Does she think she has multiple personalities? Sorry, a name change doesn't make you a different person.... lolI…
She might. It can be anything....depressing....anxiety....bi-polar
There are soo many disorder....many ppl have mutiple.
My client is bi-polar...anxiety...mood disorder
she has said self hatred......many people will do self destruction....self inflicting pain.
Self-hatred is also a symptom of many personality disorders, including borderline personality disorder, as well as mood disorders like depression. It can also be linked to guilt for someone's own actions that they view as wrongful, e.g., survivor guilt.
The mind does crazy things.
Ppl can even give themselves amnesia to block out pain or trauma.
I Like the complexity of Kim ji won character. Only who had tried to be 'different' from usual himself, even if…
We are all complex.
I just watched monster calls....great movie.
We as people revert to lies...denial and pretend.....for whatever reasons...to avoid pain...
Many ppl who commit suicides appear to be happy go lucky.
"You merely wishing to end the pain, the monster said. Your pain. AN end to isolate you. It is the most human wish of all."
"Your mind will believe comforting lies while knowing the painful truth that make the lies necessary. And your mind will punish you for believing both."
- patrick ness
Self-hatred is also a symptom of many personality disorders, including borderline personality disorder, as well as mood disorders like depression. It can also be linked to guilt for someone's own actions that they view as wrongful, e.g., survivor guilt.
Are we supposed to feel pity for the FL or what? I am sincerely confused here. I really like the chemistry of…
I don't pity her. It is self inflicted. Self-hatred part of BPD. I posted articles/ links.
They won't fully address it...kdrama barely does....hopefully the writer can give them growth
I however emphasize.....i understand people like her...been her...been a 3rd person looking at someone like her...gave therapy to some like her.
I'm not sure if the writer will give us more... I'll wait to see
I cheered him on when he is able to vent out his anger and frustration.
She is not trying to linger and pull his strings. She returns the camera. Didn't give him more hope. Took the yelling...which she deserved. I appalled him for it. She is not doing it the right way. It was a coward jerk move. She avoids and ran away from confrontation. She is who she mentioned. A self hating coward.
My ex was a coward like her. We had a long relationship. He also ranaway and avoided confrontation. I became a better person from that experiences. He eventually apologized and a few years later it also brought him growth. I applaud him for it. We are still cool.
I watched the show bridgerton. Toxic relationship too...all of them.....they don't know how to communicate...and be open...
My fav. Scene was when the opera girl called out her lover. I cheered for her. That was not easy to do. She went back to him a few times before she told him off/ broke it.
They also were all flawed....at the end they didn't fully communicate their issues...but was just willing to accept it
The other two couples have more flaws, they have a bigger toxic relationship than the main leads. How is that…
I feel they are all flawed.
We seek to be loved and love.
We humans don't know nor understand how to do so....we have sooo many relationships books/advice...advice columns...ect...hahaha
I know few long lasting relationships.
I have given therapy to some. There is such a lack of communication...understanding and emphaty.
My friend is getting a divorce. It went from him loving her soo much and begging her to stay...to him having a cop at their house when she got her things.
When my ex and i broke up ( we were living together). He completely did a 180 and acted like i was a disease or something. Hahaha....i was the more mature one. It was easier for him to avoid and pretend i don't exist. He avoided and hiding/ running.
I didn't blame him for his coward behaviors. He eventually apologized months later. I in turn thank him for giving me a lesson and i had great growth and became a better person. Ffw 3 yrs later he confessed to me with full honestly he never had. I applaud him for his growth. Lol
. He confessed again his regrets ....not being grown up and not have his shit together and being a coward .We still communicate as friends
There is not an open...honest communication....
But that is relationship right? Hopefully ppl will learn and grow from it.
The most successful relationships i seen is when couple seek therapy before and during....couple therapy ans individuals therapy.
I'm not judging any of the characters and just enjoying it as is....well see if they give us more back story. I will the writer for characters growth....and reframe from more until more details ....flesh out
yeah i'm really enjoying the other 2 couples and am surprisingly invested in their stories considering how little…
I never said that is ok....or justify it.....i said this soo many times....it's an explanation but not an excuse....i have always said these things can be redeemable.
I'm telling people to be more open minded...compassionate to their plight. Trust me they bring their own self inflicted pain.
I'm more active on IG and have called out her behaviors....i have never excused it. But see human beings as redeemable. The whole story isn't done.
I don't need to fully like their behaviors all the time to enjoy the drama.
