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"Does cinema imitate life ? Or does life imitate cinema ?" (episode 6)
As a good Proustian, I would say that we waste our life by imagining that we can understand it, by imagining that we can attain a non-existent truth, and that art allows us to grasp perhaps a part of it, but it is already too late. And it won't change anything. We cling on anyway, wanting to find some meaning in this life. What's more, the series is about love, loss and grief, which is perfect for illustrating this, this time wasted searching for it, in vain.
In any case, I wasn't expecting such a sad story ! The older brother, Jun, poor guy, he does his best, but there comes a point when something breaks and can't be fixed. The sacrificial brother, alone even when surrounded by others, carrying the weight of the world on his shoulders, drifting through life like a breeze, acting as if he were about to die. "I knew nothing about my brother. He was never surprised by anything. He was never really happy. It was as if he had never had the will to live." It was this little brother who gave meaning to the futility of his existence, just as Proust's brother cared for him, just as Van Gogh's brother supported him. And one day, there is nothing left. He can no longer even live for others. When Moo-bi tells Ko Gyeom that this brother is not like the one he had described to her with such admiration, that's Proustian too. Robert de Saint Loup is a totally different person depending on who is talking about him or with him, the narrator's best friend, and yet he knew him so little. "I knew nothing about my brother", indeed.
Strangely enough, this series about the film industry says little about cinema, films or the industry itself. Well, actually, it does mention two deaths at work due to overwork, but then it moves on to other things. These things happen, after all... Still, it's frustrating to see this topic given so little attention in a series about a female director. Let's just say that's not really the subject of this K-drama ; it's more about the impact of grief on people's lives, those of Kim Moo-bi and Ko Gyeom.
Park Bo-Young, this actress, after seeing “Our Unwritten Seoul”, her voice alone is enough to bring me to tears. Terrible. What's more, her character still has to go through a rough patch. Poor thing. In the first episode, Choi Woo-sik/Ko Gyeom insists excessively, even though Park Bo-young/Moo-bi tells him several times to leave her alone. That's always annoying. But we appreciate that in the end, she's the one who initiates the first kiss, and the absence of music before, during and after, just the moment and the breathing.
In the same vein, it's nice to see the two brothers talking together about their feelings, how they feel. Let's normalise seeing men confide in each other about their emotions. Let's normalise seeing characters communicate in K-dramas, for real. In that sense, the confession scene in the car in the last episode is good to see, a truly sincere and attentive exchange.
Despite all this sadness, there are some cute and funny moments in store for us. The old, crafty director with his awful shoes is great, kind and inspiring. The little game played by the neighbours, who avoid each other but spy on each other at the same time, is just too adorable. And not creepy.
On the other hand, the other couple is exhausting to watch. He doesn't listen to his partner when she says she has a dream ; in fact, nobody cares ! They don't even ask her what it is. When she realises it, we understand that it was to become a screenwriter. And he, an unsuccessful composer, resents her, full of bitterness. Run away, madam ! You can't afford the luxury of 'fixing' him. Let it go ! His rich parents support him and he finds a way to wallow in his misery, to see himself as a victim, abandoned for no reason. Don't let yourself be dragged into the abyss by this kind of privileged person. He wears a jumper with “this is over” written on it : a sign.
He never put much effort into their relationship ; she did everything, she chose him, she supported him, and he just let her do it. But he never forgot to demand that she support him morally in his choices, even if it meant jeopardising her career. A mediocre bloke.
And yet, we discover that he is caring when his friend is in dire straits. The series may tell us more about him, as if something were going to redeem him... but no, stop that right now. It costs Son Ju-a much more to leave him, and we don't even hear about her ? Her point of view is to talk about him, never about her. She wanted the best for him and he felt suffocated, the selfish man. She finds him a job for his film, years after they broke up, she even comments on his songs on SoundCloud, she supports him all the time. A one-sided investment. He wants to get back together with her, but he remains the same, no change. Oh, that annoyed me. "We were a great couple" not really, no. Thank God they don't end up together. The threat hung over us the whole time.
Ultimately, both couples illustrate the idea presented at the very beginning : having a soft spot for small, defenceless things and the fear of being abandoned. And be abandoned.
"Aren't you tired of watching films all day ?" (episode 1)
"He says that from now on, the only film in his life is me." (final episode)
Ps : Park Bo-Young wears a sweatshirt with the French words "contre les coutumes, mais romantique et sensible. Nouvelle Vague" (against customs, but romantic and sensitive. French New Wave) written on it. And Choi Woo-sik wears one with the French word "ami" (friend) written on it. Quite a programme.
Ps 2 :Muvee's friend is a Gundam fan, a man of taste.
Ps 3 : Ko Gyeom, I'm warning you, if your four favourite films on Letterboxd are Kill Bill, Inception, Fight Club and Taxi Driver, things are going to go badly.
