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I loved Go Ahead - I hope this can do it justice.

Was that scene of JA wondering why CY hadn’t called a memory loss scene for JA? She literally told KS the night before she was going to be patient and wait for EA, but then the next day she isn’t well and was wondering why CY hadn’t called her….like she didn’t remember any of her conversation with KS. If these writers make her character have a brain tumor I am gonna be so angry but it feels like there are lapses in JA’s brain - her thinking is just really off.

It was the perfect time for ES to say “I am waiting for my boyfriend, your son, to get here. He’s meeting me here.” But she won’t say a word.

We, as an audience, should have a good idea where this whole story is going at this point.

I despise pretty much everyone except SW, SJ, GR, and EH. ES is “ok” but she is spineless like her dad right now.

He could be - but I think his age is what makes the difference. If he is really 32, then JS had him when she was 17-18. If he 34 then it would be 15-16. It is more likely if he is really 32 (if JA is remembering his age wrong) - if it’s correct and they just aged him 2 years then the writers decided to make it impossible for him to be JS’s son. Does that make sense? We know JA said JS eloped with Tae Ho at some point - when, we don’t know.

Even if the timeline is ok it couldn’t be ES because ES was born 7 years after EH - she wouldn’t have been thought of at that point.

I still think it is highly possible SW is JS’s son with Tae Ho. I may end up eating that theory later. SJ, I believe may be adopted. The scene where she asks her mom if KS is really her dad a look of panic crosses JA’s face for a split second before she hits SJ on the head and tells her she is a troublemaker.right after that SJ is telling ES on the phone she wants to get a DNA test done because she is convinced her dad isn’t her dad. So I am thinking yeah, she is right, he probably is not her dad. And JA is probably not her mom. I think this is why this family is not close - the parents never bonded with these two kids. JS seems to show more concern for them at times than JA and KS ever do.

Here is another question about SW and his family - do they even KNOW what happened to SW in the US? Did they not see the news in Korea where that jerk blasted SW publicly? They watch TV so how could they not know? KS’s Secretary seems to know everything about EA and EH but not SW? If they knew, why haven’t they asked him about it? HY was responsible for that embarrassment to SW - they should know about what happened and who allowed it to happen. Why doesn’t SJ ow? JS? Is this whole family just blind when it comes to each other? Is it because SW was gone for half his own life that they have all just forgotten he is a part of their family? It’s so weird that they didn’t see or read anything about considering the room was FULL of reporters!

HY will drop her obsession like a hot potato when she finds out SW is not JA’s son and most likely isn’t KS’s either - if he is adopted she won’t want any part of the…hello EH.

I see no bond between SW and either parent whatsoever - the dad has said several times to SJ”if you weren’t my child….” Even said the way she acted made him hate her - who says that to their child?? I think JA has never bonded because she was so stuck in the loss of EH and EA - she clearly doesn’t “see” her other two children. The only time we see this family talk is at the dinner table and even then it is mostly JS and JA, or SW and SJ talking to each other. Something very definitely is off in that family dynamic. When SW returns home we never saw JA hugging him and being all clingy with him like she is with EH. Yes, I realize she hadn’t seen EH in 30 years, but if SW never came home for visits, he was gone for 17 years - you’d think JA would have been a lot more loving like she was with EH. But there just isn’t anything there. If this is how life was for SW for the first 17 years of his life, no wonder he left at 17 and stayed gone. He is like a stranger in that house. He must be very very lonely.

The problem is as i stated below - SW is not JA’s son, nor do i believe he is KS’s son. To me there seems to be no bonding from either parent in SW’s family with either kid. Why? I don't know. Maybe, as someone pointed out earlier, JA closed her heart off after losing EH and EA. In any case, she is flat out wrong for treating ES like crap and she will regret it eventually. I still believe we are going to see BOTH women used/will use the kids to keep sniping at each other.

Well we know SW is not hers, maybe SJ isnt either.

There really is no child/parent bond with JA and SW/SJ. She doesnt connect with them. And i really see no connection of SW with anyone in his family. He was gone abroad for 17 years. Did he ever come home for visits? Seems like neither parent really talks to him.

