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Replying to Watching Again Apr 11, 2025
You can find lyrics and everything here:http://www.fm169.cn/musicvotelist_s9221.htmlOrhttps://youtu.be/jGBfw-4OpIE?si=R2Z3o08wkL4nwwk3
You're welcome. Actually the singer appeared in the drama as a soldier under Ouyang Shao.

Here's a video clip of him singing that song while playing on the piano:
https://m.weibo.cn/detail/5138796493409808

https://m.weibo.cn/p/index?extparam=%E8%B0%A2%E5%BA%9A%E6%B2%84&containerid=1008084cc2847e18e9ff9aab4f3b110b0a7ca4&luicode=20000061&lfid=4924241591931050
Replying to Amarina Apr 10, 2025
Title To Love or to Defy Spoiler
Hopefully you have better luck than I did with these last episodes... I caved and bought the Express... I wish…
I think you're right. 5 years have passed. The dialogue messed it up for me. When she said "this time"...it makes me think there are other times. Wow...5 years away is too long. If it's me...I don't know if I still feel the same...hehe.
Replying to Amarina Apr 10, 2025
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You're not the only one who didn't understand the point... I figured the same that it had to be because she wanted…
I think the level of disappointment depends on the level of how much you care about his character. Even he thinks she's cruel and stubborn.

Because it's a short drama, the emotional investment is much less. The pain was too quick. I didn't even think about the injustice his character faced. They wrapped it up so quickly.

At the beginning of episode 24, when he asked her if she loved him and she said she'll give an answer after he's back with victory. I think love is secondary for her. It's like, I have more important things to worry about.

I understand your frustration. It's an imbalanced relationship from the beginning.
Replying to Amarina Apr 10, 2025
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Hopefully you have better luck than I did with these last episodes... I caved and bought the Express... I wish…
I rewatched the last episode and around the 12 minutes mark, she said : "This time you returned, are you going again? " He said he's not going anymore. That makes me think it's not the first time he returned within the last 5 years. Now that it's more stable, he doesn't need to be away. I don't know why but that's the way I interpreted that scene when I first saw it. Now, I'm doubting myself...what if it's not...then it'll be as bad as you said. I'm glad to have someone to bounce ideas around because I'm about to move on from this drama.

As for his mother, she said she helped her because of her son. She doesn't want him to live in sorrow without his love. I guess he talked to his mom about this before and asked her to help. We just have to assume this...hehe.

And he's only dead to the people in the palace but he's not to his army. But I agree about him being her secret lover. That is not right no matter what. It's one thing to make changes to society's view and treatment of women...but not at that cost.

I know your feeling...when you're more invested in a drama...you looked at it through a special lense.

For me, while I liked many aspects of this drama, I wasn't emotionally invested in their relationship. Maybe it's the chemistry or maybe it's just the story itself. Maybe I should subtract one point off the story rating due to its treatment of his character.
Replying to Amarina Apr 10, 2025
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You're not the only one who didn't understand the point... I figured the same that it had to be because she wanted…
I think he always wanted to help change the way women were treated but couldn't until she made it happen. They wanted to highlight the differences... how he stood out among the rest of the guys. When I was watching the last episode... when she gave him 2 choices. I knew instantly the ending. Everything happened so quickly so I didn't feel the injustice for him. I knew he would choose her regardless.
Replying to Amarina Apr 10, 2025
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Hopefully you have better luck than I did with these last episodes... I caved and bought the Express... I wish…
The gap of 5 years closed in a few minutes so I didn't think much. She only gave him 2 choices. 1 is being alive but stayed faraway. 2 is to fake his death and returning to her. He has to pick her. Everything happened too quickly and it ended quickly too. I kind of guessed that ending so I wasn't shocked.
Replying to Doma Apr 10, 2025
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do they have a child at the end?
No, it just ended with him returning to her after 5 years. He talked about that too. They hugged and she said she loves him. It's a short drama so they ended quickly.
Replying to Neverland Apr 9, 2025
This drama's plot is a little messy but I somehow still like the drama. Maybe because this one is short and easy…
Yeah, for a short drama, Tencent really puts in the investments...quality shows. The short drama segment has been growing leaps and bounds. Tencent's strategy is to capture this market and sets itself apart from the lower quality "vertical micro dramas".

This drama surprises me because of its high production value. It's even better than some high budget dramas currently airing.

Anyway, be patient...the ending is near. :) It's good until the end. I promise.

If you listened to the theme song this is part of the lyrics:

" Lifetime after lifetime, I vow to protect you.
Hand in hand, we travel through mountains and rivers
Until in the end, we reunite
Bound by shared emotions, we stayed together
Bound by shared emotions, we grow old together. "

https://youtu.be/jGBfw-4OpIE?si=7gn6RefP2adFsgtF
Replying to Watching Again Apr 9, 2025
Title To Love or to Defy Spoiler
Yes :)
You're welcome. Here's the literal ending: " Ouyang Shao, did I ever tell you? I love you." " You said it."
Replying to Mystery_d9 Apr 8, 2025
How many times in total did she slap him 🥲😂
I didn't count but a lot. At least 10? I think there's a scene where she slapped him 3 times in roll.
Replying to Mystery_d9 Apr 8, 2025
Title Game of True Love Spoiler
Please give me a spoiler … they will have happy ending or not ?
Yes. First 33 episodes are great then went downhill but recovered in the end.
Replying to Hyunelovebot Apr 8, 2025
The number of episodes are giving me anxiety 😭
It's about the length of the regular 25 episodes drama
Replying to Watching Again Apr 8, 2025
I'm writing a detailed review so wait for it...it's taking a bit longer because it's a long drama. For now you…
I think it's called Gentlemen of East 8th. I didn't watch it. I only heard it was taken offline because it was so offensive and disrespectful the way ML treated FL or something like that. It was in the news a lot in 2022 for all the wrong reasons.
Replying to Watching Again Apr 7, 2025
She did it on purpose because she didn't want to pull him into it. What she did in episode 19 is much worst. He…
After watching so many dramas, I'm used to it but it's still annoying...hehe.
Replying to unbeliebubble Apr 7, 2025
Title To Love or to Defy Spoiler
17 : "This is between the crown prince and me. I must deal with it myself."Honestly at this point what can you…
She did it on purpose because she didn't want to pull him into it. What she did in episode 19 is much worst. He must be really heartbroken but didn't show. He still thinks for her like always. It's like...the deeper the wounds, the deeper the love. Only we can see it.


"It's my choice."
"I'm not afraid to die. Even if I did at your hands, I won't have any regrets."
Replying to Watching Again Apr 7, 2025
I'm writing a detailed review so wait for it...it's taking a bit longer because it's a long drama. For now you…
That's why it's called slap kissed genre. FL slaps and ML kisses...hehe.
Replying to Watching Again Apr 7, 2025
I wrote a review in the review section. You can have a look. It might anwer some questions. It's not a "true"…
Yeah, I also feel the same way about the slap kisses...They're over doing it for sure. Even behind the scene, when they were going through the script, HRX was pretending to slap him, even he was shock that she slapped him the 3rd time in that scene.
Replying to Watching Again Apr 7, 2025
I'm writing a detailed review so wait for it...it's taking a bit longer because it's a long drama. For now you…
I think it's the first time you're exposed to this slap kiss genre that's why your reaction is so strong. This drama is based on a popular slap kiss Thai drama. Even for me, there are too many slap kisses in this drama. They're overdoing it for sure.