As a good Proustian, I would say that we waste our life by imagining that we can understand it, by imagining that we can attain a non-existent truth, and that art allows us to grasp perhaps a part of it, but it is already too late. And it won't change anything. We cling on anyway, wanting to find some meaning in this life. What's more, the series is about love, loss and grief, which is perfect for illustrating this, this time wasted searching for it, in vain.
In any case, I wasn't expecting such a sad story ! The older brother, Jun, poor guy, he does his best, but there comes a point when something breaks and can't be fixed. The sacrificial brother, alone even when surrounded by others, carrying the weight of the world on his shoulders, drifting through life like a breeze, acting as if he were about to die. "I knew nothing about my brother. He was never surprised by anything. He was never really happy. It was as if he had never had the will to live." It was this little brother who gave meaning to the futility of his existence, just as Proust's brother cared for him, just as Van Gogh's brother supported him. And one day, there is nothing left. He can no longer even live for others. When Moo-bi tells Ko Gyeom that this brother is not like the one he had described to her with such admiration, that's Proustian too. Robert de Saint Loup is a totally different person depending on who is talking about him or with him, the narrator's best friend, and yet he knew him so little. "I knew nothing about my brother", indeed.
Strangely enough, this series about the film industry says little about cinema, films or the industry itself. Well, actually, it does mention two deaths at work due to overwork, but then it moves on to other things. These things happen, after all... Still, it's frustrating to see this topic given so little attention in a series about a female director. Let's just say that's not really the subject of this K-drama ; it's more about the impact of grief on people's lives, those of Kim Moo-bi and Ko Gyeom.
Park Bo-Young, this actress, after seeing “Our Unwritten Seoul”, her voice alone is enough to bring me to tears. Terrible. What's more, her character still has to go through a rough patch. Poor thing. In the first episode, Choi Woo-sik/Ko Gyeom insists excessively, even though Park Bo-young/Moo-bi tells him several times to leave her alone. That's always annoying. But we appreciate that in the end, she's the one who initiates the first kiss, and the absence of music before, during and after, just the moment and the breathing.
In the same vein, it's nice to see the two brothers talking together about their feelings, how they feel. Let's normalise seeing men confide in each other about their emotions. Let's normalise seeing characters communicate in K-dramas, for real. In that sense, the confession scene in the car in the last episode is good to see, a truly sincere and attentive exchange.
Despite all this sadness, there are some cute and funny moments in store for us. The old, crafty director with his awful shoes is great, kind and inspiring. The little game played by the neighbours, who avoid each other but spy on each other at the same time, is just too adorable. And not creepy.
On the other hand, the other couple is exhausting to watch. He doesn't listen to his partner when she says she has a dream ; in fact, nobody cares ! They don't even ask her what it is. When she realises it, we understand that it was to become a screenwriter. And he, an unsuccessful composer, resents her, full of bitterness. Run away, madam ! You can't afford the luxury of 'fixing' him. Let it go ! His rich parents support him and he finds a way to wallow in his misery, to see himself as a victim, abandoned for no reason. Don't let yourself be dragged into the abyss by this kind of privileged person. He wears a jumper with “this is over” written on it : a sign.
He never put much effort into their relationship ; she did everything, she chose him, she supported him, and he just let her do it. But he never forgot to demand that she support him morally in his choices, even if it meant jeopardising her career. A mediocre bloke.
And yet, we discover that he is caring when his friend is in dire straits. The series may tell us more about him, as if something were going to redeem him... but no, stop that right now. It costs Son Ju-a much more to leave him, and we don't even hear about her ? Her point of view is to talk about him, never about her. She wanted the best for him and he felt suffocated, the selfish man. She finds him a job for his film, years after they broke up, she even comments on his songs on SoundCloud, she supports him all the time. A one-sided investment. He wants to get back together with her, but he remains the same, no change. Oh, that annoyed me. "We were a great couple" not really, no. Thank God they don't end up together. The threat hung over us the whole time.
Ultimately, both couples illustrate the idea presented at the very beginning : having a soft spot for small, defenceless things and the fear of being abandoned. And be abandoned.
"Aren't you tired of watching films all day ?" (episode 1)
"He says that from now on, the only film in his life is me." (final episode)
Ps : Park Bo-Young wears a sweatshirt with the French words "contre les coutumes, mais romantique et sensible. Nouvelle Vague" (against customs, but romantic and sensitive. French New Wave) written on it. And Choi Woo-sik wears one with the French word "ami" (friend) written on it. Quite a programme.
Ps 2 :Muvee's friend is a Gundam fan, a man of taste.
Ps 3 : Ko Gyeom, I'm warning you, if your four favourite films on Letterboxd are Kill Bill, Inception, Fight Club and Taxi Driver, things are going to go badly.
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