Jonghee isn’t allowed to have emotions, she has to be perfect and completely selfless according to the people…
Your comment doesn't align with the comments made on this forum. Jonghee is one of the most beloved and defended characters, and yet we're all forced to like the same fictional character. That's not the problem with "kdrama watchers." It's exactly what you said: your attempt to make people who don't identify with Jonghee feel bad and wrong in their opinions about a mere fictional series. The problem with "kdrama watchers." is that they don't know how to handle a story that doesn't follow their path, and the fact that not everyone agrees on the same things. This obligation, which I'll reiterate, that we all have to have the same point of view, including the story having to align with what we see and want, whether true or not is the real problem. What's so funny about us all liking the same character? How does that change your opinion or how you view the series?
i honestly can't blame jeonghui for finally bursting. At cheongah bus, she finally found a reason to live thanks…
You can blame and dislike whoever you want. Obviously, this doesn't make the character good or bad; it's a matter of preference. It's not a matter of those who like Kim Da Mi preferring her character or identifying more with her, or vice versa. We need to stop assuming our opinion is the absolute truth. No one is obligated to do anything. I loved the character Seo Jong Hui in the beginning, but today's episode, with all the victimization surrounding her, I found absurd. There isn't a single character in this drama who hasn't suffered, and to compare problems? It's ridiculous. Considering the current world and mental health, I found this speech unnecessary. Now, I don't think that just because I dislike certain of Seo Jong Hui's attitudes, everyone has to see things the same way I do. I'm sad that they turned a fearless, independent, and courageous character into someone seemingly selfish and completely insensitive, even uninformed. That doesn't mean everyone else has to feel the same way. This whole "I think this way because it is this way, and everyone else has to feel the same way" thing is childish.
So far I'm finding the story disappointing. I think the actors are doing a fantastic job and the editing is amazing, but the story itself, I thought it would be something different. Mi Ji is slightly self-centered (or the story is making it seem that way) because all we've seen is that she thinks she can't make people open up to her when in fact she's the one pushing them away probably because of her mother's background and not paying attention to her. Mi Rae is breaking my heart, because I don't know if we'll have her POV, but i feel everything is focused on Mi Ji. I don't understand the need for the narrative to be about twins, if the authors wanted so much to bring Mi Ji to life and make us empathize with her there was no need for twins. I hope the series improves. Because if the point is that Mi Ji is always there to cheer up and support others and no one is there for her, that's everyone's life at some point, I don't understand the victimization of something so human. I really want to like this serie so I will continue watch.
Jonghee is one of the most beloved and defended characters, and yet we're all forced to like the same fictional character.
That's not the problem with "kdrama watchers." It's exactly what you said: your attempt to make people who don't identify with Jonghee feel bad and wrong in their opinions about a mere fictional series.
The problem with "kdrama watchers." is that they don't know how to handle a story that doesn't follow their path, and the fact that not everyone agrees on the same things.
This obligation, which I'll reiterate, that we all have to have the same point of view, including the story having to align with what we see and want, whether true or not is the real problem.
What's so funny about us all liking the same character? How does that change your opinion or how you view the series?
Obviously, this doesn't make the character good or bad; it's a matter of preference.
It's not a matter of those who like Kim Da Mi preferring her character or identifying more with her, or vice versa.
We need to stop assuming our opinion is the absolute truth.
No one is obligated to do anything.
I loved the character Seo Jong Hui in the beginning, but today's episode, with all the victimization surrounding her, I found absurd. There isn't a single character in this drama who hasn't suffered, and to compare problems? It's ridiculous. Considering the current world and mental health, I found this speech unnecessary.
Now, I don't think that just because I dislike certain of Seo Jong Hui's attitudes, everyone has to see things the same way I do. I'm sad that they turned a fearless, independent, and courageous character into someone seemingly selfish and completely insensitive, even uninformed. That doesn't mean everyone else has to feel the same way.
This whole "I think this way because it is this way, and everyone else has to feel the same way" thing is childish.
Mi Ji is slightly self-centered (or the story is making it seem that way) because all we've seen is that she thinks she can't make people open up to her when in fact she's the one pushing them away probably because of her mother's background and not paying attention to her. Mi Rae is breaking my heart, because I don't know if we'll have her POV, but i feel everything is focused on Mi Ji. I don't understand the need for the narrative to be about twins, if the authors wanted so much to bring Mi Ji to life and make us empathize with her there was no need for twins.
I hope the series improves.
Because if the point is that Mi Ji is always there to cheer up and support others and no one is there for her, that's everyone's life at some point, I don't understand the victimization of something so human. I really want to like this serie so I will continue watch.