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No I enjoyed this debate cause it did bring out something that was on the back of my mind. Since Third kissed Wan he has been trying to have sex with him and Wan kept telling him he is moving fast. So I do see why he comes off as pushy. Seems he is too eager to have his energy returned by Wan while also trying to remain patient and mindful of Wan. I like how he always checks on him by affirming his trust and even during foreplay he made sure to ask if it was okay to proceed, cause while his desires are leading him he lets Wan have the last word

Third wants Wan so bad he subconsciously slept on his ass.

I do get where you come from, I also think Third is rushing a bit. I mean the first time he confessed and kissed him he put his hand underneath Wan's shirt, indicating that he was ready to take things further immediately, whereas Wan stopped him and he continuously rejected any advances that could lead to sex, I think that's part of the reason why he confessed again and asked him out officially and previously asked him if Wan trusts him. Maybe in his mind he wants to prove that he is sincere so he tries to make Wan feel at ease while trying to get him to stop being shy and be more accepting of his advances since Wan always admits that he likes it whenever Wan asks him. It might come off as casual but Third asking Wan if he likes the way he flirts with him is important to get to understand and Respect Wan. I know Third might come off as pushy but I believe if Wan didn't like something he would stop doing it, I think that is his way of making Wan more comfortable around him since Third is already completely comfortable around Wan so I think he wants the same to be true for Wan.

people on tik tok and twitter saying episode 11 is supposed to have a freakier scene, I cannot imagine any other scene topping this one, will they give me a heart attack or something?

My concern is they might spot Third too since he goes often to Wan's , they should be more aware of their surroundings 😭

Like it is not unlikely for someone to have spotted them, based on the preview they know where Wan lives.

They need to learn how to lock. The whole time I was stressing someone will see them through the window, at least draw the curtains guys

EXACTLY! They conveyed so many emotions through their eyes and body language. The chemistry was off the charts, and I loved how their overall dynamic played out during that scene.

Third and Wan putting to good use all that bl knowledge they have accumulated over the years. Love to see it.

in my 7 years of watching bl dramas I have not encountered a sex scene that left me speechless and unable to articulate my thoughts. There is so much I want to praise but I cannot find the words. (Well I did take a 2 or 3 year break from watching bls so there might be other hidden gems, but I have still watched way too many bls and this stands out in so many aspects)

I am so obsessed with this show I made my friend watch it, she enjoys it but she said it is not memorable meanwhile THIS IS THE DRAMA THAT BROUGHT MY BL DRAMA OBSESSION BACK.

Just realized that Wan clocked Third's ass back at that episode when Wan was joking about Third actually liking him and being the reason behind bullying him, like my man did admit that he fell at first sight.

I LOVE it whenever Third calls Wan's name in a very certain tone when he wants to make his feelings come across and wants Wan to take him seriously (e.g. when Third asked him if he trusts him, or when he asked him to be his boyfriend and confessed). It is like a form of reassuring him by trying to make his feelings reach Wan and it drives me crazy. This is what I mean when I say the amount of details makes a difference, the small details in the show add so much depth.

People seem to interpret Third's playful side as out of character, but to me this is part of what makes the chemistry between the characters feel organic. Rarely do I feel a fictional couple having such great chemistry that makes me feel like an intruder. And I am not talking solely about the sex scene, but the overall vibe. It feels like I am peeking at someone's life, which is what makes this series stand out to me and I love how that chemistry remains during the sex scene and stays true to their overall dynamic. The sex scene was not there just for spicy time sake's (for the record, I like spicy scenes) it was there summing up the dynamic of a couple during a private and vulnerable moment. The whole episode I felt as if I was stalking a couple, the attention to detail, the directing, the acting all come together and give us this outstanding result.

Plus, it is refreshing to see a male lead be so open about his feelings ,it makes him more humane cause people do act goofy around the people they are close to and it only makes the romance between them more convincing.

I cannot stop thinking of this episode, it was AMAZING

Next Saturday cannot come soon enough.

The amount of times I re-watched that sex scene is embarrassing, but you cannot blame me. It was a masterpiece. Third's confession ( 'I really like you, if you would allow me I would say love right now') really reflected in the way he proceeded to make love to Wan, he is giving Wan the pace he needs, he is straightforward but tries to not come off too strong. It all comes down to what Wan allows him to do, also the way Wan gets shy whenever Third flirts with him was also reflected in his shyness to take that extra step. Wan does get shy whenever Third flirts, but he also admits that he likes it. The same is true for when they were having sex, Third was waiting for Wan, yearning for him while Wan was feeling shy but at the same time he was craving the close proximity as much as Third was. Also Third asking Wan if he trusts him on the day he slept over and Wan saying he does because he feels at ease with him, perfectly foreshadows how Third was taking into consideration Wan's mental state during sex, he wanted to create an environment where he feels safe. I am in awe with how the actors managed to convey both tenderness and desire, which made the whole scene feel authentic. This was absolute cinema.

IT IS REALLY A MASTERPIECE! The actors managed to convey so many emotions in the span of 10 minutes!

That sex scene exceeded all my expectations. It perfectly captured Wan's timidity, Third's softness, the tension and intimacy between them. Third adjusting to Wan's needs and pace sent me to another dimension, the acting and chemistry was so on point that I felt as if I was invading a private moment, yet I could not take my eyes off them. The build-up felt so authentic and emotional.

I love how Wan is the only one who can bring out Third's playful and silly side.