thats exactly how i feel... they stretched it way too far... they should have atleast simultaneously showed her…
Many ppl have mental health issues.
She*EO* clearly said she HATE herself. That is part of MI. Many ppl don't understand and is ignorant/uneducated in this and judge ppl with MI harshly.
As a mental health worker....it makes me extremely sad.
I have never excuse their behaviors. But many times they don't have self control....needs medication to balance it.
I have a client 2 who is bi-polar, mood disorders and adhd.
When he doesn't get his mood pills it is soo hard for him to balance. Even with what i taught him. I also help (train) surrounding people how to handle them as well.
I work with them....i feel hating them is a bit harsh. Many times there is a lack of control/ chemical imbalance.
It’s an unpopular opinion, but I actually like Lee Eun Oh/Yoon Sun Ah, and I feel like in her situation I might…
I posted articles of BPD (self hatred)
I don't agree with how she handled it...but i emphasize with her.
It is a romcom ....they won't address it....none of the drama really does...unless it a pysche drama
ML in run on is on the spectrum like ParkGum in repky 1988
I have the same issues with Dan in Run on. I know she has trauma/anxiety...and probably other things. I don't like how she handles things in such a cold/heartless way. Many ppl called her out but it didn't fully register....she narcissistic too.
I like Her straightforwardness....but i like straightforward people....i hope to see better growth with her character
instability in relationships with others intense emotions, such as anger and low mood sudden shifts in self-image (regarding values or career plans, for example) impulsive and damaging behaviors, which can include substance misuse or impulsive spending self-harm and, for some people, suicidal thoughts or actions
thats exactly how i feel... they stretched it way too far... they should have atleast simultaneously showed her…
Self-hatred is also a symptom of many personality disorders, including borderline personality disorder, as well as mood disorders like depression. It can also be linked to guilt for someone's own actions that they view
Self-hatred is also a symptom of many personality disorders, including borderline personality disorder, as well as mood disorders like depression. It can also be linked to guilt for someone's own actions that they view as wrongful, e.g., survivor guilt.
****MANY PPL DON'T RECOGNIZE OR ACKNOWLEDGE IT. They don't seek help and self medicate with an inflicting of pain/self destructions *** denial....
Self-Loathing and Bipolar Disorder Most of us understand the basics of self-loathing. We all know people who have doubted themselves at some point in their lives and self-loathing is the extreme of that. People with bipolar disorder often hate themselves.
In other words, we believe we are worthless, incapable, and can’t succeed. We are angry because of our misery.
And, if it wasn’t bad enough that we believe it about ourselves, society reinforces that belief. We live in a society that very much dislikes open displays and/or discussions of anger.
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What is Observed as Bipolar Anger is Often Self-Loathing When the average person observes someone with bipolar who is angry, they assume the anger is directed at them. Angry people in our culture is looked upon as being bad. Anger is considered a negative emotion because we tend to classify emotions in this way. Adding moral judgement to feelings often creates more problems than it solves.
Since most people are uncomfortable with anger, they become anxious around angry people, considering them a threat. Add on our culture’s misconceptions about both bipolar disorder and anger and it’s unsurprising when negative outcomes occur.
A person in crisis is going to be perceived as bad, no help will be forthcoming, and that self-hatred will be reinforced. Those who witness the outburst often distances themselves from the person suffering. This further isolates an already desperate individual, often sinking them deeper into depression and preventing them from getting well.
The fact remains that most people don’t live with bipolar disorder. It is, thankfully, relatively uncommon, affecting about 4% of the population. Given America’s lack of mental health education, it isn’t remotely surprising that these ”misunderstandings” occur.
****If we are honest with ourselves, we must admit that these “misunderstandings” are purely due to our own ignorance, which is far to often due to not wanting to understand.***
An explanation ....not an excuse for her behavior. We'll see where it goes...if they build more on it and character growth
This at the end is a romcom with underlying issues...which they won't fully address because at the end it is a romcom.
