Yes, as much as he claims to love XY, he will also not hesitate to do the most hurtful things to her. Grandad is right, he needs to curb his control freak tendencies.
So many people here are entirely missing the point of Jings character and their specific love. What a shame.And…
This be true. I can understand the author's intentions - she wanted to create a character that would act as a stark counterpoint to the other men in XY's life who have other worldly ambitions or loyalties. Given XY's PTSD and abandonment issues, it's completely understandable that she will gravitate to someone like TSJ whose heart is only big enough to contain her and not the world.
It's wrong to say that TSJ has no personality. In fact, the author wanted to portray a man that would not repay violence with violence and take an eye for an eye. This can also be seen as a strength. But this characterisation is really hard to pull off, and I do wonder if another actor would be able to tread this fine line a little better. When I watched Yan Lin in SOKP, it did occur to me that here was the type of noble strength that should shine out from TSJ. And I also have been wondering how someone like Luo Yun Xi would play this. I think we also do not get to see TSJ showing how effective he is in the world of business and as a clan leader. We only get to see him seemingly paralysed in the face of family ties and affections. But if he is really the chosen one with nine tails etc, then they ought to try to convince us more of his qualities, and he is shortchanged in this.
Poor XY. At times think she should just stab all the doofuses around her and go off and live a life without them. Each of them are so frustrating in their own way.
For someone like Xiao Yao, who went through so much, a person with “no personality” like Jing, who gives her…
Yes, it is the most rational choice in many ways, esp as the other 2 have strong preoccupations and obsessions. But TSJ's constant turning of the other cheek is truly extreme. Makes me wonder how he can be a successful businessman and leader of his clan.
The poor mum - everyday a different shock awaits her 😂. Couldn’t see any trailers, can’t wait to see how JXB explains this surprise popping out of the closet.
I like LR more and more. She is aware of her own worth without going delulu overboard. Her blind spot may have been SRQ in previous life, but hopefully she won’t let her guard down in this life.
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It's wrong to say that TSJ has no personality. In fact, the author wanted to portray a man that would not repay violence with violence and take an eye for an eye. This can also be seen as a strength. But this characterisation is really hard to pull off, and I do wonder if another actor would be able to tread this fine line a little better. When I watched Yan Lin in SOKP, it did occur to me that here was the type of noble strength that should shine out from TSJ. And I also have been wondering how someone like Luo Yun Xi would play this. I think we also do not get to see TSJ showing how effective he is in the world of business and as a clan leader. We only get to see him seemingly paralysed in the face of family ties and affections. But if he is really the chosen one with nine tails etc, then they ought to try to convince us more of his qualities, and he is shortchanged in this.