I dont know about others but for me personally gender doesn't matter and I call out problematic behaviour regardless…
I feel there is no time limit to be a character will have a process of change...
It is at the fact that they are willing to do so.... And attempting it.
I felt that it was written in a realistic manner. Ppl life is a to be continue.
I felt he characters started the process on her own and isn't trying to rely on him. He is also not trying to "save" her. But is learning her along with her.
"How many times have we all watched dramas where the male lead has acted exactly like her? Where they push the…
It is an "Eh" for me.
I like the side characters. I continued for the interactions of the side characters.
I went into it knowing the type of tropes and genre it was. Half way point I got bored and knew how it will be. Typical historical romance of the girl who changes the playboy/fall in love
A tiny snippet...not a big spoiler
The M. L. HAS trauma. He was untilmately changed by her love at the very End after not talking for 2?3? Eps..... Hahaha....
Even at the end they never talked but blamed each other.
At least here... They eventually talked.... They vent out and yelled at each other and then had a few discussions that was open and honest
In bridgerton. I like brother and his mistress. I cheered when she was the one that left and broke it off... They were on again.... Emotions and feeling is a Bitch.... But she knew being her true self and self love was more important. And said bye bye for good.
I think I recommended this to you. Before. Nirvana in fire. It is a historical drama. A well played chess piece about brotherhood and comradery.
Historical. Goodbye my princess is a good Tragic story. War and palace gets a little dramatic.... I'm. Usually not into this type of drama. But I always kept an open mind to try always. It a.... It hurt so good drama to many.
I don't have a genre per se.... It is all in how it makes me feel when I watch it.... There is many... Hahaha.... This is ridiculous but I'm enjoying it....
Many ppl see this in a superficial way.... And not the subtle hints it has.
It is a happy ending but to me realistic of 2 flaw ppl starting their growth and learning from their mistake. It is 2 ppl dating again with no pretense and getting to know each other....
Still learning and growing.... He didn't solve any of her issues.... But wants to be in That journey together.
The characters came to an understanding. Because of what they been through and experienced, they are now able to better communicate and be open and honest.
She never chased after him. She worked with him. In a professional manner and he gave her space. She had never went back and forth with him continously.
EO had such a hard time opening up. She fully open up to him on the roof top. He display more patients. She display the new necklace.... She questioned the meaning... Or does she return it. She asked him. To meet.... She was honest.... I'm. A mess.... A coward... I'm. Scared and nervous and still don't know.....she was not running and hiding....
He is willing to get to know the EO with her... By starting out slow and just dating....
They have grown as a person through their experiences and mistakes. They saw each other at their worse.... There is less of a chance they will repeat what happened.
EO did many bad choices.... But she wasn't stucked there and is trying to learn and do better.
I see many ppl condem her for life and she is unforgivable. She is not lt. She did lots of things the wrong way. Even when she told him her thoughts. He was understanding and didn't pressure her but he still held out hope. Even if she did all of it the right way according to how ppl feel it should be. JW would have the same reaction....same coping that techniques and he will still have hope and try. She can't control what he does like he can't control what she does. We are not responsible for other people's actions. We are the catalyst for it. She apologized... But it was not the properly or right way... So it don't count... Huh? The character apologize a few times... Agree that she is horrible and suck. She said she rather be a Bitch and is selfish. She told him... She is like this and it won't work... They don't know each other.
Ppl heal and grow in their own time.... We can't forced our ideals of how they should do this and that according to how you Want it done. Again... Not wanting to repeat the same point I have pointed out.... Or the other takes I given.
I feel ppl are stuck on how it is suppose to be.... It suppose to be this or that way... (ideal way) ... To properly mean something or count. It is not... We fumble.... Try again....maybe do better.... Pending or processing
I guess the others are more fortunate than the rest of us In Their perfect world... Always making the right choices.... The right way... Doing and always saying the right thing and never hurting others because they are soo perfect. I conmend those who reach that level.