In good detectives...i was pissed at 1 of the character. But this situation is a different Because it involved death. I'm still not ok with what happen...but i can emphasize...i even seek to find my tolerance...and dig deeper into my understanding of the human psyche. I'm still not ok with what happened
My sister in law is in a toxic relationship. I was wicked judgy... i still don't get it...but i emphasize with her.
I don't agree with it....there is not growth.
I have asked her why....she has no explanation for me....
Those in glass houses ..shouldn't throw stone
I tell her so...but i will not alienate her and not listen. At the end it was her choice.....she chose to go back and chose to stay and be in that situation. She told me he has gotten better. Heck i even call him out. He had mental health issues and need meds ans therapy. At the end it is her choice.
I have always tell everyone I know...that it is ok to be alone....date yourself...love yourself....
Many ppl who have successful relationships are those in therapy before and during a relationship. A client i have have couple therapy and individual therapy. Even then they still have issues communicating properly. Also 2 ppl who are willing to try.
I never asked to excuse anyones behaviors.
EO clearly had issues. What she did is horrible and makes no sense to many. She said so...she is a horrible person with self hatred. You have to love yourself before you can understand to love someone else. She avoids confrontation....she has stories in her head with no confirmation from the other person. She wants that pain and self misery.
I'm not sure where the writer is going but we are missing more detail.
I cheered for him when he told het off and expressed his feelings.
I'm telling ppl to be compassionate and have some empathy.....these characters or even ppl have a lack of perspectives.
I sound like you 7 years ago....i couldn't emphasize....i had this ideal and will not bend nor understand ... until i was EO....i was the 3rd person looking at a person like EO....i had q hard time communicating and being honest. i then gain more experience in psychology classes....therapy...counseling....
I'm constantly learning more...accepting....being more compassionate.....
That does not mean i excuse anyone behaviors. I understand ppl better and help guide them with better tools. It is a daily battle.
But why watch something we don't enjoy? Why say the same thing ovet like a broken record? I had the same issues you had with EO foe the FL in reply 1997. I didn't fully give my analysis until i finished it through skimming. I also didn't relate to the character and the reasoning...but i emphasize....i didn't agree or relate....i also dropped it because of it. I didn't beat the dead house
yeah i'm really enjoying the other 2 couples and am surprisingly invested in their stories considering how little…
I feel ppl are too hard on them.
Saying they dont deserve this and that....
This condemnation.....
Ppl make dumb choices /mistake.
They are not evil ppl ....just dumb.
Everyone deserves chances ....
What i hope for all my drama is character growth.
This will be my last reply about it... Because i feel that it is pointless and gets nowhere.
The other coupling isn't perfect either. There no such things as true happiness with no problem. The other pairing also have no trust and communication. Aggression....
I just seeing a dead horse being beaten.
I feel when a drama bring us no joy....it is pointless for us. I would have dropped this if i have the same issues and isn't tolerance of it
.... people don't need to fully get it.....but to have an open mind and dont be so harsh on people like that...trust me thr self inflicted pain and self destruction they are doing yo themselves.....is more than wr can comprehend.
I recommend the movie joker....the new 1....it address how these self destruction can be.
The main couple is so.... toxic. If you just switch their genders the level of toxicity would be glaringly obvious.…
I disagree. I have no excuse her behavior or cut her slack.
I feel others will call the guys out too...
Many ppl are just watching as is....i read many ppl calling het mean & unreasonable. I have too (ig)....but many ppl...emphasize ...not sympathize
In recent ep...JW went to see a therapist....
I have seen things like this in real life....it is easy to say this and that as a 3rd viewer and as someone who is not in their shoes...i been in their shoes and been the viewer....also from a mental health worker point.
I understand why.....but doesn't make it ok....not am i there to judge... I'm here to guide and give them tools and methods to implement
Ppl is just watching as it is....entertainment....ppl love this ...ppl mentioned many times it is not a healthy mature way...
They can enjoy it as is
Makang drama are wicked popular still. Many are watching ....don't mean they don't recognize it.
To me if you don't find enjoyment....i say time to move on. I seen ppl mentioned the same thing over and over (toxic this...ect...)
Many Ppl are jusy enjoying as is....with no expectations...some analysis....
I just watched a Monster calls. Great movie
"There's not always a good guy. Nor is there a bad one. Most ppl are somewhere in between "
"You mind will believe comforting lies while also knowing thr painful truths that make those lies necessary. And your mind will punish you for believing both"
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There are soo many disorder....many ppl have mutiple.