JA gonna regret treating ES badly. She will lose SW over it.

I agree - but to be fair, And I know you don’t care for JA much, but her last and only memory of her kids are of them as kids - she has to reconcile they are grown adults now. Her only memories are of a 3 year old and a 5 year old. It’s going to be hard for her to not be a helicopter mom with EH - especially with him being a cop - she is going to want to smother him with love and attention and worry about something happening to him - she has been very traumatized by her 30+ year loss of her children - we have seen this in how upset she has been when remembering them. And we know that the more adults dwell on things in the past, the more they tend to get distorted. She needs more time to come to terms with them as adults. I just wish the two women would get along and that CY will be willing to share pictures and stories of them growing up - JA has missed out on their whole lives.

I think you are on to something with the memory loss - this may be why SW;s age changed - and why in ep 28 we get 3 different timelines from 3 different sources, on the same day, when JA goes looking for her kids after she gets out of the hospital. I just hope they don’t have her develop brain cancer out of all of this and use that to reconcile CY and her in the end. Let’s hope the writer’s aren’t that cruel.

I found it interesting that the fraudulent landlord’s name was Chul - CY dated a guy named Yoon Chul , who was rich, before she got with DG. Coincidence? I even wondered if this dude might be Tae Ho too. 😂 or just a way to get her in the same house with JA. Not sure where they are going with this story - I even wondered if gramps has an empty room he wants to rent out and JS will be the tenant but they haven’t mentioned anything like that…so this storyline seems a bit strange right now.

She has already admitted to it several times. Like LA Drama said previously - it is not a misunderstanding to have a married man at your house whether all night or even an hour and have his wife show up to find you holding hands….i know some people are saying JS lied about him being gone all night but I don’t think so - DG seemed shocked when he found out JS never communicated anything to JA and he even asked JA “what grudge does JS have against me that she would do such a thing?” - and we know from JS’s thoughts that she believes DG cheated on JA - so I do believe he was with CY all night or most of it. As a married man, if he was just there to “comfort” a friend, then he should have had his wife go with him. Do I believe they slept together? I don’t. But I believe DG was having an emotional affair - his emotions were with CY and not his wife. To me that is worse because with sex you can at least say it was lust - not saying it is right but lust is just attraction sexually - DG was invested emotionally with CY - that means his heart and love was with her and not the woman he was married to and had children with. The fact that CY admits she “touched” their marriage (or meddled in as LA Drama said) and watched it crumble says a lot about her motives - she knew there were kids involved, yet she did it anyway. This is why I have a hard time feeling sad for her. She deliberately broke up a family. If she thought the marriage was that broken she should have waited for it to end then pursued DG - not help it finish crumbling, leave 2 kids without a mom, then swoop in for the kill.

Another snag in this timeline:

In Ep 39 - I didn’t catch it until I rewatched it again tonight - DG tells EH he met CY when she was 20. Here is the problem with that - JA is 2 years older than CY - so JA was 22 at the time. JA was 22 when she had EA - JA is now 59, EA is 37 - 22 years apart.

What. The. Heck. Are they going to now adjust the adult’s ages too in order to fit this around a no cheating timeline? Or are they going to say DG met CY, fell in love, they broke up all within a 1-3 month timeframe and he got with JA and she got pregnant and he married her? Or was he already married to JA when he met CY? Or was he at least dating JA when he met CY so he was seeing CY behind JA’s back even then? What a terrible mess.

From his story to EH it seems as if the 1-3 month timeframe is what happened if we believe DG didn’t two-time CY. So if that is the case, then he only married JA out of obligation because of a pregnancy. He probably never loved JA. This would make sense as to why the marriage was deemed already “broken” by CY and she knew her chances of crumbling it were good because she knew DG only married JA because she was pregnant….it fits…hope we know more of their background soon.

Ep 18 - CY tells ES about her past love and how she fell for DG
Ep 39 - DG tells EH about CY’s past love ( same guy that CY mentions to ES in ep 18 so we know DG is talking about CY and not JA with EH) and how he met her and fell in love with her.

I dont expect DG to tell the truth.