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They are literally 10 episodes in out of 40. What character development are you expecting already? Also, if you watch properly, you'd see that Sun Tou Tou is actually growing little by little already

She doesn't really have a right to get revenge because it's his property to start with. But she has every right to be heartbroken and furious. And also never want to speak to him again.
But if you think about it, the way he looked when she approached him, the suddenness of his actions, the look of sadness on his face when he stabbed her and the fact that it was very out of character for him, as a logical person (more logical than emotional), you'd think about all those things and your biggest question would be what happened to make him do that

The point is that she was not helping him because she loved him. It was because she felt bad about his situation. Then because she was with his heart scale and they needed each other to stay safe from Suying because of the heart scale. Also because she knew he's the only one she had ATM that could fix her heart after she helped him get back all his body parts. These points were made in the first 8 or 9 episodes

Tianyao is strong because I don't know how he was able to reject her to her face, when she looked so pretty and adorable. Oh the power of Trauma

Now that I have gotten everything off my chest, I await his character development and apology for this incident. I don't blame him for being unaware of his privilege because you have to properly look outside your bubble to see yourself in full picture. That is something he will hopefully learn later.
One thing I liked in this incident though is that STT got her punishment from the RXZ. She was responsible for her actions, and it'd teach her responsibility and to not be easily taken advantage of by others

Okay, I tried my best all day, but I can't hold back again. I have to say it.
Since RTZ appeared on screen in the first episode, he has shown signs of immaturity and obliviousness. How he responded to his friend in the dorm screamed unaware privilege and how he reacted to STT for being late. Yes it's her fault and she lied, but her job is not easy at all. Delivery persons have a very tasking job and there are so many variables involved. He could have complained in a more understanding way and listened to her better, but he didn't.
Now for today, I hoped it was me that was the problem when I saw the preview yesterday, but that's not the case. How do you even think up a scheme like intentionally getting a girl drunk and purposely leaving her on the bench outside? Then in the same frame of mind, he had the mind to run and hug Mengmeng, please be joking. Then when his mother was scolding him, he LAUGHED???? Did he forget that he just rescued her from the bloody lake? She almost died, and was in danger of many other things. He says he is taking responsibility for MM because of his misdiagnosis that almost cost her life, but not the same for STT? And then he kept quiet at the dining table the next day. no guilt or remorse to own his fault and apologise. WOW

Now this his relationship with MM is so terribly dangerous because this girl is obviously forming a bad attachment to him. And please he better not form any romantic feelings towards her because that's just not right. She's a mental patient, and is his patient. Also with their relationship, the power dynamic is not going to be healthy. His parents should have insisted some more about not letting her into their house. If he was so pressed, he should have gone to rent an apartment to take care of her in it. Would have nipped that problem in the bud

And no one can tell me his behaviour today is because of his relationship with his dad. That's just BS. He's a grown as man that does not just have an academic education, but an education on manners and good behaviour from his family. But he's acting like a 7 year old tyrant to someone much less privileged than him.

I actually need STT to properly tell him off one day without hiding behind the mask of it being a joke

💪🏾 Thank you

JuWan is being a presumptuous pest. He wants to start over with her and actually thinks he'll get her back😭

Based on the preview for next week, do I want to smack the JuWan or screenwriter, or both?

It is not unfair or undesirable either. Think about it, does the woman seem brainwashed or oppressed in her marriage?
In today's world, women are being taught that being a homemaker is a sign of oppression or toxicity and so many women have taken in a lot of this ideology and have run against their true desires and end up unhappy and that's not right. If you want to be a homemaker exclusively, follow that path and do it well. If you want to be a career woman, do it well too. If you want to be a career woman and homemaker, do it well too. Just marry someone who is on the same wavelength as you. Work and find your own rhythm.
There are many things that man has been doing outside his home and around it for their family and their practice and no one is complaining that she is not doing the same because it is looked as as his responsibility. That's not fair either is it? His wife works with him, but she has less responsibilities, so she does other things as her contribution. there are things she also does not want him to do because of his health and body and that plays into it too.

In the end, just be broad minded, objectively look at every detail and ask yourself honest questions. Consider culture and people's personal beliefs. If it's difficult and you want to really get to the bottom of it, then you can write down everything each character does and see if you can reach a conclusion.

He already knows she can't survive past three days without it. He said it Ina previous episode. I think he was just counting on finishing his mission quickly enough to get back and give it to her.

It's's just realistic. It wouldn't be a relatable story if everyone behaved in the most ideal way. Also, if the woman is happy fulfilling that role for her husband and family, who are we to say anything about it? My mom is a career woman, even more so than my dad now because he facing retirement and his job is much more relaxed now, but shes's till the homemaker. My dad does outside things like car and generator care and maintenance, handling most bills, handyman chores in the house and other things. My mother will NEVER do any of those things if my father is around, unless it's urgent and he has traveled. And even in some cases, he'd call someone else to handle it in his place. Both of my parents have clear
roles in the keeping of their family and it has worked for almost three decades of them being married.

So we should let couples find their own rhythm. Also, the show has just started, meaning there's time for some character development. And this show's storyline is meant to show growth in all the characters

I don't necessarily think the fiance was in the wrong, he was just working for the country. No matter the fact that the tyrant that killed his brother and family was King, he was still The King. So many successions happened that way. Would you say able men should not work for the kingdom if a coup changed the monarch? The problem with the man is that he's not a good King. He's a tyrant to the people and everyone that speaks against him or against his wishes. That's the problem everyone has, even Seol.

Anyway, I'm giving Hong Ju a period of Grace because she's right to be emotional and conflicted. She also definitely feels guilty. I'm much more logical than emotional, but I'm looking from her perspective. If she hears the full story when she's calmer or something, she may understand

Skill level is not what necessarily judges a fight as fair or not, if it's not planned or a sport. And in that case, when the six of them, minus Mr Jang were attacking one teenager, did they think of fairness? That's what's really unfair.

Thank you. I meant the actor. That's so sad. He's so young.

Omg what happened to him?

Please no. That'd make him and In-Ho brothers and just no

She's going to find out this week, so let's hope it ends well

Dr Kim's parentage is what has been on my mind as well. If she's put into debt because of that cafe, she should just sell the house and pay it off, since the woman put it in her name. I can't wait until she finds that out

From today's episode, you can understand why Dr Cha is the way she is. It's what she learnt from her mother. She's also a mother and a softie through and through, so deciding to leave this man is going to be difficult for her. She's doing a lot of back and forth mentally and emotionally rn as she assesses the situation, especially as she's trying to protect her children. Remember when she told Dr Roy that it takes a 100x more courage to get a divorce than to get married. She's been living with such bad treatment for 27 years and she had resigned herself to it and became docile. So let's give her a break and be patient with her. She has so many things to consider (and at the worst time, her foolish husband had to out them, sigh) and will have to fight herself in the process. She's only human. She's also going to make foolish decisions