I'm always still flaw and learning from my mistakes and is glad to see characters like that. I like how they ended with them.... Learning and willing to grow.... Everything wasn't magically solved. But they will use their experiences and take the journey together.
Although I would do things differently..... I can appreciate and learn from it what is shown.... In Real life.... Things are always to be continued and worked on...
I would not date ppl who are in that state of mind and need mental health work. I have a few time decided not to continue dating them because of That. I work in the mental health field and is always willing to help. I also know the hard work and commitment it takes. I prefer someone with the same mental health level or higher since I'm. Also still working on myself. Self growth. Everyone I meet has taught me something.
One of my friend went through it. They are still at it. Getting married and having a child soon.
Again personal preferences... Tolerance. Understanding.... Compassion and the willingness to face the fear to learn and grow from it.
Love is an emotional bitch
All the great novels... Movies and songs are based on these crazy or good love experiences.
I feel some who don't experience it or have an understanding of mental health.... It shows.. They can't comprehend and have an inflexible thinking.... It has to be like that and that..the ideal way and no way that y can redeem unless they do it a certain way... Lol.... Many ppl who suffer from issues always feels lost and no one they can relate to unless they experienced it too. I was watching a documentary on Netflix... True crimes about this crazy hotel in L.A. At the end it was mental health issues and she had a psychotic breakdown. If only ppl were a little more empathic and asked if she was OK.
Kevin Hines 'cracked not broken' - surving suicide -
'I'm. Sitting here crying my eyes out. Hoping ppl can see my pain.... Ask me if I'm. OK. No one did. I couldn't say it... That I was in trouble... "
I recommend this to many people. I know of many ppl.... Friends... Friends of friends... Who committed suicides and those who are struggling now with their mental health.....
It takes a long time and long battle for many.... A Continuing process.....
I hope ppl would educate... Be more open minded and Compassionate.
Many who watch this can relate... Learn... And find it healing...
Unfortunately... I see lots of inflexible ppl who chooses only to condemn.... The process of the changes takes time and patients..... They did it well here.... It was in process....
He was her friend.... Until he finally got a chance. They didn't start to date until. Way afterwards. After college.
He just went along with whatever she said and want.
I was in an 8 year relationship of a roller-coaster before I had that Epiphany that was forced upon me by a final break up. Hahaha..... I have no regrets. I Learnt from it and it made me have to grow better as a person and now I know what I want.
I mean... I had to do 3 months of listening to positive affirmation day and night... Had a break down or two alone. Like EO.... I don't tell ppl my issues no matter how close I am to them. Unfortunately ppl I knew will not be supportive
Everyone is insecure in some way or the other but not everyone walks all over other people's feelings due to their…
She didn't hunt him down and went after him. She was professional in her work environment. He gave her space. She wanted answered about the necklace.... Her character is a mess who made many mistakes and I have pointed that out.... But what she did is not something we need to condem for life. From your response. She can never really redeem herself unless it was according to your. Standards and ideals.
She didn't figure it all out.
She said as much..... She clearly said she is still a mess and is a coward and don't know who she is..... But she is letting go of that fear and is trying....
They did not say she had an Epiphany over night.... But she decided to not like others decide who she is and will try to do it.
He also said he will date and Learn.... Who she really is along with her.... Her likes... Ect...
It is not a magically happy ending of them figuring it out.
It's ended with 2 characters having better understanding. .. Functional Communications and being open and honest...
They saw each other at their worse. Their relationship and reactions to future situations will be better by because of everything they been through.
She is open and honest about the real her.... She is a mess.... A coward and is still figuring it out.... No pretense. She is no longer hiding.
He asked what should they do... Now they are dating. She wanted him. To call her by her real name... Her name EO... As they preceded to learn about each other.... Likes... Ect.... They both have started on their growth....
A relationship is not a mature rainbow and sunshine.
