Sapphicace

In the bad buddy comment section I actually mentioned what I liked about bad buddy as well. And in the second comment on this thread I acknowledged that I could have worded myself better. I wish you would also self-reflect a bit.

Sidenote:
It is not good to judge a relationship toxic as a while becasue of some singular moments. hia lian and Kuea obviously had their issues but they solved them in the end by communicating. I still understand that the show is not for everyone. I mean there was minumal plot and if you don’t like the characters tjen there is just no way you would enjoy the show.

And despite what you might think,I do not have anything personal against you and really hope you can find BLs that you think are helathy (if that is what you prefer).

Life is better spent on something you love😉Hope you can move on to shows that are actually to your liking.

I do agree that many critical comments do have merit in them. You are just plain hating and attacking though. My point was that I expected older people to not engage in such
behavior due to having reached a certain level of maturity. You think cutie pie is toxic? Totally fine. Commenting under every positive comment on the cutie pie thread negatively:not okay. I just find it really mindblowing that people are so hung up on the supposed toxicity of this no-brainer show when there are shows like Tharntype and sotus out there. Not to mention the homophobic cast of love by chance.

It was not just the single words being used but the overall manner of expression and content. Many people with whom I do not agree have been able to comment
on this thread in a constructive manner. I well am aware though that I cannot expect everyone to be able to do that.

It was not just the single words being used but the overall manner of expression and content. Many people with whom I do not agree have been able to comment
on this thread in a constructive manner. I well am aware though that I cannot expect everyone to be able to do that.

And that Mike? was not talking about me, but refferring to another user.

The first comment on this long thread (and another one in another drama page) were my first comments on this site.

I did not comment on KP page, I do not want to get so many notifications anymore.

Did you read all the replies? Some people were definetly going overboard.

The thread on the cutie pie page has gotten really polarized, with basically everyone with the same opinion ganging up and going against each other just on principle. Sad that you think this is just solely a
problem
stemming from me :(

Sorry about the long threads, I try not to reply anymore. I’m new here so everytime I see a new reply notification I feel obliged to reply.

That being said I also wish that people would stop replying and leave this be now.

Did you notice that Suibian and a couple of others who keep replying to this thread with not so constructive comments have been commenting negatively under every positive review of cutie pie. It is one thing to leave one critical comment and answer to any replies to that but what is the point on spending so much time on the cutie pie page if they did not like the show? That is not just criticism anymore but entering hate territory.

Also, I noticed that many people writing to this thread have been making negative comments under every positive comment they see. That is getting close to hate ik my opinion. If you do not like a show leave one negative review and after that move on to things that you actually like. What is the point to staty on the cutie pie page everyday if the show was not to their liking? When I don’t like a show I might leave one critical comment that still points out the positives as well. I do not go and reply to every positive comment with a negative one😅that is not criticism anymore

Btw may I ask what you did your Phd thesis on? :)I’m still doing my master’s, which is about women in the Japanese far right organization Nippon kaigi.

See my reply to Emarasign:)

Thank you for your encouragement! It has been quite hectic and after researching the Japanese far right movement at the end of the day I just want to eatch something not-so plotty so that I can unwind and turn off my brain for a bit, hencr I enjoyed Cutie pie:)

As fir the first part of your reply I felt that that particular commentor has been very immature with their repeated ”toxic,toxic,toxi
c”, and in general their tone came across as very attacking.

You have on the other hand have been reasonable in your replies, so do not worry. I really appreciate it even though we have things we do not agree on. I was actually surprised you did not pick up on attacking tone of some comments, but maybe you just did not want to say anything. The user I just replied to came across as super immature so I was surprised by the age
claim.

I wanted to exit this trainwreck of a conversation but I just really have to ask: Are you really almost 40? What’s up with all the ”yo”s and ”bros”:D My initial guess based on the use of language would have been under 16.

Thank you. I really did not expect my first review on this site to get this many replies. Quite frankly it stresses me out. I think I’ll take a break from MDL for a while now.

Thank you everyone who left a constructive reply. People here were very reasonable. In the Cutie pie section everyone is coming for my throatXD did not expect this much of a reaction after my first ever reviews. maybe I should go back to being a silent lurker as previously:D

This is not directed at you in particular but I don’t have the energy to reply to everyone here. Did not expect 9 replies while I was working on my thesisXD

Regarding the ”consent issue” I would like to mention that me and my girlfriend kiss sometimes while we are drunk, but never have we ever considered ourselves to be in a toxic relationship because of this. I guess what I’m trying to say is that it feels to me that some peiple hold BL characters to impossible standards when ppl in the LGBT community often try some new and kinky stuff at the spur of the moment. Fortunately my ace ass will not have to worry about these
things tho:D

This will be my final reply as I need to finish my thesis instead of replying to everyone one by one. I apologize if I hurt someone’s feelings and let’s just agree to disagee and leave it at that.

I wouldn’t say Bad buddy is enemies-to -lovers, more like rivals-to -lovers. I agree with you on there being plot holes in cutie pie tho.