My client is bi-polar...anxiety...mood disorder
she has said self hatred......many people will do self destruction....self inflicting pain.
Self-hatred is also a symptom of many personality disorders, including borderline personality disorder, as well as mood disorders like depression. It can also be linked to guilt for someone's own actions that they view as wrongful, e.g., survivor guilt.
The mind does crazy things.
Ppl can even give themselves amnesia to block out pain or trauma.
I just watched monster calls....great movie.
We as people revert to lies...denial and pretend.....for whatever reasons...to avoid pain...
Many ppl who commit suicides appear to be happy go lucky.
"You merely wishing to end the pain, the monster said. Your pain. AN end to isolate you. It is the most human wish of all."
"Your mind will believe comforting lies while knowing the painful truth that make the lies necessary. And your mind will punish you for believing both."
- patrick ness
Self-hatred is also a symptom of many personality disorders, including borderline personality disorder, as well as mood disorders like depression. It can also be linked to guilt for someone's own actions that they view as wrongful, e.g., survivor guilt.
They won't fully address it...kdrama barely does....hopefully the writer can give them growth
I however emphasize.....i understand people like her...been her...been a 3rd person looking at someone like her...gave therapy to some like her.
I'm not sure if the writer will give us more... I'll wait to see
I cheered him on when he is able to vent out his anger and frustration.
She is not trying to linger and pull his strings. She returns the camera. Didn't give him more hope. Took the yelling...which she deserved. I appalled him for it. She is not doing it the right way. It was a coward jerk move. She avoids and ran away from confrontation. She is who she mentioned. A self hating coward.
My ex was a coward like her. We had a long relationship. He also ranaway and avoided confrontation. I became a better person from that experiences. He eventually apologized and a few years later it also brought him growth. I applaud him for it. We are still cool.
I watched the show bridgerton. Toxic relationship too...all of them.....they don't know how to communicate...and be open...
My fav. Scene was when the opera girl called out her lover. I cheered for her. That was not easy to do. She went back to him a few times before she told him off/ broke it.
They also were all flawed....at the end they didn't fully communicate their issues...but was just willing to accept it
We seek to be loved and love.
We humans don't know nor understand how to do so....we have sooo many relationships books/advice...advice columns...ect...hahaha
I know few long lasting relationships.
I have given therapy to some. There is such a lack of communication...understanding and emphaty.
My friend is getting a divorce. It went from him loving her soo much and begging her to stay...to him having a cop at their house when she got her things.
When my ex and i broke up ( we were living together). He completely did a 180 and acted like i was a disease or something. Hahaha....i was the more mature one. It was easier for him to avoid and pretend i don't exist. He avoided and hiding/ running.
I didn't blame him for his coward behaviors. He eventually apologized months later. I in turn thank him for giving me a lesson and i had great growth and became a better person. Ffw 3 yrs later he confessed to me with full honestly he never had. I applaud him for his growth. Lol
. He confessed again his regrets ....not being grown up and not have his shit together and being a coward .We still communicate as friends
There is not an open...honest communication....
But that is relationship right? Hopefully ppl will learn and grow from it.
The most successful relationships i seen is when couple seek therapy before and during....couple therapy ans individuals therapy.
I'm not judging any of the characters and just enjoying it as is....well see if they give us more back story. I will the writer for characters growth....and reframe from more until more details ....flesh out
I'm telling people to be more open minded...compassionate to their plight. Trust me they bring their own self inflicted pain.
I'm more active on IG and have called out her behaviors....i have never excused it. But see human beings as redeemable. The whole story isn't done.
I don't need to fully like their behaviors all the time to enjoy the drama.
In good detectives...i was pissed at 1 of the character. But this situation is a different
Because it involved death.
I'm still not ok with what happen...but i can emphasize...i even seek to find my tolerance...and dig deeper into my understanding of the human psyche. I'm still not ok with what happened
My sister in law is in a toxic relationship. I was wicked judgy... i still don't get it...but i emphasize with her.
I don't agree with it....there is not growth.
I have asked her why....she has no explanation for me....
Those in glass houses ..shouldn't throw stone
I tell her so...but i will not alienate her and not listen. At the end it was her choice.....she chose to go back and chose to stay and be in that situation. She told me he has gotten better. Heck i even call him out. He had mental health issues and need meds ans therapy. At the end it is her choice.
I have always tell everyone I know...that it is ok to be alone....date yourself...love yourself....
