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agree. I understand RY. But i don't justify his behaviors.
His repeated for them all to learn. All 3 were pitiful . But JM & XF didn't turn dark ...manipulate and killed

RY did so with malice intent. He went dark. He imprisoned JM and force his will on her. How is that ok? Him became like the Queen that he hated.

Phoenix thinking JM don't love him. Pushes her away. He only wants to be with her if it is mutual.


Just because we like or understand them. It doesn't justify them. So RY is justify for his evil deeds doe killing innocent ppl on purpose and we are condemning XF because he battle in war....sounds bias as well

he didn't care about his fiancée....he didn't wait for her....when he found out it was someone he liked...then he took possession because he felt it is his.

No one belongs to anyone.

Look at the queen...forcing it and is miserable.

He did so sneakily....he clearly has malice intent...he turned dark. He became like the ppl he despise (the king and queen). No excuse for his behaviors.


One came understand and be compassionate but to justify his malice intent...

I work mental health. There is No excuse/justification for those type of behaviors no matter what traumatic experiences one may face.

Other face traumatic experiences and dont CHOSE to do that.

One can understand why....but it doesn't make the malicious behaviors ok.

where are people watching this with eng sub?

Happy ending?

this drama rate #6

https://youtu.be/WtEewKIhH54

i felt like it is. There a big craze and it is so popular...like pillow with yang mi....i tried to watch that 1 and didn't get into it.

They were all manipulated.

The issues is the continuation of it....

An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.

I understand Run Yu....but what he did isn’t ok.

I used this example on other post.

I work with mental health


My client (kid) hit another peer on the bus. Mom started to rationale it. Maybe they were playing a game like boys do. Maybe that kid antagonize him...ect...

I told mom...i understand the rationale but that doesn't mean his behaviors were ok to do. There is no justifications for hitting that other peer.

Understanding why they did it....it great....but it doesn't mean it was ok to do

I'm not a fan of melo either....i might come back to it when it is completed

Mmmmm....i loathe love triangles...

Thx

I didn't watch the infamous untamed .....lol don't flame me

urg....love triangles.....i hope it is not the typical kind and ML is firm.....also...this is a noona romance?

I wouldn't do the same thing he does . Some may and some don't.

Yes the evil parents and peacocks girl has no justifications.

She did not say his love isn’t genuine...but rather selfish. Thanks for not excusing and justifying the bad behaviors. YES he been bully but XF would defend him when his mom is doing so, but he can do so much. Even with JM ..XF has to follow the rules as well...

He is a great character. Complex. Again it is not an excuse nor justifications for his behaviors when he turn dark. I understand him but i will not excuse the behaviors.

I.e. i work with Mental health. The kiddo got in trouble for hitting another kid.

Mom then started to rationale it and make excuse. You know boys nowadays play tbose games where they hit each other/rough. Maybe that kid did this and that and he react.

I understand why he did it. BUT that doesn’t make it right or ok.

That why many ppl love his character. It complex....but it doesn't excuse or justify his character. We can't blindly excuse what he did when he went to the dark side just because we like them.

I like him too. But i won't justify or excuse his behaviors.

I feel his character is so great because of the change....then growth

Love your comment. I see lots of bias comment and excuses just because they like run yun.

I like him to ....actually i felt his actjng is so great because of how his character turned out. He crossed the line....he turned to what he hated.

Although i like him...i don't make excuses and justify his behaviors and blame XF.

the person who fit her love...is the one she loves.

I disagree. Xu Feng did not use her when he found out the truth. He was murdered by her, from someone he thought loved him. He didn't engage in her confessing and just accept what she said. What proof does she have? He hurt himself as much as he hurt her.

RUN yu has a tragic past but Xu F. And him never had an issue with each other until JM. I feel for his past but that does not justify what he end up doing. His character crossed the line.

I grew up in a crappy childhood ...traumatic experiences....i never chose to do things that is bad (drug...ect). You're situations don't determined what you chose.

I.e. a common story ppl share...2 children born to a drunk father....1 chose to not be that way and strive
To succeed and another brcame a drunk.

So it is not the situation but the person. Those things are catalyst