Some Ppl who had spouse who cheated has been able to work it out... Redeem and have better relationship
I'm. Glad your. World is full of perfections.... Not making mistakes and always know how to properly act
The rest of us 80% or so.... Is just flawed human who makes lots of mistakes and trying to figure it out
"How many times have we all watched dramas where the male lead has acted exactly like her? Where they push the…
I see many ppl critizing/recognizing her behaviors....
They also know that ppl are not stuck and can grow....
The characters learn from it. Although they didn't flesh it out even more.... It was addressed... Disscused and talk about it
Ppl are never perfect and will continue to do mistake.... It will either bring growth or not.... It depends on the person and what they are willing to do.
EO recognized that and seek that growth. She was able to truly be open and honest.... She told him. She still is a big mess... A coward.... Ect
He is willing to learn who she really is and just date.
He ask her what should they do now they are dating..... She wanted him. To call her Name.... Her name of EO.... They timid.... Mess... Coward who is trying to o be better.
lol. did EO ever said the words 'I'm sorry' properly to JW? I am genuinely asking coz I don't remember her saying…
What is consider properly?
She apologized. She agree she is horrible and rather be the B.
At the end he accepts all of that and want to learn from that.
She is better in communications....
She told him... I'm. Still a mess and a coward... Ect....
They know each other at their worse and she seek to improve that. They have a better understanding and fundamental communications because of what they went through.... They also learnt from it. Both was open and honest
Many couple like RI... Don't know each other or at their worse.... Fighting and arguing... Serves a purpose...
There is no perfect ideal way.... That don't exists. We also can't put our ideals of how we want this and that on other ppl
There are many ppl who are married and lived a secret life. A gay married to a women and she never knew.... Ect.
RI Assumes he is OK with everything because he is complicent to whatever she wants. He mentioned some things but never expressed his true feeling.
Ri- he's knows I don't want to get marry...
Does he? Or he felt she doesn't want to get married right now.
I experienced something similar. Whatever we discussed he just agreed with me. My ex just went with whatever I wanted and never expressed his true wants and needs..(honey moon stage) .. At one point we broke up at least 1x every 3 months. I reacted with my emotions.... No real rationale thoughts.
We had a roller coaster long relationship. Like a cigarette. We were 2 very different people... In wants... need.. Growth.
But I learn and grew a lot from it and know better... And is more experienced
Nothing wrong with that....work on one self first....I watched a Thai series.... Friends zone.... And I'm. Like…
Their main issues for all of them is functional communications.
GJ never discuss things with her and always let her have her way. They never talk about their wants of needs for the future. She assumes he agree because he always complacent.
KG isn't very vocal about it either..... He is like whatever. With SY he is not expressive....or seem to care to dig in.
My ex would shut down when I try to discuss things, it is soo infuriating. He don't say a word.... Don't ask questions. He usually just is whatever and agree with Me.... Which does turn into resentment and is overwhelming.
I feel they will listen. When they do the candle lighting it is when they have a serious issues to talk about. Each one of them uses it when they are ready to discuss it.
Many complained about the toxic or unhealthy relationships.
This series is talking about... It addressing it and not just brushing things aside. There was many clues...comments. The past 2 ep was hashing it out... Every complaint ppl had the characters said it in the drama. Lol.... She said she is selfish and mean...... He said he is pathetic... Ect... They are not excusing and hiding it.
So I commend them
We'll see what they do on ep 16....there is also 17.... We'll see... If they want HEA... They need season 2 or do atime jump? EO need to truly find and love herself. JW need to learn to be less OCD and have more patiences...build better coping techniques
Many drama and series don't address this... They cont. Push and pull and then hea
I read. HE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. It goes for guys and girls (both perspectives). It seem many girls rationale red flags they see and linger like JW. It was a funny great read.
I applaud it.... Many relationships is toxic.... Many of us don't see or recognize it.... Rationale it... These relationships can teach us soo much...
These experiences that teaches us soo much. Many will watch this and will relate because they been through it.... Is going through it... Or can be going through this in the future. It is not rainbow and sunshine.