Someone commented they were promised a romcom but got angst .....hahaha....
There is lot of funny moments. At the end this is a romcom and i know they won't fully address major mental health issues.
In run on. The ML is clearly on the spectrum like ParkGum character in reply 1988.
i had high hopes from this drama and i though jcw is finally going to be paired with someone who matches him well…
The character has told use she suffer from Self hatred
Self-hatred is also a symptom of many personality disorders, including borderline personality disorder, as well as mood disorders like depression. It can also be linked to guilt for someone's own actions that they view as wrongful, e.g., survivor guilt.
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She*EO* clearly said she HATE herself. That is part of MI. Many ppl don't understand and is ignorant/uneducated in this and judge ppl with MI harshly.
As a mental health worker....it makes me extremely sad.
I have never excuse their behaviors. But many times they don't have self control....needs medication to balance it.
I have a client 2 who is bi-polar, mood disorders and adhd.
When he doesn't get his mood pills it is soo hard for him to balance. Even with what i taught him. I also help (train) surrounding people how to handle them as well.
I work with them....i feel hating them is a bit harsh. Many times there is a lack of control/ chemical imbalance.
I don't like what they do but to hate them....
I do not....
My job is also to help them/guide them
.she chose to be silent and continue to do so because she feels it is easier....
He has soo much frustration and anger. He needs to let it out.
What is she to say? What's the point....she is wrong with how she handles it
It is his time to get it out...clear his chest....let him rant...
She had no words....she'll wallow in self pity and hatred. I posted an article about that from medical/phyche journals
Her saying anything might encourage dialogue.....she avoids confrontation and is hiding.
She has clear mental health issues. I posted articles and links.
It's a rom com at the end. I know they won't address it.
They writer needs to show growth and development.....
ML who is on the Spectrum....Run On and ParkGum from reply 1988.
Although they won't address it
DAN (Run on) has trauma, anxiety...narcissistic disorder and maybe a few other things.
They didn't fully address it...but she was reading a book about anxiety
I don't agree with how she handled it...but i emphasize with her.
It is a romcom
....they won't address it....none of the drama really does...unless it a pysche drama
ML in run on is on the spectrum like ParkGum in repky 1988
I have the same issues with Dan in Run on. I know she has trauma/anxiety...and probably other things. I don't like how she handles things in such a cold/heartless way. Many ppl called her out but it didn't fully register....she narcissistic too.
I like Her straightforwardness....but i like straightforward people....i hope to see better growth with her character
But i emphasize...i don't hate her
She shows signs of BPD....self hatred
I'm enjoying the drama...it gives me the feel. I laugh....cry...butterfly....
That is all that matters is that it brings you joy
*never forget about the guy talking/yelling at a pole*
"I just want to know who hurt him"
Many ppl don't have an explanation why. It is easier to avoid things. Pretend it didn't happen.
That is why ppl ghost ppl. Easier and it avoids confrontation.
What that song...someone i use to know....and Savage love * comes to mind
She has self-hatred. She is hiding and avoiding confrontation. It is easier to self inflicted herself than to deal with anything. She is a coward....
I cheered him on when he was able to let out that anger.
If you watch it just as is....
I find ppl don't have an open mind or emphaty to understand.
You don't always have to agree with the characters actions to agree.
She told us she has self hatred.
It is part of a disorder. I posted it on few comments.
Self destructions.
I hope the writer gives us more..
Self growth and better communication.
I'm not here to judge.
I am enjoying it. It makes me laugh...cry and have butterfly.
We are rule by our emotions.
It ia doing well on Netflix. Many ppl are enjoying their portrayal.
It won't be a cup for many....no drama will.
Enjoy it ...it gives you the feels. No need to justify
I dunno why some ppl linger and repeat thr same critque....when they don't enjoy it....if you don't get it...vibe/ click....
If it don't bring you joy...then it is pointless
Rating here to me is invalid.
You either enjoy (vibe/click) with a drama or you don't.
