interested.

She told her that she is the on that is cruel because she rejected the guy in a nicer way but she gave him linger hope and the guy would keep trying....or think he still has a chance when he doesn't.

Her words may be direct and mean......he will hurt ....but he won't linger and still have hope.


That is why some ppl ghost other ppl in real life

even if she did it the 'right ' (better) way. The way he acted will be the same. That is how he copes...and it seems he not good at accepting things...

Hahaha....Asian's drama are funny like that.

I root for all characters. I don't necessarily need to agree or approve...relate to them....i cheer them on....but i need gowth & development from them.

I feel majority of villians has great arch to explore the growth/development...(redemption arch)

I sometimes watch the makang & laugh....like it's sooo bad... it's good (entertaining)

Last Empress was soo ridiculous...makang....ppl loved the craziness.

It sometime do click. I love it when the FL brings her own wind (blowing at the hair) to scenes....i died...

I saw a preview. She's consistent. She's not open....not even with her close friends. Girl needs to vent...let it out...release it...

Hahaha.... this trope isn't that bad or that toxic compared to many other dramas
...series...

Or even the great novel & literature....Shakespeare novels....ect.....grey anatomy (t.v.)....makang/soap opera.

Wr loves conflicts....trauma.... a person complained about it in run on forum....many said it was boring.

I'm enjoying this as is.....i like how they show ppl at their worse....ppl are not stucked there forever. I like how they addressed suicide...although i want more....i need them to show the person self healing.

I also enjoy run on....love the supporting characters. ..mature conversations. I find Dan is similar to EO. Both are cruel in self preservations. Both mental health issues/ traumas...lightly addressed..i hope both have more growth. I need dan to have it from her interactions from others beside with her pairing.

I need EO to love herself...heal...ect....many viewers are going through the same or similar things

Those with these issues feels other don't understand or emphasize unless they havr experienced it

1st season was great....i didn't even bother with this 1...

Where are people watching w/eng subs?

I never said that you shouldn't say they shouldn't be together. Read it again. I also just want to pin point she is only solely to blame for ever single actions/reactions a person does.

Again. I have never told ppl that it is not ok to say they shouldn't get together.

You can read any of my comments on here and I'm am consistent in what I'm saying

I have said many time. That is irrelevant to me.

I'm talking about addressing mental health issues. Having compassion/ emphaty.

Also that ppl ARE not suck in these behaviors.

In any of my comments i have never said that they should or shouldn't be together. It is irrelevant to me.

I have always said i want the writters ro show progress and healing.

I'm stating a fact that they are doing well on Netflix.

It is irrelevant to me if ppl don't enjoy it lol

No biggy

Thanks.

I use to not understand and was ignorant and inflexible in thinking.

I work with mental health/ special needs

And I'm fortunate to learn from everyone.....i'm teaching them....but they teach me just as much