Many times it is a moment of happiness and to be able to just have and cherish that.... Not needing or wanting to "own" it forever.
Hey.... Look at those divorce rates.... Bank for divorce lawyers
Brokeback Mt. - I can't quit you
For now they are addressing it.... Each person's issues... Trauma.... Some ppl are recognizing it.... Addressing.... Some aren't.....
There is no time line for this... Self discovery...some don't make it there and is stucked... Many do... At their own pace
Is face to face ideal.... Sure for some.. I rather have honest words in some form. Face to face isn't ideal for everyone.
What works for some doesn't work for many.... Pushing our ideals and thoughts of how you. Would or should do it...... Isn't realistic. They are not living by your standards and ideals.
I like the friend scenes.... No pressure...
Call me out on my BS. But don't beat me with it.
I can't imagine having A friend constantly criticism & judging me.... Jeez thanks... I already hate myself... Thanks for making me hate myself even more.
Many friends tell me things they don't tell others..... Because I just listen.... Give statements here and there. But it on them and time. As in how much time they need to reset themselves.
So far they are showing that.... EO had some catalyst to somewhat face her issues. Her issues is herself. She talked it out with JW. She like work on herself. Can't love another right if you can't love yourself.
Everyone recovery time is different. There is no handbook of when someone get over things...
Crisis prevention intervention tells us never tell an esculated individual to calm down. That is the worse you can do..... Calm down triggers them to esculation.....
**Allow Time for Decisions When a person is upset, they may not be able to think clearly. Give them a few moments to think through what you’ve said. A person’s stress rises when they feel rushed. Allowing time brings calm.
***Focus on Feelings Facts are important, but how a person feels is the heart of the matter. Yet some people have trouble identifying how they feel about what’s happening to them. Watch and listen carefully for the person’s real message. Try saying something like “That must be scary.” Supportive words like these will let the person know that you understand what’s happening—and you may get a positive response.
Lol I see a lot of.... I don't get it.... Get over it already.... You Have no self respect.... Ect..... It like yup.... That is exactly what ppl want to hear.(I get this is a series but there are ppl like this in real life.) I hope you. Don't encounter a friend in need like this in real life.
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It is at the fact that they are willing to do so.... And attempting it.
I felt that it was written in a realistic manner. Ppl life is a to be continue.
I felt he characters started the process on her own and isn't trying to rely on him. He is also not trying to "save" her. But is learning her along with her.
I see them being forgiving and not call out other characters when they also is flawed and have toxic behaviors..... Bias
I like the side characters. I continued for the interactions of the side characters.
I went into it knowing the type of tropes and genre it was. Half way point I got bored and knew how it will be. Typical historical romance of the girl who changes the playboy/fall in love
A tiny snippet...not a big spoiler
The M. L. HAS trauma. He was untilmately changed by her love at the very End after not talking for 2?3? Eps..... Hahaha....
Even at the end they never talked but blamed each other.
At least here... They eventually talked.... They vent out and yelled at each other and then had a few discussions that was open and honest
In bridgerton. I like brother and his mistress. I cheered when she was the one that left and broke it off... They were on again.... Emotions and feeling is a Bitch.... But she knew being her true self and self love was more important. And said bye bye for good.
I think I recommended this to you. Before. Nirvana in fire. It is a historical drama. A well played chess piece about brotherhood and comradery.
Historical. Goodbye my princess is a good Tragic story. War and palace gets a little dramatic.... I'm. Usually not into this type of drama. But I always kept an open mind to try always. It a.... It hurt so good drama to many.
I don't have a genre per se.... It is all in how it makes me feel when I watch it.... There is many... Hahaha.... This is ridiculous but I'm enjoying it....
As long as it entertains you brings you joy
It is a happy ending but to me realistic of 2 flaw ppl starting their growth and learning from their mistake. It is 2 ppl dating again with no pretense and getting to know each other....
Still learning and growing.... He didn't solve any of her issues.... But wants to be in That journey together.
The characters came to an understanding. Because of what they been through and experienced, they are now able to better communicate and be open and honest.
