Noy

She only wanted a 1 night stand.

But he was persistent.

She is not trying to inflict pain....she is in a flight stage....i will break it up and be hurt....instead of him doing it 1st.

Trauma.....

That why she shrinks when hr yelled at her. (From the abuse )

I liked her in roomate. It really wasn't that annoying.

Love is sweet her character got better and had some growth...

I want Rose ?

I hear you...romance of tiget qnd rose.

She suffers from the same issues.

Same type of characters.

I tried love of a thousand...love better than immortality.

I did not like it nor the characters. It was niave and annoying.

I was not narrowed minded and judging/ bias.

I enjoyed romance of tiger and rose and the empire drama she did.

Hahaha....siblings relationship can be intense.

I have a big family...generations apart.

I never had an intense siblings fights.

My lil bro and I would joke around and wrestle and such....nothing crazy
Though


I feel the trios are like siblings.... he is the tolerance "bro"

He is to them. Probably cuz he knows them since kindergarten. Siblings relationship

Common theme. The bad comments concerns me...but u like it....i dunno ppl say this is bad...ect

Not all dramas will click or vibe with us. It either does or doesn't ...

Sometimes a makang will click although I'm not a fan of that..... you'll be surprise when you just try it....it also depends on our perceptions and flexibility/ tolerance in a certain content/subject

I tried a drama where i wasn't of fan of anything and enjoyed it and vice versa

I never determined my enjoyment in ratings....reviews or comments. This gives you a base....use it with an open mind.


Try a drama (4 eps or more if it is longer) . You don't like it...don't linger & go spend the time at the forum that brings you joy

If it brings you joy.....that is all that matters....

If crazy makang/ cliche brings you joy....whatever....don't matter about anything else.

It entertains you.

Why are you still watching silly? I would have been like bye and spend my time at a forum of a drama i like....it's then a repetitions of the same criticism/ complaint. It brings you no joy. What is the point to linger...

It is realistic to some ppl.

I have witness these types of relationships....some of the drama i seen is worse than being display.

But i watch a drama as is. It will either click or it doesn't ...no biggy

I don't feel it dragged and is enjoying the ride

She was never confident....still isn't

When she took on a new personal....she was in a delusional state.....faking it.

I'm an introvert.....i go out to the club & bar and I'm an extrovert.......but my true form is an introvert.....

My doc. Was shocked i had soo many tattoos. Since I'm so quiet and mild manner.

I have learn how to socialize in society. I challenged myself by being a server at a restaurant. Lots of "acting " and pretending.....

The 2 girls fangirl over her

Some ppl just don't click/vibe or can't relate.

It is doing well enough....they added an ep

Sometimes i can watch cliche drama and sometimes it don't click

All good

I never felt the need to cont. Watching ....lingering ane complaining about a drama....i might comment and move on...

I'm enjoying too...i feel those who are...are vocal here....

They will not focus on it. Asian drama never fully addresses it

Run on didn't fully address Dan's issues either.

My point is to educate....seek to understand and have compassion.

We don't know what the writer eill do....so it is premature to say it won't happen....thag wr wont get that self reflections and growth.

So far we dont see much front her pov....that is the writers issues for me

Yes. I wish they show her inne4 struggles more.

We see his pov and the friends....we get a vague sense from her pov

I don't pity her. She did it to herself. Self inflicted pain/destruction

I do emphasize and i know she is fighting the demons in her brain.

I do feel for her and hope the writer address something more and build growth.

We'll see

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But oftentimes, these two demons will sync up together, both awakening from their slumbers simultaneously to go to war with each other with the intention of making my life a personal living hell.

It hurts my head — it feels like my brain is literally pushing against my skull with nowhere to go. It’s dizzying and disorienting; and most of all, it is endlessly frustrating. It makes the simplest tasks impossible and I just want to scream at myself “WHY CAN’T YOU JUST DO THE THING?”
Https://www.fairwindscenter.org/having-depression-and-anxiety-means-having-a-brain-constantly-at-war-with-itself/


She want that fantasy of those 2 months.....2 month of bliss...is a good memory.

She don't have the courage to confront anything. She is living in this negative battle

It sounds as much. She is mean and unreasonable. She don't deserve happiness. They are so toxic. They don't deserve each other. I don't like her....ect.

It comes off as that...condemnation.......as if they can't come out of their toxicity.

Ppl can come out of it and do better....ppl can learn from it and be a better person. People can and has come out of toxicity and did better. When couple do come out of it together. It made their relationship better.

I don't expect them to address Mental health issues....although they mentioned self-hatred. Asians drama rarely do. DAN in run on( has trauma, narcissistic disorder...anxiety). They had her read the book. I don't see them fully addressing it either. The ML is on the spectrum.

