Mrs Gong

I watched this drama because of its high ratings and beautiful posters — but after finishing it, I honestly regret it 😩. I only completed it because I had already downloaded all the episodes and used a lot of my data, so I didn’t want it to go to waste.
🌸 The basic stuff (so you know what I watched)

It’s set in the Song dynasty and follows Zhao Pan’er and two other women who go to the capital and build a restaurant/teahouse business together. The cast includes Liu Yifei (Pan’er) and Chen Xiao, and the drama focuses a lot on female friendship, business, and social struggles rather than nonstop action.

✅ What worked (for others… and a little for me too)

I can admit the visuals are stunning 🌸 — the costumes, sets, and whole Song dynasty atmosphere are absolutely beautiful. Every frame looks refined and artistic (and yeah, reviewers from Tumblr, ElizabethTai.com, and Chasing Dramas also praised this).

The drama focuses on a strong female lead, Zhao Pan’er, who rises from humble beginnings and builds her own business 💪. That’s refreshing compared to the usual palace-intrigue or fantasy-heavy dramas. I really loved this part about her.

It also highlights female solidarity — Pan’er, Song Yin Zhang, and Sun San Niang helping each other survive in a male-dominated world. That sisterhood theme was nice to see, even though I didn’t personally connect with those two characters much.

The script also tries to explore topics like justice, class prejudice, and women’s independence, not just romance or fighting. It’s clear they wanted to make something with depth.

❌ What disappointed me (and honestly, frustrated me)

The pacing was painfully slow 🐢. Many people called it a “slow burn,” but for me, it was just slow. The story started fine, then lost energy completely. Every episode felt stretched, and it was hard to stay interested.

The main couple — sorry, but I didn’t feel anything. 💔
People said they had mature chemistry, but I only felt boredom when they were together. No spark, no emotion, nothing beautiful or wow. I’m not a fan of either lead, but still, I expected more feelings between them.

The business plot, which could have been exciting, felt repetitive. They open a teahouse, face problems, talk business… yet it’s still dull. The restaurant scenes weren’t engaging, and the customers’ dialogue often felt meaningless.

As for the side characters: Yin Zhang was just too foolish for me 🙄, and San Niang didn’t have any charm either. Their subplots were weak and didn’t add much to the main story.

There were no good-looking male characters, no great action scenes, and no “wow” moments at all. For a drama that was so hyped, I honestly don’t understand why.

🎯 Why it probably got high ratings (even if I disagree)

I can see why some people loved it. It’s different from typical costume dramas — no fantasy, no over-the-top martial arts, but more grounded realism. It focuses on female empowerment and social messages, and critics admired that.

Also, the production quality is top-tier 🎥. The sets, costumes, and cinematography are gorgeous. And of course, Liu Yifei’s popularity helped it gain attention. So, from a “quality” viewpoint, it’s understandable why it got high ratings — just not from my taste.

💬 My honest feelings

For me, it was just boring. I expected something emotionally moving or exciting, but instead, it gave me subtle emotions and slow pacing. Maybe that’s the style they aimed for, but it didn’t suit what I enjoy in dramas.

I prefer when there’s either a strong romance, powerful chemistry, or thrilling tension — something that keeps me hooked. This one had none of that. So even though it’s well-made, it simply didn’t connect with me.