She never chased after him. She worked with him. In a professional manner and he gave her space. She had never went back and forth with him continously.
EO had such a hard time opening up. She fully open up to him on the roof top. He display more patients. She display the new necklace.... She questioned the meaning... Or does she return it. She asked him. To meet.... She was honest.... I'm. A mess.... A coward... I'm. Scared and nervous and still don't know.....she was not running and hiding....
He is willing to get to know the EO with her... By starting out slow and just dating....
They have grown as a person through their experiences and mistakes. They saw each other at their worse.... There is less of a chance they will repeat what happened.
EO did many bad choices.... But she wasn't stucked there and is trying to learn and do better.
I see many ppl condem her for life and she is unforgivable. She is not lt. She did lots of things the wrong way. Even when she told him her thoughts. He was understanding and didn't pressure her but he still held out hope. Even if she did all of it the right way according to how ppl feel it should be. JW would have the same reaction....same coping that techniques and he will still have hope and try. She can't control what he does like he can't control what she does. We are not responsible for other people's actions. We are the catalyst for it. She apologized... But it was not the properly or right way... So it don't count... Huh? The character apologize a few times... Agree that she is horrible and suck. She said she rather be a Bitch and is selfish. She told him... She is like this and it won't work... They don't know each other.
Ppl heal and grow in their own time.... We can't forced our ideals of how they should do this and that according to how you Want it done. Again... Not wanting to repeat the same point I have pointed out.... Or the other takes I given.
I feel ppl are stuck on how it is suppose to be.... It suppose to be this or that way... (ideal way) ... To properly mean something or count. It is not... We fumble.... Try again....maybe do better.... Pending or processing
I guess the others are more fortunate than the rest of us In Their perfect world... Always making the right choices.... The right way... Doing and always saying the right thing and never hurting others because they are soo perfect. I conmend those who reach that level.
I'm always still flaw and learning from my mistakes and is glad to see characters like that. I like how they ended with them.... Learning and willing to grow.... Everything wasn't magically solved. But they will use their experiences and take the journey together.
Although I would do things differently..... I can appreciate and learn from it what is shown.... In Real life.... Things are always to be continued and worked on...
I would not date ppl who are in that state of mind and need mental health work. I have a few time decided not to continue dating them because of That. I work in the mental health field and is always willing to help. I also know the hard work and commitment it takes. I prefer someone with the same mental health level or higher since I'm. Also still working on myself. Self growth. Everyone I meet has taught me something.
One of my friend went through it. They are still at it. Getting married and having a child soon.
Again personal preferences... Tolerance.
Understanding.... Compassion and the willingness to face the fear to learn and grow from it.
Love is an emotional bitch
All the great novels... Movies and songs are based on these crazy or good love experiences.
I feel some who don't experience it or have an understanding of mental health.... It shows.. They can't comprehend and have an inflexible thinking.... It has to be like that and that..the ideal way and no way that y can redeem unless they do it a certain way... Lol.... Many ppl who suffer from issues always feels lost and no one they can relate to unless they experienced it too. I was watching a documentary on Netflix... True crimes about this crazy hotel in L.A. At the end it was mental health issues and she had a psychotic breakdown. If only ppl were a little more empathic and asked if she was OK.
Kevin Hines 'cracked not broken' - surving suicide -
'I'm. Sitting here crying my eyes out. Hoping ppl can see my pain.... Ask me if I'm. OK. No one did. I couldn't say it... That I was in trouble... "
https://youtu.be/vGPktsXlhTA
I recommend this to many people. I know of many ppl.... Friends... Friends of friends... Who committed suicides and those who are struggling now with their mental health.....
It takes a long time and long battle for many.... A Continuing process.....
I hope ppl would educate... Be more open minded and Compassionate.
Many who watch this can relate... Learn... And find it healing...
Unfortunately... I see lots of inflexible ppl who chooses only to condemn.... The process of the changes takes time and patients..... They did it well here.... It was in process....