Many ppl who have successful relationships are those in therapy before and during a relationship. A client i have have couple therapy and individual therapy. Even then they still have issues communicating properly. Also 2 ppl who are willing to try.
I never asked to excuse anyones behaviors.
EO clearly had issues. What she did is horrible and makes no sense to many. She said so...she is a horrible person with self hatred. You have to love yourself before you can understand to love someone else. She avoids confrontation....she has stories in her head with no confirmation from the other person. She wants that pain and self misery.
I'm not sure where the writer is going but we are missing more detail.
I cheered for him when he told het off and expressed his feelings.
I'm telling ppl to be compassionate and have some empathy.....these characters or even ppl have a lack of perspectives.
I sound like you 7 years ago....i couldn't emphasize....i had this ideal and will not bend nor understand ... until i was EO....i was the 3rd person looking at a person like EO....i had q hard time communicating and being honest. i then gain more experience in psychology classes....therapy...counseling....
I'm constantly learning more...accepting....being more compassionate.....
That does not mean i excuse anyone behaviors. I understand ppl better and help guide them with better tools. It is a daily battle.
But why watch something we don't enjoy? Why say the same thing ovet like a broken record? I had the same issues you had with EO foe the FL in reply 1997. I didn't fully give my analysis until i finished it through skimming. I also didn't relate to the character and the reasoning...but i emphasize....i didn't agree or relate....i also dropped it because of it. I didn't beat the dead house
I still enjoy the drama....it haf lots of heartfelt moments
Saying they dont deserve this and that....
This condemnation.....
Ppl make dumb choices /mistake.
They are not evil ppl ....just dumb.
Everyone deserves chances ....
What i hope for all my drama is character growth.
This will be my last reply about it...
Because i feel that it is pointless and gets nowhere.
The other coupling isn't perfect either. There no such things as true happiness with no problem. The other pairing also have no trust and communication. Aggression....
I just seeing a dead horse being beaten.
I feel when a drama bring us no joy....it is pointless for us. I would have dropped this if i have the same issues and isn't tolerance of it
.... people don't need to fully get it.....but to have an open mind and dont be so harsh on people like that...trust me thr self inflicted pain and self destruction they are doing yo themselves.....is more than wr can comprehend.
I recommend the movie joker....the new 1....it address how these self destruction can be.
Many grown adult suffers
Swoon interview
Fan ask why KJW character is mean/ice queen.
She didn’t spoil any more details
He saw the model and said he wont drink again.
I will not condem them for life for certain mistakes/dumb choices
I watched this pinoy movie.
The ML too the FL lead ...to an airport and they juat scream/vent out their frustration
I usually model it for the clients to see and experience.....social stories
Venting and letting out is a great way....i recommend a smash room for everyone
I feel others will call the guys out too...
Many ppl are just watching as is....i read many ppl calling het mean & unreasonable. I have too (ig)....but many ppl...emphasize ...not sympathize
In recent ep...JW went to see a therapist....
I have seen things like this in real life....it is easy to say this and that as a 3rd viewer and as someone who is not in their shoes...i been in their shoes and been the viewer....also from a mental health worker point.
I understand why.....but doesn't make it ok....not am i there to judge... I'm here to guide and give them tools and methods to implement
Ppl is just watching as it is....entertainment....ppl love this ...ppl mentioned many times it is not a healthy mature way...
They can enjoy it as is
Makang drama are wicked popular still.
Many are watching ....don't mean they don't recognize it.
To me if you don't find enjoyment....i say time to move on. I seen ppl mentioned the same thing over and over (toxic this...ect...)
Many Ppl are jusy enjoying as is....with no expectations...some analysis....
I just watched a Monster calls. Great movie
"There's not always a good guy. Nor is there a bad one. Most ppl are somewhere in between "
"You mind will believe comforting lies while also knowing thr painful truths that make those lies necessary. And your mind will punish you for believing both"
-patrick ness
Savage love....
Did someone break your heart
Looking like an angel...
When you kiss me you don't give a F....
Soooo use me
Hahaha
It's not a rom com...which i feel mutiple season kills it
Human being are all flawed.
I'm all for flawed characters ......what complete it is character growth
I work in the mental health field.
It is the person before the disorder....we don't say that autistic boy....we say the boy with autism
I tell my client's all the time...that is an explanation but not an excuse or justification for being a jerk.
Just becauae someone has a reason. Don't mean it is ok.
MJ will feel bad about it. DAN not soo much.
We can only be so lucky to have ppl call out our BS
I know she worked with the directors b4....i think writer too?