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Everyone Is Fighting with Their Own Worthlessness
I wasn’t planning on writing a review for this one but after finishing it, I’m almost in awe. I haven’t cried this much when watching a drama in a long time.
The writing and the storytelling are so beautiful. It makes you think, it makes you feel and it makes you empathize. The characters are flawed; at times they are cool, at times they are pathetic but mostly, they are just humans. They have their good, bad, best and worst moments. No one is a saint or purely evil, they are just trying - trying to live their life in the way they best know how. And its titles really capture the essence of this drama.
Hwang Dongman is an eccentric character. He is not very likable at first, second or even third glance. It’s almost understandable why everyone dislikes him. But is it? The more you know him, the more you understand why he is like that. He is like a mirror who reflects other’s feelings and actions towards him and amplifies them. The more people drive him into a corner, the harder he fights back, and the more people try to make him smaller, the louder he becomes. It’s as if he’s trapped into a vicious loop of negatively fueled by his own worthlessness and other’s contempt until he meets Euna who finally breaks that cycle.
Byun Euna is also someone trapped in her own trauma. She is a person full of brilliance and light but is scared to shine because she can’t let go of the people who hurt her. She lives with one foot in her past and every time someone hurts her, she is pushed back into the time when she was alone and helpless. She traps all her emotions - her pain, her hatred and hurt inside her until it grows out of control and hurts herself. Euna calls that emotion self-destruction while Dongman calls it a cry for help and slowly, she learns to fight back and channel her emotions outside instead of letting it fester inside her.
Dongman and Euna's relationship is heartfelt and raw. They found each other like a lifeboat at a time when they were both drowning. They gave each other a moment to breathe and to gather the strength to swim again. For once, they felt seen, they felt heard and found comfort in someone else’s presence.
Park Gyeongse and Ko Hyejin are characters I honestly didn't expect to like but ended up loving so much. Ko Hyejin is such a strong and amazing woman. She isn’t perfect but she has her priorities straight and sees people for who they are without the sugar-coating or being unfair. Park Gyeongse is, in all honesty pathetic but just so real. His writing is beautifully layered and executed so well that you can’t help but empathize with him. The same goes for the rest of the characters too. All of them are flawed but really, they are just struggling too.
Overall, everything in this drama just works. The production is incredible, the writing and the storytelling are beautiful, the acting is phenomenal, the osts are fitting, the comedy delivers and the emotions are felt. We Are All Trying Here is one of those dramas that lingers and stays with you long after you finished watching it and personally, it’s the best kdrama I have watched this year.
The writing and the storytelling are so beautiful. It makes you think, it makes you feel and it makes you empathize. The characters are flawed; at times they are cool, at times they are pathetic but mostly, they are just humans. They have their good, bad, best and worst moments. No one is a saint or purely evil, they are just trying - trying to live their life in the way they best know how. And its titles really capture the essence of this drama.
Hwang Dongman is an eccentric character. He is not very likable at first, second or even third glance. It’s almost understandable why everyone dislikes him. But is it? The more you know him, the more you understand why he is like that. He is like a mirror who reflects other’s feelings and actions towards him and amplifies them. The more people drive him into a corner, the harder he fights back, and the more people try to make him smaller, the louder he becomes. It’s as if he’s trapped into a vicious loop of negatively fueled by his own worthlessness and other’s contempt until he meets Euna who finally breaks that cycle.
Byun Euna is also someone trapped in her own trauma. She is a person full of brilliance and light but is scared to shine because she can’t let go of the people who hurt her. She lives with one foot in her past and every time someone hurts her, she is pushed back into the time when she was alone and helpless. She traps all her emotions - her pain, her hatred and hurt inside her until it grows out of control and hurts herself. Euna calls that emotion self-destruction while Dongman calls it a cry for help and slowly, she learns to fight back and channel her emotions outside instead of letting it fester inside her.
Dongman and Euna's relationship is heartfelt and raw. They found each other like a lifeboat at a time when they were both drowning. They gave each other a moment to breathe and to gather the strength to swim again. For once, they felt seen, they felt heard and found comfort in someone else’s presence.
Park Gyeongse and Ko Hyejin are characters I honestly didn't expect to like but ended up loving so much. Ko Hyejin is such a strong and amazing woman. She isn’t perfect but she has her priorities straight and sees people for who they are without the sugar-coating or being unfair. Park Gyeongse is, in all honesty pathetic but just so real. His writing is beautifully layered and executed so well that you can’t help but empathize with him. The same goes for the rest of the characters too. All of them are flawed but really, they are just struggling too.
Overall, everything in this drama just works. The production is incredible, the writing and the storytelling are beautiful, the acting is phenomenal, the osts are fitting, the comedy delivers and the emotions are felt. We Are All Trying Here is one of those dramas that lingers and stays with you long after you finished watching it and personally, it’s the best kdrama I have watched this year.
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