EO didn't go after him. She was asking about the necklace.... Return it? She don't know.
With their experience they learn to be more open and honest.... Which will help them in the future.
She is clear and open with who she is.... Not hiding or pretense. He is patient and want to Learn about the real EO and grow with her
I don't think they were dating for 10 years.
He was her friend.... Until he finally got a chance. They didn't start to date until. Way afterwards. After college.
He just went along with whatever she said and want.
I was in an 8 year relationship of a roller-coaster before I had that Epiphany that was forced upon me by a final break up. Hahaha..... I have no regrets. I Learnt from it and it made me have to grow better as a person and now I know what I want.
I mean... I had to do 3 months of listening to positive affirmation day and night... Had a break down or two alone. Like EO.... I don't tell ppl my issues no matter how close I am to them. Unfortunately ppl I knew will not be supportive
She didn't figure it all out.
She said as much..... She clearly said she is still a mess and is a coward and don't know who she is..... But she is letting go of that fear and is trying....
They did not say she had an Epiphany over night.... But she decided to not like others decide who she is and will try to do it.
He also said he will date and Learn.... Who she really is along with her.... Her likes... Ect...
It is not a magically happy ending of them figuring it out.
It's ended with 2 characters having better understanding.
.. Functional Communications and being open and honest...
They saw each other at their worse. Their relationship and reactions to future situations will be better by because of everything they been through.
She is open and honest about the real her.... She is a mess.... A coward and is still figuring it out.... No pretense. She is no longer hiding.
He asked what should they do... Now they are dating. She wanted him. To call her by her real name... Her name EO... As they preceded to learn about each other.... Likes...
Ect.... They both have started on their growth....
A relationship is not a mature rainbow and sunshine.
Some Ppl who had spouse who cheated has been able to work it out... Redeem and have better relationship
I'm. Glad your. World is full of perfections.... Not making mistakes and always know how to properly act
The rest of us 80% or so.... Is just flawed human who makes lots of mistakes and trying to figure it out
Also saying she's a player....
She only dated JW after her break up.
They also know that ppl are not stuck and can grow....
The characters learn from it. Although they didn't flesh it out even more.... It was addressed... Disscused and talk about it
Ppl are never perfect and will continue to do mistake.... It will either bring growth or not.... It depends on the person and what they are willing to do.
EO recognized that and seek that growth. She was able to truly be open and honest.... She told him. She still is a big mess... A coward.... Ect
He is willing to learn who she really is and just date.
He ask her what should they do now they are dating..... She wanted him. To call her Name.... Her name of EO.... They timid.... Mess... Coward who is trying to o be better.
They don't communicate and they FL forced her ideals on him
He didn't know or understand...
KG even said she is happy and content..... He assume she was miserable because she was fired.
They never discussed... Talk or fight.... He is complicent
She apologized. She agree she is horrible and rather be the B.
At the end he accepts all of that and want to learn from that.
She is better in communications....
She told him... I'm. Still a mess and a coward... Ect....
They know each other at their worse and she seek to improve that. They have a better understanding and fundamental communications because of what they went through.... They also learnt from it. Both was open and honest
Many couple like RI... Don't know each other or at their worse.... Fighting and arguing... Serves a purpose...
There is no perfect ideal way.... That don't exists. We also can't put our ideals of how we want this and that on other ppl
If it exist in your world.... More power to you
The problem is real functional communications.
There are many ppl who are married and lived a secret life. A gay married to a women and she never knew.... Ect.
RI Assumes he is OK with everything because he is complicent to whatever she wants. He mentioned some things but never expressed his true feeling.
Ri- he's knows I don't want to get marry...
Does he? Or he felt she doesn't want to get married right now.
I experienced something similar. Whatever we discussed he just agreed with me. My ex just went with whatever I wanted and never expressed his true wants and needs..(honey moon stage) .. At one point we broke up at least 1x every 3 months. I reacted with my emotions.... No real rationale thoughts.
