vegprincess

Exactly. I think some people want/need an absolute one OR the other when these relationships are just way more complicated and nuanced. Not everyone can relate or accept it.

I am a XY Jing shipper but I obviously dont speak for anyone but myself

I have tried and I don't hear it. Nonetheless, I dont have a problem if she did say/mean it. But, it was also extremely painful to even consider. Waiting for him in the red dress is more than enough to convince me of her feelings for XL. And this does not take anything away from her feelings for TSJ or CX. Our girl is complex and loves them differently.

She loves the three of them in different ways. It does not ruin the HE.

I would argue that they have mutual respect at least.

he must have sent a puppet while he was in a coma. 🤷‍♀️

yes, and I don’t like how’s she’s Gugu-ing him and hiding behind him. He is being very controlling and I feel like she is being submissive to keep him from getting mad.

The incident that supposedly conceived that child was completely deceitful and also tore XY away from TSJ. of course it’s not the child’s fault but his presence is a reminder.

Well he was pretty abusive for a long time. I think she’s afraid of his temper. And rightly so, when he gets that murder look in his eye it’s scary.

obviously there was a gap. Mu may well have died before Jing’s coma.

the teaser with him saying one of his heads almost ate another head was hilarious.

I really wish Ah Nian would find someone to get her off her CX fixation. Doesn’t Ru Shou kind of like her?

And I loved that he didn’t let her leave without hearing his side.

Finally hearing XY admit that she’s a relationship pessimist and she never fully trusted TSJ. Then when things got complicated, she did nothing to help him and got what she sowed. I am bawling here.

This is a really enjoyable show. I am so impressed with the adorable duet of main leads in title sequence.

For me it’s not sml syndrome. He killed her and yet in the reset he is actively going against her “for her own good” and that really makes me squirm. His creepy smile when he thinks seducing FL will be a piece of cake again is just gross. He is also an elistist who looks down on commoners.

He was less toxic and didn’t try to flog her, bite her without consent, drown her, throw her out of a tree and so on.

she’s his trophy wife and that’s it.

To be honest, XY is just a trophy wife for Fenglong. The way he ignored XY when visiting with grandpa was just awkward as hell. However, I agree this was not the way to do it.

I agree, I think TSJ and XL understand that about each other in wanting XY to be happy. TSJ even said XY would be better off with FFB than Fenglong.