I'm not sure where they are going with the story here. I'm hoping the writer will have more...background....self growth. They need to give them self growth/understanding. I hope they do...we'll see.

Robert downey Jr. He was in that destructions. He eventually came out of it and did better. He was fortunate someone wasn't inflexible and gave him that chance again.

I, myself had that self destruction. I seek help and was also given a chance out of the toxicity....did better and grow.

I was then an outsider. To their
toxic relationship. I called out on a few times and asked her why. She left and went back. Her choice. At this point now. She didn't need me judging
her. She felt he has some growth and continued. I told her he needs to see a psychiatrist/ therapist
and be on meds. I left it at that. She knows...at this point now. She did not need someone to tell her she is dumb/stupid and was in a toxic situation.
She needed an ear ....compassion and emphaty. I told het i understand but it was not ok. But i know that it can only have better growth with those treatments.

Sometimes we just need to be compassionate and emphasize.

Heck i get therapy trying to take in all of it.....i learnt to be more understanding...flexible in thinking...open..compassionate...emphasize even when i don't fully understand even if I'm in the field

I don't believe she should just be forgiven just for mental health issues. Also the story is not over...we don't many things.....there could be more....or it could just be as simple as that. The point is to know that ppl can learn and grow from these situations and we should seek/want that for people and not just condemn them.

I probably said it a thousand time.

It's an explanation not an excuse for bad behaviors/ decisions. It is still not ok.

I empathize.

I also don't write them off as a lost cause.

In our lifetime we will all make mistakes and do shit we are are not proud of....

The real test is to learn...seek...help and have growth.

As a person...
We should seek to emphasize although we don't fully understand.

I said this a thousandth time. Mental health issues is not a excuse or crutch to be use.

My point had always been for ppl to seek better understanding....have compassion and emphaty.....don't be too harsh....don't condemn them....encourage ppl....and know it is always possible/ options to do better...have growth and learn. Don't be soo inflexible to their plight and be open minded


I'm seeking to educated and inform...
I'm beating a dead house...

They are interchangeable.

We all have been in a toxic situation because we are flawed humans.

Ppl are liars if they say they never had some type of toxic situations.

I witness many couples in toxic senarios during therapy. But they seek that help. I advised many ppl to go to therapy (friends/ couples). People don't really know how to be in a good healthy functional relationship.....they can either learn and grow together or not. ....to be soo inflexible of the possible growth.

My client has a couple therapy and individual therapy. They still sometimes fuck up.

:be easier on yourself, your human. And human fuck up. DO better: - unconscious mind. MEL RObbins life coach

Being in a toxic situation doesn't mean you will be in that your whole life....some ppl do...but these are all learning moments to do better.

The differences is how we continue to handle it. Many people seek help and build growth. Some are able to build their own growth. Some are in denial and will be in the loop of destruction.

Will they learn to improve and seek help

If one is lucky....they have people to call them out for it...get knowledge and education.

Many suicides are from ppl who "was soo happy". We just don't know

I mentioned this in another comment.

I have done something similar.

I knew it was bad and unreasonable/ dumb. I did it anyways. I knew while i was doing it. I couldn't stop myself. I had no control. I hated myself while it was happening. I still continued on.

After a month. I seek help from my doc. For a chemical imbalanced. That is because i recognized my self destructions because i was educated in Mental healh issues.

EO choice is to avoid and hide...self destruction. I have no pity or sympathy for her. I cheered who he let out his anger and frustration at her. She didn't say anything....or give him anything. If she wants it done....she shouldn't. She hide the ring like she hides everything. She wallows in self pity and hatred.

I don't dislike her.

I dislike her actions and how she handled it.

That is why i cheered when he yelled at her.

Like or dislike depends on how we relate or emphasize.

Ppl are flawed....they do stupid and petty things....we can be selfish and do things that are easier
..are hurtful.

My ex was EO at one point. We broke up but was living together. He avoided me and act like i didn't exist ...we were together for a long time and was stranger over
night... hahaha....

I never blame or got mad. It gave great self growth. I became such a better person. I thanked him

He found that growth later on. Apologized and was fully of regret.

We are still cool with each other.

I been EO. At one point I was mentally unstable and did crazy things. It was an outter body experiences. I knew it was dumb and bad but i couldn't help myself or control it. While i was doing it. I knew it was dumb and wrong but i couldn't stop myself.

Unlike EO. Whom we don't fully see the BG and her p0v yet.

I went to talk to my doc. I had some hormone imbalance thing going on.

I'm a psyche major. My professor told us that we all can use therapy regardless of how "stable " we think we are.


I feel this drama will not address it...none of the Asian drama address much mental health issues....it is still a bit taboo.....even here in America....soo many ppl are in denial...don't seek treatment or self medicate with drugs...alcohol....self inflicted pain/destructions