We had a roller coaster long relationship. Like a cigarette. We were 2 very different people... In wants... need.. Growth.
But I learn and grew a lot from it and know better... And is more experienced
GJ never discuss things with her and always let her have her way. They never talk about their wants of needs for the future. She assumes he agree because he always complacent.
KG isn't very vocal about it either..... He is like whatever. With SY he is not expressive....or seem to care to dig in.
My ex would shut down when I try to discuss things, it is soo infuriating. He don't say a word.... Don't ask questions. He usually just is whatever and agree with Me.... Which does turn into resentment and is overwhelming.
I feel they will listen. When they do the candle lighting it is when they have a serious issues to talk about. Each one of them uses it when they are ready to discuss it.
This series is talking about... It addressing it and not just brushing things aside. There was many clues...comments. The past 2 ep was hashing it out... Every complaint ppl had the characters said it in the drama. Lol.... She said she is selfish and mean...... He said he is pathetic... Ect... They are not excusing and hiding it.
So I commend them
We'll see what they do on ep 16....there is also 17.... We'll see... If they want HEA... They need season 2 or do atime jump? EO need to truly find and love herself. JW need to learn to be less OCD and have more patiences...build better coping techniques
Many drama and series don't address this... They cont. Push and pull and then hea
I read. HE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. It goes for guys and girls (both perspectives). It seem many girls rationale red flags they see and linger like JW. It was a funny great read.
I applaud it.... Many relationships is toxic.... Many of us don't see or recognize it.... Rationale it... These relationships can teach us soo much...
These experiences that teaches us soo much. Many will watch this and will relate because they been through it.... Is going through it... Or can be going through this in the future. It is not rainbow and sunshine.
Many times it is a moment of happiness and to be able to just have and cherish that.... Not needing or wanting to "own" it forever.
Hey.... Look at those divorce rates.... Bank for divorce lawyers
Brokeback Mt. - I can't quit you
For now they are addressing it.... Each person's issues... Trauma.... Some ppl are recognizing it.... Addressing.... Some aren't.....
There is no time line for this... Self discovery...some don't make it there and is stucked... Many do... At their own pace
Is face to face ideal.... Sure for some.. I rather have honest words in some form. Face to face isn't ideal for everyone.
What works for some doesn't work for many.... Pushing our ideals and thoughts of how you. Would or should do it...... Isn't realistic. They are not living by your standards and ideals.
I like the friend scenes.... No pressure...
Call me out on my BS. But don't beat me with it.
I can't imagine having A friend constantly criticism & judging me.... Jeez thanks... I already hate myself... Thanks for making me hate myself even more.
Many friends tell me things they don't tell others..... Because I just listen.... Give statements here and there. But it on them and time. As in how much time they need to reset themselves.
So far they are showing that.... EO had some catalyst to somewhat face her issues. Her issues is herself. She talked it out with JW. She like work on herself. Can't love another right if you can't love yourself.
Everyone recovery time is different. There is no handbook of when someone get over things...
Crisis prevention intervention tells us never tell an esculated individual to calm down. That is the worse you can do..... Calm down triggers them to esculation.....
https://www.crisisprevention.com/Blog/CPI-s-Top-10-De-Escalation-Tips-Revisited
**Allow Time for Decisions
When a person is upset, they may not be able to think clearly. Give them a few moments to think through what you’ve said. A person’s stress rises when they feel rushed. Allowing time brings calm.
***Focus on Feelings
Facts are important, but how a person feels is the heart of the matter. Yet some people have trouble identifying how they feel about what’s happening to them. Watch and listen carefully for the person’s real message. Try saying something like “That must be scary.” Supportive words like these will let the person know that you understand what’s happening—and you may get a positive response.
Lol I see a lot of.... I don't get it.... Get over it already.... You Have no self respect.... Ect..... It like yup.... That is exactly what ppl want to hear.(I get this is a series but there are ppl like this in real life.) I hope you. Don't encounter a friend in need like this in real life.