All good...no biggy....i like to only spend time on a drama forum i enjoy.
If it don't bring you joy (of watching) then there is no point/wasteful
Self hatred
Common challenges in BPD include:
instability in relationships with others
intense emotions, such as anger and low mood
sudden shifts in self-image (regarding values or career plans, for example)
impulsive and damaging behaviors, which can include substance misuse or impulsive spending
self-harm and, for some people, suicidal thoughts or actions
What is the point of her saying anything. She wanted it to be over.
BPD (self hatred/ mood)
problems with relationships (fears of abandonment; unstable relationships)
unstable emotions (frequent emotional ups and downs; high emotional sensitivity)
unstable identity (unclear sense of self; chronic feelings of emptiness)
impulsive and self-damaging behaviours (impulsive behaviour; self-injury or suicidal behaviour)
unstable thinking/cognition (suspiciousness; tendency to dissociate when under stress)2
I know it won't address it because it is a romcom at the end. They use have their foot in the water.
Run on don't fully address it either....but the ML is diff. On the spectrum.
DAN has trauma/anxiety and I'm sure other stuff too
This is a person's experience/ feeling with her self hatred
Self-hatred is also a symptom of many personality disorders, including borderline personality disorder, as well as mood disorders like depression. It can also be linked to guilt for someone's own actions that they view as wrongful, e.g., survivor guilt.
****MANY PPL DON'T RECOGNIZE OR ACKNOWLEDGE IT. They don't seek help and self medicate with an inflicting of pain/self destructions *** denial....
Self-Loathing and Bipolar Disorder
Most of us understand the basics of self-loathing. We all know people who have doubted themselves at some point in their lives and self-loathing is the extreme of that. People with bipolar disorder often hate themselves.
In other words, we believe we are worthless, incapable, and can’t succeed. We are angry because of our misery.
And, if it wasn’t bad enough that we believe it about ourselves, society reinforces that belief. We live in a society that very much dislikes open displays and/or discussions of anger.
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Evidence-based guidance, up-to-date resources, and first-hand accounts to help you in your mental health journey.
What is Observed as Bipolar Anger is Often Self-Loathing
When the average person observes someone with bipolar who is angry, they assume the anger is directed at them. Angry people in our culture is looked upon as being bad. Anger is considered a negative emotion because we tend to classify emotions in this way. Adding moral judgement to feelings often creates more problems than it solves.
Since most people are uncomfortable with anger, they become anxious around angry people, considering them a threat. Add on our culture’s misconceptions about both bipolar disorder and anger and it’s unsurprising when negative outcomes occur.
A person in crisis is going to be perceived as bad, no help will be forthcoming, and that self-hatred will be reinforced. Those who witness the outburst often distances themselves from the person suffering. This further isolates an already desperate individual, often sinking them deeper into depression and preventing them from getting well.
The fact remains that most people don’t live with bipolar disorder. It is, thankfully, relatively uncommon, affecting about 4% of the population. Given America’s lack of mental health education, it isn’t remotely surprising that these ”misunderstandings” occur.
****If we are honest with ourselves, we must admit that these “misunderstandings” are purely due to our own ignorance, which is far to often due to not wanting to understand.***
An explanation ....not an excuse for her behavior. We'll see where it goes...if they build more on it and character growth
This at the end is a romcom with underlying issues...which they won't fully address because at the end it is a romcom.
Someone commented they were promised a romcom but got angst
.....hahaha....
There is lot of funny moments. At the end this is a romcom and i know they won't fully address major mental health issues.
In run on. The ML is clearly on the spectrum like ParkGum character in reply 1988.
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/9670
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/self-hatred
https://psychcentral.com/blog/bipolar-disorder-anger-and-self-loathing
Self-hatred is also a symptom of many personality disorders, including borderline personality disorder, as well as mood disorders like depression. It can also be linked to guilt for someone's own actions that they view as wrongful, e.g., survivor guilt.